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Has anyone embraced this lifestyle at a younger age?

My KH and I are both 22 years old, and over the last few months we’ve been experimenting with chastity. She has really found her footing in it. She enjoys…

member_e71a305b19 27 Aug 2026 #1

My KH and I are both 22 years old, and over the last few months we’ve been experimenting with chastity. She has really found her footing in it. She enjoys the extra attention and knowing that I won’t stray on my own. In particular, she loves hearing me whimper and fuss for her while she brings herself to climax or I do it for her. This whole dynamic is a huge turn-on for her. I am quite surprised by how fast she embraced this, given that chastity can look intimidating at first glance.

Because of how much she likes keeping me locked up as the norm, the idea has come up in our discussions. It makes me wonder: have any others here adopted this lifestyle when they were younger? The thought of spending my prime sexual years being denied for weeks on end really gets to me.

member_eb92b8b625 29 Aug 2026 #2

Oh yes indeed. I’d love to know where we would stand if we had married with me caged back then. It’s been thirty years and it has worked out well, but you can only imagine the alternative. In my early 20s, my sex drive was high enough that I would have made a constant companion for her.

member_44706c8d0c 30 Aug 2026 #3

We’re in a similar spot to you two. She is 27 and I am 26, and we’ve just begun this journey. I have been locked up 24/7 for five days now. It feels intimidating at first, especially since my girlfriend wasn’t always dominant; she’s still learning how to be mean, bitchy, and humiliating. However, she is already enjoying teasing me a bit whenever she notices or mentions my cage.

member_a03de557c5 2 Sept 2026 #4

My KH is 20, and I just turned 18 back in July.

member_1f353e1d87 4 Sept 2026 #5

I don’t think I could have managed it when I was that young—I was always ready to go six or seven times a day. When I was 20, I lived with a woman who was 38, and *she* also wanted to go six or seven times daily, so things worked out pretty well between us. The only hiccup we had was that her husband wasn’t overly happy about it...

member_2caca0c3f4 7 Sept 2026 #6

I got into it at 21 but didn’t have a cage or much experience back then. The longest I could go without release was 13 days before giving in. Now that my girlfriend knows about this side of me, I’ve gone for what I think was 64 days—though not locked continuously the whole time. I’ve never been locked straight through for more than a week at a stretch. It’s a lovely fantasy, but I haven’t found one yet that fits reality.