MutedApricot Fresh Trials and Chastity Adventures

Hey everyone,

I’m a guy in my mid-thirties living with my girlfriend of two years. When she went away for a week back in March, I started getting really turned on by the idea of locking up. I’d seen cages before but never thought much about them until then. Once she got home, those thoughts stuck around for another week, so I finally gave in and bought an inexpensive metal cage from Amazon. The waiting period was agonizing. I was constantly erect with anticipation, yet anxious about how to bring it up with her.

We have a little game where we leave notes for each other hidden around the house. When you find one, you must open it immediately and do what it commands—things like “strip naked and come find me” or “give me oral right now.” Since it can take weeks for a note to be discovered, it’s entertaining and adds spurts of excitement at random moments. Anyway, I left a note instructing her to “buy a kinky toy,” which I knew she’d found eventually. When the topic came up, I used that as an opening to mention that while writing the note, I had also purchased something for myself. She reacted with enthusiasm and wanted details, so despite my embarrassment, I showed her a photo of it. Her reaction was much better than expected; there was mostly bewilderment about what it actually was, how it functioned, and why I’d want to wear it, but she was supportive and seemed genuinely intrigued.

A few days later, the cage arrived at noon while we were both working from home. My girlfriend wanted a look, so I opened the box and handed it over. She took the keys briefly before handing them back. I headed to the bathroom to fit it on, and her curiosity led her in about a minute later to see how it looked. I had accidentally ordered a 50mm base ring (thinking three sizes were included), making it slightly larger than optimal, but I caught the mistake during shipping and also picked up a 40mm one. It went on easily enough without being so loose that I could slip out. She secured the lock and joked about how hard it would be to locate those keys.

I’m thrilled with the whole process. There are so many new sensations, some quite odd, along with having a partner who is open to my experimentation. About an hour in, I needed to urinate and realized I’d have to sit down. It felt strange, and initially, it was difficult to go. I also worried about the device slipping off into the toilet (I later learned it won’t come off without the key), so I used a shoelace to tie around my waist for security. This changed how the cage felt entirely—it became more comfortable with less room for expansion.

Soon after, signs appeared that she didn’t fully grasp the setup when she was grossed out by me peeing while wearing it. She had assumed I’d remove it every time. I explained that practically speaking, I have to keep it on since she isn’t always present, and I’ll ensure cleanliness each time. She’s also horrified at the thought of me going outside with it; fortunately, we’re in lockdown, so only grocery runs are a concern. Later that day, she insisted I shouldn’t sleep with it on. I agreed reluctantly but noted my preference for keeping it on continuously.

My first encounter without using my penis for intercourse was thrilling. She brought out a vibrator and used it on herself as well as the cage. I loved being aroused yet unable to finish, while she managed her release comfortably.

Before bedtime, we talked again. She seemed slightly more concerned about the duration; she thought this would be a brief amusement rather than something long-term. I clarified that I wasn’t seeking permanent chastity (though I wouldn’t mind it) and hoped to wear it constantly for roughly a week just to experience it fully. Moving forward, she can decide how often and how long to keep me locked. She relaxed somewhat and agreed that since this is important to me, I should wear it full-time over the upcoming four-day weekend, after which we’ll reassess.

Day 2 I slept well initially but woke up extremely hard because I had removed the shoelace and the base ring had shifted away from my body. The shoelace worked effectively but was quite uncomfortable, so I swapped it for a dressing gown cord—much improved! I consciously tried to act normal today and avoided discussing the cage around her. I didn't want this topic to dominate our weekend. My girlfriend has to head out for several hours, leaving me alone for the first time. Whenever I remember that she holds the key, it gets me hard again. I needed to visit the supermarket, marking my first public outing since starting this journey. The cage is bulky and the lock protrudes noticeably, but I found a pair of shorts that concealed it well, allowing me to shop in comfort. One point my girlfriend raised yesterday was her dislike of being dominant; she prefers if I take more charge rather than less. She’s right—we are both shy people who prefer letting the other lead, though even then, I usually let her initiate most interactions. Taking this into account, I decided to assert control over our evening intimacy and try some new approaches she had hinted at previously. I wanted her to see that we can still have excellent fun without penetrative sex and that she doesn’t need to be the dominant partner while the cage is in place. When she returned home, we ended up lying on the bed together. After some fondling, I removed her t-shirt and bra, tying her hands to the bedposts. She had joked about getting handcuffs before, so I assumed this would be fine for her. Then I secured her feet to the other posts and placed a blindfold over her eyes—all of this was new territory for us. I introduced a small vibrator and a dildo while licking her pussy. Later she admitted that although she started out nervous, she thoroughly enjoyed it. We then had our most serious conversation in the relationship so far. Several minor issues had been simmering for ages and were becoming significant problems, but nothing we couldn't fix easily. We went through a period late last year where sex happened only about once a week, and she felt she was always initiating. Now she worries that this new chastity interest means I simply don’t desire much sex overall. While I see how she made that connection, for me it is more about the control aspect than the frequency of intercourse. She seemed relieved to have expressed her concerns and pleased with my response, promising to try harder in return. The main task ahead for me is initiating sex whenever I feel aroused instead of waiting for a perfect moment. I can definitely do that! We continued discussing this cock cage situation. She understands the concept behind chastity and has no issue with it theoretically but struggles visually with the physical device, seeing it as an obstacle to intimacy. I explained that the tangible barrier is what matters most to me; I love knowing I cannot get hard, orgasm, or touch until she releases me. Next, we discussed my expectations for the future. This doesn’t need to be a regular occurrence; I just want her occasionally decide to lock me up unexpectedly without telling me when or how long it will last. It doesn’t even have to be a full week—a day or weekend is still enjoyable. She seems quite on board with this, as she was previously worried that I wanted something permanent. We feel much better positioned after this chat. A lot of air has been cleared, and since one issue involved poor communication from both sides, it felt good to speak openly about our likes and dislikes. During the conversation, I mentioned that what would really seal it for me is if we reached release day and just as she was about to unlock me... she changed her mind and kept me locked longer. I also said that if she isn't getting much enjoyment from this herself, I am happy for her to take it off early. Now I don’t know exactly when my release will happen—whether on Monday or before/after:D

Day 3 I woke up hard and hornier than I’ve been in a long time. Keeping the cage tied to my waist overnight helped keep the base ring close to my body. When my girlfriend woke, we talked again, reflecting on everything so far; she was much happier with how things were going now. A major hurdle for her is that she gets aroused when my cock is hard, and this setup prevents that from happening easily. I asked if she hadn't gotten anything out of this yet, and she said she’d had fun over the last few days but wasn't sure it was specifically due to chastity. She enjoyed being tied up and blindfolded but wondered whether I would have done those things anyway or if they were new strategies because my cock was caged. She even hinted that I might remain locked longer than until Monday, though since I mentioned liking the idea of her saying so, I’m uncertain when release day actually is. Then she started stroking my balls and after a minute or two suddenly stopped, telling me to go make her coffee. I loved it. Later, I decided to go for a run. I taped down the padlock to prevent noise and found shorts that hid the cage well. Running was surprisingly comfortable with no issues. The rest of the day passed normally; she didn't mention the cage much, and I forgot about it several times. In the evening, my girlfriend had a surprise for me. She announced that her key was hidden on her body and if I found it, she might temporarily release me provided I agreed to certain conditions. We kissed and fondled each other. When I finally removed her bra, I found the key. She snatched it back from me and revealed the terms: "I will let you out for a short while but you mustn't cum; afterward, I’ll lock you up again. If you do cum, you will still be locked back in, and you won’t touch me or see me naked until my next release." I accepted her terms, and she turned the key to unlock me for the first time. My cock was throbbing by then and went fully erect almost instantly. She ordered me to lie down and rode me. This position works very well for her, and while I liked it too, I found it difficult to cum from this angle, so I wasn't overly worried about potential punishment yet. Then she gave me a hand job. It was much harder to hold back now, but I remained determined not to enjoy it 'too' much. Next came the blowjob; again, it felt wonderful, and somehow I held out. It was a short but enjoyable break from confinement before she put the cage straight back on. My cock appeared too large for the cage at that moment, so we waited ten minutes until it subsided enough for her to snap the lock shut. Today has been an awesome day. I think she really understands what I get out of this now. Even if chastity isn't quite her thing, she is willing to tolerate my wearing it for short periods and ensure I maximize the experience. We chatted a bit more; she prefers keeping sex separate from daily life, so accepting it permanently would be tough for her. She wouldn’t mind if I wanted it permanent occasionally but not constantly. I suggested we do this once or twice a year for a week or weekend at times that suit her schedule. She is fine with that arrangement, and I am happy to keep it as a rare surprise.

Day 4 I woke up hornier than ever and 'needing' some kind of release but knowing none was coming only heightened that desire. When my girlfriend woke, she asked if I wanted coffee; I couldn't resist any longer and needed to do something active, so I licked her pussy and then immediately made the coffees as soon as she climaxed. The rest of the day passed fairly quietly. I stayed home alone, still slightly horny but less intense than this morning. In the evening, my girlfriend sat on my lap and ground against my cage through our clothes. By now, I was just as aroused as in the morning, yet positioned such that doing much about it while caged is difficult. As I started stripping her down, she only removed her top half before announcing, "I'm all done. Let's go to bed." I felt thoroughly unsatisfied—and loved it. She never solely focuses on herself; part of what I want from this experience is for her to enjoy sex without feeling pressured to reciprocate fully. So it was incredibly hot that she shut me down like that. Tomorrow is the day we agreed would see my release. My girlfriend isn't entirely onboard with chastity yet, but knowing our commitment is short-term means she has definitely been having more fun over these last couple of days. She has put in great effort to ensure I get what I want out of trying this and hasn’t released me early despite offering the option.

Day 5 I woke to my girlfriend stroking the cage and playing with my balls. She then unlocked me and said I was free to do as I pleased. All I wanted was standard missionary sex with a rock-hard cock. It felt much better than usual, as if we hadn’t done it in ages (which essentially is true). I lasted longer than expected, and we both climaxed around the same time. Afterward, I felt relieved that I didn't have to put the cage back on immediately. I had a feeling she might insist on it, considering I’d previously expressed interest, but in the moment, I wanted to stay free. The cage was fun while worn, but now that it was off, I was glad not to be confined anymore. After an hour or so, the desire to be caged returned, though not as strongly as before. I am happy to pack it away for now. Our short experience has concluded. I found it a huge turn-on, although my girlfriend didn't get quite as much out of it directly. She had a good time despite the cage rather than because of it. Moving forward, I’ll leave it up to her to decide when she wants to lock me again. Knowing that I enjoyed it makes her happy to do so occasionally. I like the idea of her surprising me suddenly. A 40mm base ring arrives this week. I was using a 50mm one which was too large, but I am unsure if 40mm will be too small. Once I confirm my size, I will order another cage that is shorter and features an integrated lock. The current device is a cheap stainless steel Chinese model from Amazon. It’s actually quite good, just slightly too long, heavy, and the padlock makes it harder to conceal under clothing. For now, the journey pauses, but I will update again next time I am caged.

Immediately after being released, I ordered a new cage that was slightly shorter with a smaller base ring and an integrated lock. It arrived a couple of days later; I wore it briefly for a few hours to test the fit before removing it and packing it away. Fast forward seven weeks without any chastity activity or even discussion about it, when suddenly the urge returned to wear my new cage. I decided to just wear it during the day while we both worked from home, planning to unlock it later in the afternoon. I doubted she would even notice, so there was no harm done and it served as a confidence booster knowing it doesn't show through clothes. It felt great being back inside a device. I hadn’t given this particular one much of a trial before, but I filled it completely even when flaccid, eliminating the need to tie string around my waist to keep it close. Once work finished, I planned to unlock myself and put the cage away without telling her, but it felt wrong to do so quietly. So, I decided to tell her later that I had worn it during the day, then hand over the keys for her to unlock me again. She could hold onto them so I couldn't re-wear it until she permitted (since I can’t put it on without the key). I was regretting this conversation because I knew she hadn't been particularly keen before. Despite being awesome and giving it a good try, it just wasn’t her thing. Also, she had asked me to be more proactive in initiating sex—a promise I made but haven’t fully acted upon yet—so indulging in the cage again felt somewhat selfish. I simply came out and said I had two things to tell her. First, I needed to apologize for not being as proactive as promised. I hadn't ignored what she’d said; I just hadn’t been as up for it in recent weeks, and changing habits takes time. She was very cool about it, saying it was okay, then asked what the second thing was. I told her I had put my cage on that morning and handed her the keys. She laughed, grabbed them from me, and asked if I was still wearing it. Upon confirming, she placed the keys in her pocket and said she might not let me out later. Hot!! A couple of hours later we went to bed, and I started touching her in ways she likes. She jumped up and retrieved her top off the floor to get the keys from her pocket. Then she put them into a drawer and got back into bed. At first glance, it looked like she was going to unlock me, but she just wanted to ensure they didn't end up in the washing machine next morning. A fake-out is super hot!! After more fondling, she couldn’t take any more, retrieved the keys from the drawer, and unlocked me. I felt a little disappointed that I still hadn't spent a night inside the cage, but we had great sex. I made sure not to cum in case she insisted on re-caging me because I wanted to stay horny. Afterwards, she packed everything away for "another time," with a sly smile. Now it is truly in her hands when that will be, and the thought that at any moment she could suddenly surprise me with another round is a huge turn-on.

Quick update. About a week back I suddenly felt the urge to be caged again. My girlfriend hadn’t brought it up since my last short stint, so when we had sex a week ago, I made sure not to ejaculate and mentioned afterwards that I’d like to get locked in because I hadn’t worn this new device overnight yet and wasn't completely certain it would stay comfortable for more than just a few hours. She simply replied "okay" and we went to bed. I had sex three more times during the week, holding back my release each time, but she gave no indication of retrieving the cage again. Last night, mid-sex, she asked, "Is this a cum or no-cum kind of night?" I reminded her about the cage by saying it depends on whether she plans to lock me up afterwards. After sex, at our usual stopping point, I was still rock hard and asked if she wanted to continue. She agreed, so I suggested she take the top position. Once she finished, she handed me the cage from a drawer, and I headed to the bathroom to put it on. It went in quickly, and she used the key to secure it. I find it very appealing that I don't have to touch the key; letting her handle both locking and unlocking feels right. I’m writing this the next morning after wearing the cage overnight for the first time. It feels snug but not uncomfortable, and it didn’t wake me up during the night. My only slight concern is whether the metal might rub or cause sores since it’s a bit rough, but we’ll see how things go. There was no discussion about the duration of this lockup; she could unlock me as soon as she wakes up tomorrow morning, or I might stay locked for 8 days (her birthday). I love that uncertainty!

Night two is done and I’m still locked in:D When my girlfriend woke up yesterday, I deliberately didn’t mention the cage and just carried on with the day as normal. She was out most of the time anyway since I worked from home. Part of me worried that if I reminded her about the cage, she might take it off, but I was so excited to wear it that I held back those teasing moments. While she was away, I made sure to tackle some chores. I’m usually good at cleaning, but I put in extra effort and even did the laundry, which is typically her job. When she got home later that evening, we cooked dinner together and watched a movie. I felt more confident than usual, touching her more often, and I think she enjoyed it. During the film, she rested her legs on my lap; I’m fairly sure she could feel the cage through my clothes but didn’t say anything all day. If she had forgotten about it, this would have been a gentle reminder. After the movie, I gave her a kiss. Usually, initiating is hard for me, but today it came easily. She then asked, "How was your first night in the cage?" At first, I misunderstood and thought she meant 'the first of many,' which instantly turned me on, but she actually meant my very first time wearing this specific cage overnight. I told her I slept well with no issues. We kissed again on the sofa, and I went down on her until she climaxed. Afterwards, she asked if I was okay before we headed to bed. Initially, I worried that she had lost interest in chastity entirely, but now I’m less sure. She clearly remembered many of the preferences I shared when we tried it a couple of months ago. Normally, after I went down on her, she would try harder to please me, but today it was just an "are you good?" before sleep. I love that dynamic. Overall, I think she remains neutral about the whole arrangement, but if I can show her how much better I am when caged, maybe I’ll be able to tip the scales in my favor.

When I wake up from night two, the cage is a bit painful. It feels incredibly tight and squeezes my balls. I adjust slightly and apply some Vaseline, which solves the issue. When flaccid it’s fine, but when erect, there is some rubbing. I’m working from home again, and my girlfriend is also at home in the morning. Just before she heads out for her day, I decide to shower while wearing nothing but the cage. She walks into the bedroom just then; I think this is the first time she’s seen me like this with the new device. Whether it’s the look of the cage or the power dynamic, there was definitely a slight smile when she saw it. After work, I meet up with my girlfriend and one of her friends who are competing in an event. I put on some jeans, though I’m not entirely convinced the cage is fully hidden underneath. The tip of my penis rubs against the denim through the bars, creating a pinching sensation. So, I remain conscious of the cage throughout, but there’s no major drama. Back at home later, I’m folding laundry in the bedroom when my girlfriend returns. She quickly gets naked for a shower but lies on the bed chatting with me first. I’m not sure if she does it deliberately or not, but seeing her naked on the bed right in front of me is torture for my caged penis. We go to bed later, and since she has a headache, I expect she just wants to sleep. However, I ask if she’d like me to 'distract' her from it, and she seems keen. So I start with fingers, playing with her breasts, then move on to using my tongue. When she climaxes from oral sex, I’m ready for bed, but she says, "I am going to have to get your keys." She grabs them from the bedside drawer and unlocks me. The base ring isn’t coming off anytime soon, so I rotate it 180 degrees and use it as a cock ring. She starts with a blow job and then hops on top, riding my rock-hard penis. As she moves, my balls are squeezed slightly by the base ring, adding a bit of pain to the mix—a new sensation for me during sex. Everything feels incredible, but I do a good job holding back until suddenly, out of nowhere, I reach the point of no return. With her on top, there’s no stopping it. My penis feels so tight that my cum spurts out in stages and seems to last longer than usual. I’m done for now, and she removes the cage completely before we sleep. So this time around was only two nights and two full days, but about nine days without ejaculation. It seems my main issue is that my girlfriend really wants my penis inside her when she gets turned on. I thought if I didn’t cum, I’d be able to slip the cage back on afterwards, but it didn’t quite work out that way. I didn’t realize at the time that she was trying to get me to cum and wouldn’t stop until she succeeded. She saw it as a reward, whereas I would have liked to last longer first. Anyway, it was still a fun experience. I’m not sure when the next session will be, but I’ll try talking with my girlfriend again about what we both gain from being caged. My hope is to reach that stage of desperation where I beg for release and she says no, keeping me locked in for a few more days after that. It feels like a long way off, but it’s good to have goals. For now, I am free.

> My main problem seems to be that the gf really wants my cock in her when she gets turned on. Gee! What a problem!

I'm on day 20 of being locked up. My wife wasn't really into it much either, but I told her I find I had more energy and my mood was improved while I was wearing it. Plus I paid more attention to her. She said she's noticed and I told her she could keep me locked up as long as she likes without cumming. She surprised me when she told me 5 weeks sounds like a good start. So maybe try to convince her it's better for you to not be allowed out

We had a brief chat about the cage last night. The girlfriend says she is more comfortable with it than she thought she'd be at the start but that it doesn't do anything for her directly. She just goes along because I like it. I didn't want to point out that I'd been more helpful the last couple of days. I'm sure she noticed but maybe hasn't linked it to being caged. From my side I offered two suggestions for next time: 1. Hide the keys better and keep one on you at all times. I had suspected all along that she had left both keys in the bedside drawer but I didn't want to check incase I was right. Knowing I have no way out of the cage is a big part of the thrill, relying on trust isn't quite the same for me. She agreed to hide them somewhere else but was not keen on keeping one herself. I suggested just add it to your keychain, but she has a lot of keys and doesn't want to carry another. I didn't push it any further for now. 2. After our first play with the cage I suggested to her that she could lock me up very occasionally (a couple of times a year) for around a week at a time. I still would like that but I think I need more, so I suggested that she could also lock me up for shorter periods. An example I gave was if we had sex and then she locked me up afterwards and I slept in the cage wore it the following day and then she can unlock me (or not) in the evening. That way she still gets all the sex and I get to be caged in-between. She seemed okay with that but still wants to treat the cage as a toy we use occasionally rather than a lifestyle thing. So hopefully she will cage me up a bit more frequently now and then perhaps as she gets more comfortable with it we can try a few more tweaks.

You could always bring it up to her like this. Say you enjoy being caged because it's super frustrating knowing you can't have sex with her or even masturbate until she says so. So because of that, you're constantly thinking of her and the things you want to do to her, even more than normal. To keep your mind off of it, you're trying to help out more around the house. Ask her if she's noticed it or not. You can say how you'd much rather not masturbate, but instead save it for her. All she'd need to do is unlock you when she wants sex, and you can agree to put it back on right after. And as a bonus for her, you can say that you've noticed you have lots more energy when you haven't cummed, so even if she wants sex but doesn't let you cum you're completely on board with it and you don't feel like you're being neglected at all. Just a thought.

Thanks, that could work but I'm also a bit reluctant to push it on her too much at the moment. She does know that I really like wearing the cage and want to wear it more often, but she's also not keen on it becoming permanent. For now, it'll probably just be short sessions. Perhaps a week if I'm lucky. That's okay though. I kind of want to leave it in her hands so that she's comfortable and as long as we both keep having a good time when I'm caged then it should naturally become more frequent or the lockups become longer. I have something coming up in two weeks that I can't be caged for and so I'll probably wait until after then before bringing up the subject again. Otherwise I think she might get sick of me keep talking about it.

So on Thursday afternoon I was alone in the house and couldn't get the thought of being caged again out of my mind. I started masturbating in the shower but stopped myself just in time and then decided I would just go and put the cage on myself. As gf refuses to hide the key I knew where it would be. Once on I thought rather than tell gf I was wearing it I would wait until she noticed and then explain. In the evening we sat in the sofa and she had her feet on my lap but didn't spot the cage. We went to bed without much action and she still didn't notice the cage in bed. The next morning we both got dressed and I was facing her naked except for the cage for about 10 seconds but she was absorbed in putting her own clothes on and didn't glance up to notice. Later that evening we had a few drinks and watched a movie before going upstairs. I had bought gf a wand massager a few weeks back which we hadn't tried yet. When I went into the bedroom she had plugged it in and came at me with it, pushing it against the cage through my clothes but still not realising I was wearing a cage. I took control of the wand and aimed it at her, she then started to grab my crotch and must've finally felt the metal. I undressed and said that I'd been wearing it for over 24hrs. To my surprise she didn't seem at all bothered. There was no pause or hesitation. Her reaction was to simply reach over into her bedside drawer and get the key. She unlocked me but left the base ring on and rode my cock cowboy position holding the wand against her clit. It didn't take very long for her to cum and then from the same position she reached around and briefly attacked my balls with the wand just for fun. There was no attempt to make me cum or even ask if I wanted to. She is getting much better at focusing on her own pleasure. Whilst still riding my cock we had a very short chat about the cage. I said that before I was giving her all these rules and things I wanted her to do but really there is just one simple rule I wanted: Unlock me whenever you want PIV sex, even if it's everyday, and then just lock me back up afterwards. Her response was 'how long is this for?' I was kinda hoping she wouldn't ask that and we'd just play it by ear, but I said 'a week or two'. I could tell now that she was a bit worried about me using the cage so often. She again said that she didn't see why I would want to lock up and didn't like the barrier of having to get a key any time she wants my cock. I said that ultimately this is just for fun and that if she gets uncomfortable we can stop at any time and put it away. I'm happy for her to control how often we play which is why I gave her the keys before but she didn't want to hide them. So she's still not getting it but willing to put up with me trying it occasionally. I did say that I want to find a way for her to get something out of this and that while I'm caged she can get me to do anything she wants, but she's too nice and said 'I don't want to make you do anything'. It's just not in her personality. After she climbed off me I cleaned up and put the cage back on and handed her the key. My aim is to go for two weeks without cumming but ultimately my goal is to give gf the best two weeks we've had so that she can see how good the cage is for us.

> Muted_Aprotic wrote: ↑Sun Jul 26, 2020 2:54 am > I said that ultimately this is just for fun and that if she gets uncomfortable we can stop at any time and put it away. Sounds like the perfect thing to say at that moment.

I forgot to update but basically the cage only stayed on for one more day. During the day I made no mention of the cage. I carried on as normal, except when caged I tend to prioritise the jobs that I know the gf would like done, so I cleaned the house while she was out. When we went to bed later I satisfied her with fingers and tongue. Straight after she asked if I was trying to get her to remove the cage. I said I'm happy and positioned myself towards going to sleep but she decided to unlock me anyway. In hindsight I think she thought that is what I wanted but actually I'd have preferred the cage to be on longer. I didn't say anything because I had promised she could unlock me any time. Anyway, we had PIV sex and I pulled out when I was close but she insisted I keep going and then I couldn't stop myself from cumming. Afterwards I could have put the cage back on as we had agreed I'd be in it for a week or two, but with my cum clock reset to zero I had lost interest in that moment. I also felt I'd been a bit pushy and gf was getting worried that this was becoming a big thing, so I decided it was better to have another break and try again some other time. Before the next session I will have another talk with the gf about what I like/don't like when I'm caged. I'm fully onboard with her ignoring everything I say and taking charge however she likes but from a basis of knowing what I hope to get out of it. I think that may have got lost as I have thrown a lot of information at her with not much discussion. I don't know when next time will be but I don't expect to bring it up myself for at least the next month. Perhaps I will suggest Locktober if she hasn't mentioned it again before then.

Shortly after my last update I started to secretly wear the cage during the day and take it off in the evening before the girlfriend noticed. After about a week of this I kept it on late one evening when I didn't think we were going to have sex and thought I could spend a night in it without her noticing. When we went to bed she started to stroke my body and so I quickly re-positioned myself before she touched the cage. I then moved between her legs and licked her pussy. Just before she came she stopped me and pulled me closer signalling she wanted me to fuck her. I had no choice but to reveal the cage and at the same time I handed her the key to unlock it. She looked disappointed and struggled to unlock the cage so I took the key and did it myself and then we carried on. Afterwards she said she didn't like that I had hidden it from her and faffing about with the lock had spoiled the moment. She didn't mind me wearing it but didn't like me hiding stuff from her. I felt bad and agreed to tell her in the future. For a couple of months I didn't wear the cage and the girlfriend didn't mention it. Then this morning she went out for an hour and I was super horny so decided to wear the cage to stop myself masturbating. As soon as she got home I told her I had put it on and gave her the keys. She laughed and threw the keys in her handbag. Having her be in control again really got me going and my cock pushed hard against the cage. Now it is lunchtime and she has gone out for a few hours. She has both keys with her so I am not escaping even if I wanted to. Every time I remind myself of that fact the cage gets tighter. She noticed that I have done lots of housework this morning but I have the week off work and can't leave the house, so not sure if she links it to the chastity or assumes it's just boredom. There hasn't been any discussion about when I'm getting released. I expect it will be tonight as we haven't had sex for a few days and she caves too easily. I'd love if she decided to keep me locked tonight.

> Muted_Apricot wrote: ↑Mon Nov 09, 2020 9:06 am She laughed and threw the keys in her handbag. Sounds like a good start. Just don't press your luck!