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Hi everyone, I wanted to share a post about my journey since I’ve just begun:) Over the years I’ve read plenty on chastity and broader kink culture, and ultimately decided this is something I want to pursue with my wife. She’s quite open-minded; while she thinks I’m odd, she’s willing to “give things a go.” She’s mostly vanilla, but our relationship allows for easy communication about anything.

I drafted up a detailed message explaining why I wanted to try it. I got called weird again, naturally, but she is happy to give it a shot and will look into the details (even though I doubt she actually reads much!).

For me, the goal is simple: to enjoy my wife more. I adore her completely, yet I realize how much time gets spent on porn instead of appreciating her directly. When I stay away from screens, our intimacy improves noticeably, and I see a big shift in my affection toward her.

I lack the self-discipline to do this constantly without help, so that’s what chastity offers. Plus, I love having control handed over; being naturally submissive makes it feel great knowing she is now the primary source of my pleasure—this mindset shift has been quite euphoric.

So far, I’ve handled my own research and device purchases. I expect to do most of the heavy lifting initially while she warms up to the idea. I started with a cheap imitation; it was lovely but quickly felt restrictive. I needed something more custom that offered better airflow and comfort. It worked okay for 3-4 hours, but since it covers much of my penis, hygiene could become an issue if worn longer term (24/7). This prompted me to dig deeper online.

I’ve chosen a cherry keeper which is currently being tested at work today—a full day out—and it’s been wonderful! I plan to do several weeks of daytime full-time wear first, then gradually extend into evenings. So far, this has all been my initiative. I texted my wife about wearing it (she didn’t know) and mentioned how much I enjoyed it; she replied with a star-struck emoji saying “I was feeling horny last night.” Feeling fantastic so far!

Hopefully over the next few months she fully buys in as well, because I already see massive benefits. Towards her, I feel like an 18-year-old again (despite being 34… haha). I know not to rush things; even if she doesn’t join in immediately, it’s something I can happily maintain on my own.

The road ahead might be long and costly as we find the perfect fit/device, but overall I’m feeling very positive. This forum is excellent, and I look forward to participating more!:)