Ball Pain and Ache Discussion

So to those of you who have spent time in long-term chastity, I have a question. I am now locked up with no orgasm and my erections are unrestrained. I’m experiencing a low-level ball ache (blue balls) and feeling very horny. Does the ball pain get better as you go longer without an orgasm, or does it persist? Do you do anything to ease this discomfort? Is this a precursor to having a wet dream? (I haven’t had one since I was a teenager.)

From what I understand (though I’m not an expert, just someone in long-term lock), semen isn't stored directly inside the testicles; it's produced there. If anywhere, it’s held in the prostate. So “blue balls” isn’t really about having "full" balls. It’s more a result of being continuously aroused, which pulls your balls up tight and causes discomfort from that tension. I would say at times like these I definitely feel my balls are swollen and larger, though I’m not certain if they actually grow in size. Anyway, I believe it is simply the sensation of arousal and "tightness" you are feeling. Wet dreams, etc., are more caused by the prostate and all the “tubes” filling up, in my view. Enjoy the sensation; use it to enhance your sense of being locked and denied!! MsM’s ld

I recall reading somewhere that this is a smooth muscle ache. I believe I found the reference - with arousal, semen gathers at the base of the urethra, and if not expelled, it can cause pain. ... -you-down/ I have become accustomed to sustained arousal without release. So, I’d wager that yes, the discomfort will lessen over time. Regarding wet dreams, I never experienced one until after five and a half months of denial - no orgasms, no “ruins”, nothing to expel semen. It was an interesting experience. It hurt because I was trying to stop it, even though I was only half-asleep, and I hadn’t dreamed of anything overtly sexual. The dream seemed to involve some administrative details of organizing a kink discussion circle. I am really curious to see if there will be another involuntary release, and when. I’m approaching 11 months denied, so — is the rhythm around five and a half to six months, or does this happen less frequently? One could argue I’m a bit obsessed:).

Not much is stored in your testicles. They are there to produce sperm and testosterone. The body constantly creates sperm; if it isn't used, it dies off and new ones replace it. "Prior to ejaculation sperm cells are stored throughout the genital tract. Most of them are in a long-coiled tube on the backside of the testicle called the epididymis or at the very end of the vas deferens. The epididymis connects to the vas deferens which connects the testicle to the seminal vesicles and prostate where most of the seminal fluid is produced. Volume: A normal semen volume is 1.5 – 6.8 mL. Semen volume is most sensitive to frequency of ejaculation. Like sperm, seminal fluid is generated over time and it takes a day or two to fully recover fluid following an ejaculation. During long periods of abstinence, seminal fluid production slows or stops until ejaculation." Full article " Yes, my balls have a low-level ache pretty much all the time. My longest denial was 8 weeks which ended two weeks ago. They're already feeling a bit achy again. It reaches a certain level of pain and stays there for me. Sometimes I forget it's there, but when things slow down, you notice it. Blue balls is a medically recognized condition. here's a fun article. ... blue-balls Personally, I think it's an evolutionary trait designed to keep men looking for sex, lots of sex, as often as they can get it.

I noticed a few months into chastity, with release every two weeks or so, that blue balls stopped happening for me. I’ve had them a couple times since then, particularly after heavy teasing without any prostate relief. Or significant temperature changes, which causes the balls to ride higher.

My "blue balls" symptoms are mild, but they certainly haven't receded since I started T&D in late 2017. Even though I've had perhaps half a dozen orgasms since then (plus some ruins), I've never had a wet dream and can only remember one in my entire life, about 20 years ago. I do spend quite a bit of time close to the edge though, so perhaps my body considers that near enough:D

I occasionally get the 'ache', usually after being highly aroused for an extended period of time such as a long session of pleasing Mrs. Twisted and/or being ‘teased’ while locked. It tends to go away on its own, though I've read that there are exercises you can do to help alleviate it.

> though I've read that there are exercises you can do to help alleviate it. Squats and deadlifts. No, seriously. The issue is vasocongestion, in which your soft tissues become engorged with blood, anticipating an erection and resultant release.

That's the best thing about this forum so much real experience. Thanks for all the replies. I have now been 44 days since my last orgasm and full erection. The ball ache is a low-level constant. I think I am hornier than ever, so much so that I seem to be trying to get hard frequently, even without a clear reason. It's like my body is saying 'get release', clearly without any success! Obviously this adds to the ball ache looking at all your posts, creating a vicious circle. You definitely learn things about your body you had no real idea about before chastity. I am not sure how long this latest lock up will be as it is our rule that I don't ask. It does seem to be addictive, but also love and hate: I really want an orgasm and erection at the same time while I'm wallowing in the feeling of horniness and desperation, wanting that state to continue.