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Guidance for Selecting the Right Strap-on Size

I need some guidance on choosing a strap-on. We have an old, generic one from years ago that she finds too large; it goes in too deep for her liking. I was…

member_e5084e7120 27 Aug 2026 #1

I need some guidance on choosing a strap-on. We have an old, generic one from years ago that she finds too large; it goes in too deep for her liking. I was considering something slightly larger than me. My current measurements are about 5.5 inches long and roughly 1-1.5 inches around. Based on that, I’m looking at options with a length of 6.5 inches and an circumference of 1.75 to 2 inches. Do you think your partners found the ideal size relative to your own dimensions?

member_b5e1ee4f3d 31 Aug 2026 #2

The best approach is to show her the site and let her pick what she prefers and feels comfortable with. My partner chose the Goodfella; it's close to my size but just a bit thicker. A helpful tip for making strap-on sex more pleasurable for her is warming it in hot water beforehand. Also, use plenty of lube.

member_381064b05f 4 Sept 2026 #3

> We found that the Vixskin Tex was very similar to me, but also just slightly different enough for her to notice the difference. When I wear it, it's *me* being close and doing the work, but the different feeling inside would add a little something to the mix that made it more enjoyable.

member_e2d3eb5ab0 7 Sept 2026 #4

Go with the Tex Vixskin. Close to the real one for most men If it isn’t enough the Ranger Vixskin will do the job. It doesn’t seem really bigger on paper but in reality it is