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Cage Secured by a Frenum Piercing

I'm likely to get the piercing within a few weeks. Once it's fully healed, I'll upgrade to a new device. The tricky part is finding something that attaches…

member_fb2e9d8920 27 Aug 2026 #1

I’m likely to get the piercing within a few weeks. Once it’s fully healed, I’ll upgrade to a new device. The tricky part is finding something that attaches specifically to a frenum piercing if I choose that option. Any suggestions? Or do you know who makes them at a reasonable price? Most devices seem designed for PA attachments rather than piercings. I haven’t picked which one yet or weighed the pros and cons of each type.

member_5312e1e8c9 28 Aug 2026 #2

You have plenty of time to make a decision. The PA takes months to heal and stretch out to an appropriate diameter, probably around gauge 4.

member_c5a7c75d7b 29 Aug 2026 #3

Can you actually wear a male chastity device while the piercing is healing and stretching?

member_fb2e9d8920 30 Aug 2026 #4

> WifeIsVanilla wrote: ↑Mon Oct 18, 2021 6:21 am > Can you actually wear a male chastity device while the piercing is healing and stretching? I don't intend to. All the information I've seen emphasizes letting it heal completely first.

member_c5a7c75d7b 31 Aug 2026 #5

> Lockedchef wrote: ↑Mon Oct 18, 2021 3:21 pm > > WifeIsVanilla wrote: ↑Mon Oct 18, 2021 6:21 am > > Can you actually wear a male chastity device while the piercing is healing and stretching? > I don't intend to. All the information I've seen emphasizes letting it heal completely first. Please keep us posted on how your healing and stretching go.

member_fb2e9d8920 2 Sept 2026 #6

> WifeIsVanilla wrote: ↑Tue Oct 19, 2021 6:57 am > > Lockedchef wrote: ↑Mon Oct 18, 2021 3:21 pm > > > WifeIsVanilla wrote: ↑Mon Oct 18, 2021 6:21 am > > > Can you actually wear a male chastity device while the piercing is healing and stretching? > > I don't intend to. All the information I've seen emphasizes letting it heal completely first. > Please keep us posted on how your healing and stretching go. I likely will, but it might be about a month before I actually get pierced. We need to find a day where my wife and I both have time for an appointment.

member_fb2e9d8920 3 Sept 2026 #7

It turned out simpler than expected. I found a great studio, booked the slot, and everything went smoothly. They pierced me at an 8g size and it barely hurt—just stung for two seconds or so before being done. There was minimal bleeding during the procedure and only some spotting afterward. Happy to finally do it after considering it for years. Naturally, my cage has been sitting idle while this heals. I need to avoid intercourse for a few weeks and keep the area very clean. After wearing a cage for all these years, having a small piercing doesn't feel like such a big deal down there now.

member_c5a7c75d7b 4 Sept 2026 #8

What type of ring are you using while it heals?

member_fb2e9d8920 5 Sept 2026 #9

> WifeIsVanilla wrote: ↑Tue Oct 26, 2021 5:46 am > What type of ring are you using while it heals? It's an 8 gauge Titanium captive bead ring.

member_fb2e9d8920 7 Sept 2026 #10

Over a month has passed since the piercing and I really enjoy it. My only regret is not doing it sooner. Everything feels excellent; I've resumed PIV sex without any issues at all. I've worn my Jailbird occasionally, which puts no pressure or strain on the PA. My wife was initially hesitant about the whole idea but now likes how it looks on me. Regarding intercourse, she remained indifferent to the sensation of the ring—she could tell something was there, but it didn't enhance pleasure nor cause any trouble. Now I'm eager to look for a device secured by the PA, though I'll probably wait until I've had the piercing for at least several months. Spending a few hundred dollars is fine with me, as long as the sizing is correct. I'm leaning toward a glans armor model from MCN because the concept of a shaft-only cage really appeals to me. I'd be happy to hear any advice based on your own experiences.

member_0690795d03 8 Sept 2026 #11

The idea of getting a PA is intriguing. I'm curious if it causes leakage or mess when urinating, whether with the ring and pin in place or without them? Any insights would be very helpful.