Locktober Is Approaching...How About You? (Expectations, Worries, Reflections)

We’ll be doing Locktober again very soon as a pair of us. Every day brings uncertainty - could happen tonight, tomorrow, or this weekend…\nLocktober stands apart; it’s the “Don’t even think about getting out” month. It changes how we interact with each other.

I doubt it will happen here. I've been free since a trip to the ER *last* October. The Mrs. seems to have lost interest and has picked up a misconception.

Honestly, it’s just another month of chastity in our household

Nothing new for us. He has been locked up most of the summer:)

We’ve never done locktober though last year I was denied until Halloween. This year I’m already a week into a denial streak so I expect I won’t be allowed to cum until November sometime. Maybe thanksgiving??? Maybe longer. But I don’t know how much the cage will come into play.

Does anyone have any good links I could provide to the Mrs. to explain locktober with a guide on what to do?

> Holdingout1 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 20, 2021 9:55 am\n> Does anyone have any good links I could provide to the Mrs. to explain locktober with a guide on what to do?\nThe explanation for Locktober is simple. You are locked into your chastity device before midnight on September 30th, and it stays on without removal until after midnight on October 31st.\nThroughout that month she can tease and torment you whenever and however she pleases. She gets all the attention from you that she wants, just not via your cock.

> Holdingout1 wrote: ↑Mon Sep 20, 2021 9:55 am\n> Does anyone have any good links I could provide to the Mrs. to explain locktober with a guide on what to do?\nI wouldn't get too hung up over the specifics, especially if you're new to it. Locktober can be a full 31 days locked up or anything else fits your needs. The rules are for the two of you and should fit your lifestyle and where you are in a chastity journey.\nIt could involve being locked every day or only at night. It might mean no touching and caging whenever possible, or it could be locked unless your Mrs. wants to play with it. Locktober doesn't explicitly demand an orgasm-free period; that is NOvember;) .\nDon't push too hard about it and don't be dissappointed if the outcome differs from your wishes. There is always next year (and after that, another next year). It's a long-term endeavor overall if you're really into it.

"Macy has keys" and I have never done Loctober. It came up the other day, but we didn't commit to it

It was in the cards for me this year, but my relationship with my girlfriend/keyholder just ended a few days ago. So not me this year.

I have been locked for weeks at a time all Summer. So... I am hoping to get a break for a couple hours between now and Setember 30th. Not sure though. If we go into Locktober it will end up being almost 2 months solid. Then what about November?\nLuvnudetravel, my keyholder just joined this forum so maybe we will get input from her😀

This might be the first year where there's a thing. My husband's libido is at an absolute low point. To help me out some, he locked me in a cage last Saturday. With a bit of luck, that'll stay on, and come off only when we have sex. Which, with low libido, alas, is not that common right now.

I typically go at least 30 days between release periods. It is often longer, so pretty sure Loctober is going to be a thing this year. In fact I've been told Valentine's Day 2022 is the target date. I don't think she will hold out that long. My wife is still too easy going and not fully committed but she is trying.

I won't know until it starts.\nCurrently on honour, so She might well be planning something.

It doesn't have to be complicated at all; the basic idea is that you are in chastity throughout October, whatever \"in chastity\" means for your relationship. But if you want a guide, here's an \"advertising flyer\" I made last year (text only, no nudity, though probably NSFW):\nhttps://chastitycaptionsforfun.bdsmlr.c ... /270119213

I was just told to \"be ready\" for locktober and November!

I made up my mind! We have never observed Locktober and I had not even heard of NOvember until the other day. I know, I need to be better informed lol. This year I'm doing both Locktober and NOvember. That means no unlocks for us! I'm sure that's a big YAWN for you who do extended lock up all the time, but we unlock frequently (just for the night) so it’s going to be a stretch for us. Especially for him lol!

I informed my KH about it; all she said was that's nice.\nThen yesterday marked my six month anniversary of continuous lock down and denial, with only a few days off here and there, so she remarked \"I guess what I had planned can wait another month.\"\nI have not told her about NOvember either; don't think I will.:)

Locktober will be the same as every month… I stay locked 🥲

This locked period began August 19th. Keyholder Sue has had to attend to family matters out of state twice (she is currently away) and won't be back until after October 1st. She recently told me she is tired of just \"playing\" with chastity and plans on making this more permanent. She hasn't fully grasped her \"in charge\" role up to this point but that may be changing. For the first time ever she actually showed me her bits over Facetime as a tease. I will say she has been wearing the key around her neck for several months now. Bottom line is yes, Locktober will be a thing. Wondering now if NOvember is going to become one too. BCWYWF

Over on Reddit, I'm amazed (dismayed?) at the number of guys who are announcing that they are about to do their first LOctober… having never spent as much as a week locked up. A few posts have been by guys who don't even own a device yet. What's going on with some people?

Well, they are disillusioned; just expressing fantasy with no intent to do anything for real. Or they have no idea what the reality of being locked actually entails and will unlock themselves pretty quickly. When Lock me and I started chastity, we were dating and living in separate households, seeing each other only about once a week. He approached me with chastity as a way to help with a masturbation/dysfunction problem he was having. I very reluctantly agreed because for the most part he would be getting a device (or four), going through the adjustment period, wearing it longer and longer each day, while I pretty much stayed out of the daily process. It actually took months before we were together with him wearing his device. He kept me well informed about everything so I know a lot about it now, and have seen him transition to new devices since we've been together. Even experienced wearers struggle just transitioning to a new device without starting from scratch!\nAll that said...it's a process you don't simply jump into. Maybe someone could luck out and find a perfectly fitting device they can immediately wear for a month… what are the odds of that??

It's almost midnight gentlemen:lol: Happy Locktober!!\nLocktober and NOvember together make only 87,840 short minutes!

I have heard for the first time what locktober is. It is so interesting but hot. So I couldn't get in the locktober this year but I will watch what others happen.\nNow I am only daytime lock myself.\nJack

Maybe next year. Upcoming medical stuff.

:shock: My eyes almost popped out of my head when I saw what email our company sent to every employee (male or female).\nIt was announcing the month of Chastity with a clear symbol of a **lock**!\nAfter some research, I found that many companies send similar awareness messages during this special period.\nThe image below is just an example:\nhttps://fense.gov/2017/Oct/10/2 ... 15-100.JPG\nDid you know that?

That's awesome; love the hidden meaning for some of us.

I just spent the morning teasing my man terribly!! I tied him very securely to the bed, blindfolded him, and taped an old electric vibrator to his cage. Then I plugged the vibrator into an extension cord which I ran into the living room. I connected that extension cord to one of those power strips with a on/off switch. Then.... I spent the next 3 hours randomly turning the vibrator on and off 😂 Yep!! 3 hours!!\n10 seconds on, 10 seconds off. 20 seconds on, 5 seconds off. 15 seconds on, 30 seconds off. Then I would leave it off for about 5 minutes. Then back on in a pattern of 10 seconds on and 10 seconds off for roughly 3 minutes! Then back to random...\nI could hear him going crazy in the other room!! At the end of those 3 hours of teasing, I left him tied up for another hour. When I went inside to untie him, he was sound asleep and barely noticed that I had freed him. We started at around 7:30 am this morning, teased until 10:30, kept him tied until about 11:45, and he didn't get up again until 3:20 pm! LMAO!! Happy Locktober honey!! ❤️ Macy has keys!:lol:

> Macy has keys wrote: ↑Tue Oct 12, 2021 4:46 pm\n> ...I plugged the vibrator into an extension cord which I ran into the living room. I connected that extension cord to one of those power strips with a on/off switch. Then.... I spent the next 3 hours randomly turning the vibrator on and off 😂 Yep!! 3 hours!!\n> 10 seconds on, 10 seconds off. 20 seconds on, 5 seconds off. 15 seconds on, 30 seconds off. Then I would leave it off for about 5 minutes. Then back on in a pattern of 10 seconds on and 10 seconds off for roughly 3 minutes! Then back to random...\n> I could hear him going crazy in the other room!!...\nVery creative. I like it.\nthumbsup

I am so sore today after my tied vibrator tease yesterday! I feel like I spent the day at the gym and overdid it. Probably from struggling against the rope for a couple of hours. It was the most intense teasing session I've ever had, all while she watched a movie in the other room lol! At one point, I was just shaking uncontrollably. I was so exhausted that I don't remember her untying me!!

Very creative. I like it.\nthumbsup\nThanks! I LOVED teasing him from my recliner:lol:

> Macy has keys wrote: ↑Tue Oct 12, 2021 4:46 pm\n> I just spent the morning teasing my man terribly!! I tied him very securely to the bed, blindfolded him, and taped an old electric vibrator to his cage. Then I plugged the vibrator into an extension cord which I ran into the living room. I connected that extension cord to one of those power strips with a on/off switch. Then.... I spent the next 3 hours randomly turning the vibrator on and off 😂 Yep!! 3 hours!!\n> 10 seconds on, 10 seconds off. 20 seconds on, 5 seconds off. 15 seconds on, 30 seconds off. Then I would leave it off for about 5 minutes. Then back on in a pattern of 10 seconds on and 10 seconds off for roughly 3 minutes! Then back to random...\n> I could hear him going crazy in the other room!! At the end of those 3 hours of teasing, I left him tied up for another hour. When I went inside to untie him, he was sound asleep and barely noticed that I had freed him. We started at around 7:30 am this morning, teased until 10:30, kept him tied until about 11:45, and he didn't get up again until 3:20 pm! LMAO!! Happy Locktober honey!! ❤️ Macy has keys!:lol:\nYou are an evil genius:D;)

Day 116 and no sign of release.

Today marks the halfway point of Locktober. I'm curious; how are you guys doing?\nV

> Keyholder_V wrote: ↑Sat Oct 16, 2021 3:21 pm\n> Today marks the halfway point of Locktober. I'm curious; how are you guys doing?\n> V\nI was unlocked and had some fun with my wife tonight. Back in the cage this morning for two more weeks. Feeling great actually

> by Keyholder_V » Sat Oct 16, 2021 3:21 pm\nToday marks the halfway point of Locktober. I'm curious; how are you guys doing?\nV\nDoing good. Horny all the time. But it is Locktober. Everyday I want to make love to her with a harness and our Vixskin because there's no way I could fuck her with my genuine tool…maybe later. 🥴

Going well! We are new to extended lockup, but we are really having fun with it!

> Macy has keys wrote: ↑Sat Oct 16, 2021 10:41 pm\n> Going well! We are new to extended lockup, but we are really having fun with it!\nReading about your teasing I'd say you're having a lot of fun. I would love to be teased like that!!!!

> LOCKED HUSBAND wrote: ↑Sun Oct 17, 2021 6:15 am\n> > Macy has keys wrote: ↑Sat Oct 16, 2021 10:41 pm\n> > Going well! We are new to extended lockup, but we are really having fun with it!\n> Reading about your teasing I'd say you're having a lot of fun. I would love to be teased like that!!!!\nI was laughing and smiling the whole time!:lol: