My initial experience with a chastity cage

Hi there, I just got my hands on a holy trainer v3. I stuck to their sizing guide, but I suspect I messed up somewhere. The cage feels quite heavy and awkward, which makes me wonder if the ring is too tight for me. However, here’s the key point: I’m able to slide the unit down and slip my penis out of it, which kind of defeats the purpose. Does this mean the ring is actually too large? Would switching to a smaller one solve the problem? And would that small size bring more than just discomfort—maybe even pain? Thanks in advance for any advice.

Take some time to browse and search through the forum archives. You’ll likely find your answers here.

If you can extract it without much trouble, then the ring is definitely too small. In my experience, most devices *do* feel bulky and 'uncomfortable' at first...though that might ease slightly once your body gets used to wearing one...

> TwistedMister wrote: ↑Mon Mar 02, 2020 4:27 am > If you can extract it without much trouble, then the ring is too small Wait a minute, did you say too small or too big?

From my perspective, TOO BIG is the real culprit. I've discovered that if a ring is snug enough to prevent easy extraction from the rear but still allows entry (in solid rings), it's basically impossible for me to manage, so now I'm looking for a good hinged option. However, I am quite petite myself, so don't take this as universal truth; generally, though, a loose setup indicates an A-ring that is too large, meaning you need to experiment with smaller sizes until something clicks. My HT ring measures 36mm and it's still too big!! They haven't released any smaller versions yet, hence my ongoing search. MsM’s ld

> ChastityNoob wrote: ↑Fri Mar 06, 2020 4:07 pm > > TwistedMister wrote: ↑Mon Mar 02, 2020 4:27 am > > If you can extract it without much trouble, then the ring is too small > Wait a minute, did you say too small or too big? Doh!:oops: Good eye. Too big. I meant to say too big. That's what happens when posting early in the morning before enough caffeine kicks in. 'Too small' makes absolutely no sense now. Another excuse is that Mrs. Twisted let me out last night for sex and left me uncaged...so here I sat with a massive erection but barely any blood flow reaching my head.

> TwistedMister wrote: ↑Sat Mar 07, 2020 8:04 am > > ChastityNoob wrote: ↑Fri Mar 06, 2020 4:07 pm > > > TwistedMister wrote: ↑Mon Mar 02, 2020 4:27 am > > > If you can extract it without much trouble, then the ring is too small > > Wait a minute, did you say too small or too big? > Another excuse is that Mrs. Twisted let me out last night for sex and left me uncaged...so here I sat with a massive erection but barely any blood flow reaching my head. Show-off!

The ring is too small. It's unusual to be able to remove it so easily.

> lockod wrote: ↑Sun Mar 01, 2020 1:22 am > I’m able to slide the unit down and slip my penis out of it, which kind of defeats the purpose. First off, unless you’re using a PA or a urethra tube for security, any ball trap device will allow you to pull out. None offer 100% blockage in that way. Regardless, if the base ring isn't tight enough, when an erection occurs, the entire unit tends to rise with it and slide down your scrotum. Therefore, the ideal size is the tightest fit possible without cutting off circulation. I’ve seen men wearing their chastity device with such a loose base ring that it dangles loosely on soft tissue. That’s not what you want. For the best fitting base ring, head to a large hardware store and grab various sizes of silicone "O" rings to test for one that fits snugly yet comfortably without restricting blood flow. If your penis turns deep red and feels cool to the touch, the ring is too tight. With silicone rings, if it's too tight after application, you can easily cut them off with scissors. An adult toy shop will also carry silicone cockrings in different sizes; they cost more but are cheaper than guessing and ordering multiple base rings from a chastity manufacturer. Once you locate the right ring, remove it and measure the INSIDE diameter—not the outside. Some makers list sizes in inches while others use mm. I've found that choosing an anatomically designed ring provides much greater comfort because it conforms closely to your pubic bone area.