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To begin with, I want to lay out the background of our story. You’ll likely find it a bit unique compared to others here, but really cool lol.

I’ve had experience with threesomes and cuckolding during my time with my ex-wife. She was blond, slender, with large breasts. She could be quite slutty yet also felt like my best friend. Our relationship was more friendly than traditionally marital, though we were together for 15 years. We parted ways due to issues on her end, primarily a drug problem.

Now regarding my current wife: she appears vanilla at first glance but has deep-seated kinks. To me, she is beautiful with perfect breasts, a large rear, and very bushy pubic hair—which I actually requested, and trust me, it looks fantastic. She is quite controlling and doesn’t easily trust others. She’s still upset about the time I dirty danced with her bridesmaid years ago; even though nothing more happened, she holds onto that grudge. She rarely discusses exes or reveals her kinks and desires to me directly, which I actually find appealing. People often say good communication is key for living out fantasies together, but extracting those details from her bit by bit has been wonderful.

We began incorporating porn into our vanilla sex life; this was her idea initially. However, trying to get it on a smart TV didn’t work well for us. I then asked about getting a toy. We chose a purple vibrator roughly the size of my penis. It worked great and really added spice to things. Sadly, it broke around four months in. When I went to replace it, I asked if she wanted something bigger. She agreed. I asked whether longer or thicker, and she said both but mostly thicker, not too long. We bought a Homewrecker; it’s 9.25 inches long with a girth of 6.5 inches—I highly recommend this toy to everyone! Size might seem irrelevant (whatever), but mine is 3.5 inches longer than my natural cock and twice as thick. My wife has her moments about size. She’d always try to act like the toy wasn’t much different from me, yet she had significantly better orgasms with it. This marked where things really began shifting for us.

For me, watching her orgasm via the toy became somehow more exciting than usual. For her, she started denying me and absolutely loved doing so. She noticed that when I was denied, my behavior around the house improved—which is true because she can be a bit bitchy sometimes and naturally demanding in general life. Consequently, I become much more tolerant during denial periods. I was already somewhat enjoying this sexual dynamic.

For about a year, she allowed me to climax roughly every third or fourth time. Then we reintroduced porn (again, her idea). We have kids, so we can’t just leave the computer on making noise, which is unfortunate. So we decided on using a tablet instead. She has taken charge of this device; while I attend to her needs, she watches what she wants.

2021 Update: The setup last year involved her watching porn on the tablet while I used either my tongue or another small rabbit toy underneath a blanket near her pussy. This meant I only managed about four orgasms with her throughout that time. What worked well for me was waking up earlier than everyone else; I would grab the tablet, sneak downstairs, watch what she had been watching, and release myself privately. I don’t let her know I do this. I claim the app is set to delete when closed out. Whether she believes it or not—I can’t tell since she’s quite smart—it doesn’t matter much.

This arrangement has evolved our life outside of sex too; we are in a total FLR now. My day starts with waking her via back rubs, starting the shower and undressing her, shampooing her hair, washing her body, preparing breakfast, waking the kids and getting them ready for school, making lunch, driving her car to work, serving dinner, and rubbing her feet before bed.

Most notable sexual events last year: One instance was during a family vacation. We were showering at the hotel when she started grinding her amazing rear against me and said, “Put it in; you have five minutes.” I struggled because rarely does that happen to me. She remarked, “Your loss, but I’ll get mine later.” Later on, when I asked for sex, she told me I could only use my finger, which felt great even if just recalling what it was like with the cock.

Then as our anniversary approached, I asked if being a good boy meant we could finally have PIV (penis-in-vagina) sex. She kind of said yes. But then I asked if instead of PIV, she would let me go down on her without using the toy. After a wonderful night out, she rewarded me with that.

We also went to the Caribbean for vacation just the two of us. The first night, she allowed me to have PIV sex again. She lay on the bed with her butt raised and off to the side (it’s lovely). I put it in, but within one minute I was finished. She looked quite disappointed. However, the next day I surprised her by bringing out the Homewrecker. She asked why she hadn’t known we could have used it last night. Of course, that became what we used for the remainder of our trip.

We had PIV sex one more time after she finished with the toy; this time I lasted about 30 seconds.

Other sexual notes: I constantly tell her I just want her to reach hers first because it looks better with the big toy. She says now that “she wants the big one,” referring specifically to the vibrator rather than me. I assure her I only wish to help her get off and love cuddling against her naked body afterward while lying there quietly.

She is very okay denying me just so she can focus on herself. Once, after finishing with the toy, she started slapping my dick. I told her it felt good even though it didn’t really hurt much; most of the year this happened regularly and I grew to enjoy it. The sensation combined with being close to orgasm makes the sting feel delightful and keeps me edged without going over.

I also love cleaning her up after she finishes using a wipe, at which point she stands there presenting herself before hopping into bed completely denying me further attention.

I often ask if my dick is merely for slaps; she says yes. I ask if she’ll only take what she needs from now on; she confirms this. I inquire about cleaning her up again being my primary role, and the answer remains yes. I remark that there’s little point in me climaxing myself since it doesn’t last long and mine is smaller compared to hers preferences.

She has called me too fast and small (though only a few times). As you might guess, I have developed somewhat of an FLR/cuckold fetish. Occasionally I watch other porn featuring women resembling my wife being thoroughly bred by well-endowed men. We’ve reached this point through minimal conversation. She enjoys topping the denial; she likes that I’m more obedient and argue less. While she watches porn during sex, she ensures I can’t see it—watching what she wants.

She claims not to care much about size but preferred a bigger toy for herself. Regarding positions, she doesn’t favor many except missionary, yet enjoys watching girls get pounded doggystyle in videos. She prefers the toy over oral stimulation mostly.

In my mind, cuckolding me would be fantastic for us because I’ve become somewhat useless for PIV. Although I helped facilitate this change myself, it is now truly true that she relies less on my natural member.

Ok so chastity: A week ago, she watched a video featuring male chastity devices and asked if I’d try one; I said sure enough. The next day while at work, she texted me a website to purchase one from. Honestly, I hadn’t really considered it before but realized it aligned perfectly with what I crave deep down.

When I asked her if I had any choice in the matter, she simply replied “no.” When the box arrived, I messaged her and saw how excited she was. We fitted it that very night; unfortunately, the size was slightly small, but not wanting to ruin the mood, I wore it anyway (I ordered two more replacements coming soon). She loved it immensely! She made me perform all sorts of tasks around the house for hours while rubbing my back.

We struck a deal: if I wear the cage constantly, she must instruct rather than merely ask. When asked how much time I’d spend in chastity, her answer was “24/7,” only removing it to clean or receive perhaps a slap or two. It’s hard to believe that from day one she wants continuous use.

When I queried whether I could ever be allowed another release again, she answered affirmatively: yes! Provided you behave well, just slaps will suffice. Then the following night marked our first sexual encounter with the chastity device engaged. As I rubbed her back and legs, she commanded me to prepare for sex by getting the box ready.

We had toys on hand—a tablet and a blanket. We went with the homewrecker and a rabbit, treating them equally. It was incredible. She’s really getting into it, fantasizing about other men while watching porn; she starts moving her pussy up and down as I sit under the blanket right there to manage the devices. I try thrusting with the larger toy like it were a real cock. She really gets going when she nears climax, her legs starting to shake. Once she finishes, I pull up close beside her body wrap my arms around her leg and buttock cheek. Left helpless in my cage. We lie there for a bit while I kiss her. Then she heads off to the bathroom, returns, bends over so I can clean her with a wet wipe. She hops into bed and bids me goodnight. I’m sitting there in discomfort but awestruck by how mind-blowingly great it was. I didn’t cum; I just lay in bed with my cage feeling like it might break.

This has been the best sexual or non-sexual experience of my life.

For the past year or so, she’s denied me sex, though I could have pushed harder if I wanted to. I’ve held back from masturbating, letting myself edge along quietly. We shifted things around so that my dick is essentially useless for her use. I tried emphasizing this by saying I’m too quick and on the smaller side.

Until now, however, I had the option to change it anytime. I could have jerked off more often or enjoyed penetrative sex with her more frequently—encouraging her desire while helping me last longer. Now everything has shifted: I am locked up tight, and I don’t see her easing back.

I must say, I love chastity; I never thought I would. It’s great that my wife brought it up and is absolutely thrilled enforcing it. What are your thoughts on our arrangement? There’s another issue I’m unsure how to handle: Lately, I can’t stop imagining being cuckolded. I think about what a hot woman she is and how much she deserves a real cock. It looks so amazing with that big toy inside her—maybe he would insert it slowly first while teasing her out, then push all the way in as she arches back gasping. He could pound into her doggy style or let her ride him (things we haven’t done much of). I can picture and hear her fingering herself harder than ever before, all while I remain caged with no say in it. How I feel unable to give her that pleasure when she truly deserves it. She seems like someone who would do this whenever the mood strikes, something I couldn’t stop even if I tried—I’d only help along. Perhaps I could take on more chores and care for her just so maybe I might get to clean her up afterward.

I don’t know what to do with these thoughts, but it feels like they’re exactly what we both want, somehow. Does anyone else experience similar feelings after FLR and locking?

I just want to say that everything up to the - one more issue fantasy thought - is 100% true. I really want to know what people think, my wife is hard to read, is she into this kink stuff more then i know? she wont even tell me if shes done stuff like this before. I know this is a chastity website not cuckold. I also just wanted to know how people can be caged, submissive and not have PIV sex or not able to last long enough to make it worth it., and not wonder if there woman is thinking about PIV & different sex positions. And as the submissive man caged what would you do if your woman wanted these things and you cant do it anymore? Please respond with some thoughts. ps it just happened this week and the last year stuff was 2021 not 2020.... thank you all!!!!!!!

> mozes74 wrote: ↑Thu Jan 20, 2022 3:58 pm > I know this is a chastity website not cuckold. I also just wanted to know how people can be caged, submissive and not have PIV sex or not able to last long enough to make it worth it., and not wonder if there woman is thinking about PIV & different sex positions. And as the submissive man caged what would you do if your woman wanted these things and you cant do it anymore? > Please respond with some thoughts. Well, we started with just chastity, and over the years it morphed into her talking/dreaming about fucking other guys while I watched, caged (and bound). As time went on she talked about it more and more, so I'm pretty sure that she really wants to do it, but, then Covid came along. I can't deny that I have come to get extremely aroused by the idea, and just before Covid hit, I gave her an 'official', written 'Hall Pass'. So, it can happen. The question is, does the idea turn you on?

I wanted to update my situation. So that first week of being locked was hard. I would love it one day then hate it the next. The dirty talk and texting while working was the hottest part, well that and getting her off while caged. I got scared on the 2nd week and we took it off for 4 days. why? Because It got real, wasn't just a sex game. I read some horror stories on the internet about guys being caged. It seemed most guys did this to themselves and that most guys are older, maybe small size and don't get erections that well anyway. No offense to anyone. But what i mean is it seemed that there were issues down the road with size reduction and ED but these people didn't seem to care. Please let me know if anyone has experienced this!... But I decided to have it back on. Why, because my wife doesn't have any desire to have piv sex with me. She really gets turned on by the cage and having the key. She is a control freak and this is some kind of dream come true for her. So we have way more dirty talk and a better chance for sex with it on. Of course only she gets to be pleasured. So now its been on for about 3 weeks. Only off for cleaning and maybe she slaps it once or twice in the shower. She is very good at making sure i clean it properly. She watches to make sure nothing else happens But she wants nothing else to do with it. One time i got real hard in the shower with her and she was pissed. She said to control that thing, that i wasn't allowed to get hard without her permission. I got to say i like it, but i wish things were different. I mean i read were guys get hand jobs, edging or actually piv sex when let out. With us it is all about her. I still wait on her hand and foot. I do all the chores and give her foot rubs and back rubs. Sex is her watching porn while I'm under the blanket using toys on her. Then i clean her up with wash rag and dress her, then we cuddle. Im not even allowed to lick her. In her defense when I'm aroused after sex I do tell her that the best part is cleaning her up after and cuddling after that. And that i like these things better then piv, and that the big toy is better at that part anyway. Cant help it that i say that, the cage makes me do it, lol. Right now i am for some reason working on her being more demanding in our relationship. I want her to boss me around more. She has agreed not to ask me to do anything but to demand it. She has started having me kiss her feet when she gets home from work. Also she stuffs her underwear in my face after she gets done working out. She will sit on the couch and use me as a foot rest. These are now the highlights of my day. She says i can be let out in about 8 months on my birthday and that is when i will get to have an orgasm. And thats how things are.

> mozes74 wrote: ↑Mon Feb 28, 2022 6:34 am > I wanted to update my situation. So that first week of being locked was hard. I would love it one day then hate it the next. The dirty talk and texting while working was the hottest part, well that and getting her off while caged. I got scared on the 2nd week and we took it off for 4 days. why? Because It got real, wasn't just a sex game. I read some horror stories on the internet about guys being caged. It seemed most guys did this to themselves and that most guys are older, maybe small size and don't get erections that well anyway. No offense to anyone. But what i mean is it seemed that there were issues down the road with size reduction and ED but these people didn't seem to care. **Please let me know if anyone has experienced this!**... If you read through certain of the older threads, you will see that the stories have been de-bunked, that's all they are- stories with little basis in fact. Any apparent size reduction is due to the skin losing some of its elastic quality after a long time in the cage, after being out for a few days it returns to normal. This can be avoided by being let out every week or two, to have a full erection before being locked in again. This 'stretching exercise' helps the skin maintain its proper elasticity.

Thank you for the reply. I am glad i found this forum a lot of good information. My wife does not like me to have erections though. I wish she would let me get some release. I have reinforced the cage and am wearing the smallest one i can. I couldn't get out without breaking it. My wife insist on 24/7 lock up and like i said before no action for me except maybe once a year. So this is all hot and exotic to me . I make it more exciting by having her boss me around more. and I like the denial, teasing, worshipping, dominance. But I'm kinda afraid that I'm just playing into the no sex for me thing and don't know if i want to give it up completely for the rest of my life. and I kinda have a decision to make. I am on 3rd cage but noticed that the key from the old one fits my cage now. So im debating on throw it out, so she has complete control which is really the greatest feeling. Or keeping it so i at least have a chance to relieve myself someday. idk what to do, any advise? what would you do?

For me, it's 'hotter' when my wife has all the keys, and complete control. But, what is 'right' for me is not necessarily right for you. You two have to set your own rules and limits. Your rules and limits do not have to stay the same forever, they can change over time. If something isn't working for one or the other, then you discuss it and change it to something that you both agree on that works for both of you.

Thank you for the advise. My wife is a dominant controlling person before any of this flr started. She wont let me change her mind. Just last night I asked if we could maybe change from me being locked 24/7 and before i could say anymore, she said that we already discussed this and i was not aloud to bring it up again. Then she told me to rub her back and shut up. She was the one that thought of the cage and so she thinks this is her thing. She knows that i get turned on by it. She knows that i get turned on when she bosses me around. So to her, she is giving me that gratification. She is a lot happier now that I'm wearing it, so i don't want to change that. I think for now i will just keep the key hiding somewhere maybe in a vehicle i have stored elsewhere so its not easy access. I did want to ask you "twisted misters" if you got to do anything with the cuckolding and if you did how was it?

> mozes74 wrote: ↑Wed Mar 02, 2022 4:48 am > I did want to ask you "twisted misters" if you got to do anything with the cuckolding and if you did how was it? It hasn't happened yet, but it could. The Mrs. has described several situations that she wants to happen, her descriptions were very arousing (and she knows it).

I fantasize about cuckolding but I dont know if I want to do it. My wife has watches a lot of cuckolding porn also. One night last week I had a dream I was telling her about." She went over to bulls house did her thing. Then she came home and she made me clean her up with my mouth. Then after i waited on her all night. We laid down and when I was giving her, her nightly back rub before bed. She told me all about the sex she had. " After I told her this dream I said that was hot wasn't it. She said that it was really hot. But she wouldn't elaborate and changed the subject. That night I asked her just as a fantasy if she could have a big cock, what position would she want to do. She said doggystyle. My favorite position. I imagine it the way i told the dream. I think she has a awesome ass and just think that if she wont let me do her that way that someone should and that that someone should have a big cock of coarse. I dont think I really want it to happen though, because it wouldn't go down the way i imagine. She would probably come home and maybe put her underwear in my face or maybe rub her pussy on my face for a second. She almost defiantly would not let me give her an orgasm. Then on conversation about her sex, it would be me asking her questions and her answering yes or no until she didn't want to talk anymore. Unfortunately this is how she kinda is with the chastity. She says and does some stuff that is hot, but not as hot as it could be. She makes things hot but border line vanilla. I have to talk about sexual things and constantly try to spice things up. If it was her way I would just be locked up 24/7 not aloud to talk about sex and I would just get her off once a week or when ever she wanted it. And i would just wait on her and do all the chores. and my only reward would be getting to see and help her get off.

Just wanted to update. So I went 2 more weeks in chastity. Which was 24/7 locked, and just getting her off, doing all the choirs and nothing for me. Then we had a vacation so i was out a week and actually she let me out for another week after. Then I was back on 24/7 again . I noticed that the cage and ring are really loose now. I'm kinda worried that things are shrinking. I know when i was out that it did appear to be a smaller erection but IDk. I probably need a smaller ring and cage. But i dont want to make everything smaller. so some advise please....

I noticed that must people on here are talking about the juicy stories and I usually ask questions about things im worried about. So this update I will try to just concentrate on the good stuff. To recap, my wife and I had evolved into a FLR about 3 years ago. Then about six months ago my wife came up with the idea of chastity she saw it somewhere and sent me a link on where to buy the cage and told me to order it. I have mostly been in cage 24/7 since. The last time i was out and we were on vacation. I forgot to mention that we got to actually have piv sex. We were in a hot tub in our room and she saw I was hard and climbed on me. She got off and I tried my hardest not to comb. I thought she would be mad. Then she got up and bent over and told me to get her from behind. She has the hottest azz. But I wasn't quite hard enough and with the water i couldn't get in. She got upset after a minute and told me forget it. I was out for another week after. I got her off once by going down on her. She did not let me get mine. Then one morning in the shower, she got upset that I was hard and "poking her". So she told me that I didn't ask to get hard and she didn't want me poking her when we were trying to shower, so she told me to put the cage back on. I wore it for about a week. Then one night i got her off by using the toy and licking. Afterwards I was lying there in pain from the cage and she told me i could take it off. I did so quickly and laid back down with her. I thought she would want to do more. but she told me to rub her back and paid no attention to my erection. It is so hot when she does that, i mean she just gets hers and gives no thought to me getting anything. I love it but i hate it. The next day i was free and had to relive myself. I was watching porn and when i went it was a ton and all over the place. It was pretty impressive i think. i dint let her know of course. Then a day later back locked up. Its been about 2 weeks now. A while back I found a key from an old chastity that happened to work in the new cage. I saved it in a vehicle about 10 miles from our house. I kept it because I wanted to be able to get out if she was keeping me in a long time. About a week ago I decided to get rid of the extra key that i hid from her. I had never used it, but i was always a little less under her control, because i knew i had away out. I woke up that day just hurting from the pain of the cage but longing to be more under her control. So its been about a week since then and i gotta say the feeling of her total control is back. I cant help but do whatever she tells me too. I have been totally under her control waiting on her hand and foot.

On about the 1st of the month we were having the usual or our normal sex - which is toys for her. ("home wrecker" & "rabbit") then when we were done i was laying there in pain from the pressure on the cage. She told me to take it off. So off it came. She started actually playing with my penis??/ yeah stroking and slapping it around. then she climbed on and she got off. I almost did but she stopped and said that was enough. rolled over and told me to start with the back rub. The next day she got upset that i hadn't vacuumed the floors. I told her i hadn't got a chance to yet but she knew i was playing around on the computer. She got pissed and told me to come in the bedroom grabbed the cage and said put it on now! I did what i was told, it was not easy because i haven't came in a month and i was close the night before so i was somewhat hard. So its been on for over a week that im back in cage. I have got her off twice and of course nothing for me. She says it is my job to get her off and clean her up when she's done, then of course rub her back. She says that the toy is better because it goes deeper and it vibrates. She knows I enjoy it. She did let me lick her while the toy was in. That is my reward for being good for a week. She also does not want me to cum until my birthday in October. But if im good,she will let me give her oral more often.:):D . So that's where were at now. I'm just trying to be good so I get my treat.

She sounds like a hard taskmaster!! Hope things develop for you...she at least watches the cuck porn so you know it's a turn on for her... In terms of your limited ejaculations... suggest telling her that you've read up on it and it's not healthy for you to go without for a prolonged period...say you're ok to keep the cage on but she needs to milk you to reduce the 'backing up'...a strong vibrator on your cage for a few minutes should clear any blockages!

update: It has been about a year of chastity now. Everything has progressed how I thought it would. Still in lock up around the clock, day and night. We have moved on to a more secure & smaller cage. Our sex is still her watching porn while I work toys under the blanket. I wait on her hand and foot like a servant does. These days everything feels just normal and expected. She was letting me out once every 2 weeks for a hand job. Then she switched to making me jerk myself in the shower with her watching and making fun of it. I liked it, but it was frustrating. The last month she has started calling me her cuckold. And she says cucks don't get to cum. She doesn't necessarily want to cuck me with another man, really just with the toy. But she does treat me as such. My rewards now are: She comes home from the gym and stuffs her sweaty underwear in my face, or she makes me clean her up with my tongue after she cums. Well actually she only lets me do this if I am good. I miss the PIV or even the hand jobs a bit, but i know this is what she wants, and she is happier. Or we are happier. We get along way better and im still almost always in an arousal state. I do leak cum alot now. When i asked her what I should do about that. She gave me one of her pads and told me to start wearing them and said "i guess you dont need to jerk off anymore."

update My new cage allows for good cleaning so its about 3 weeks of solid 24/7 then I am let out for grooming and then straight back in. My wife is happier with this. Chastity was her idea, but she has always hated the cleaning part of it. I have learned to not ask to get out, and that it is just a permanent fixture. As far as sex goes i think it has changed i have learned that it is 100% for her and nothing for me other then the arousal from doing what im told. Now we just use toys/porn or sometimes she will let me use my fingers to get her off. She has gotten away from me giving her oral because she thought i enjoyed it too much. The other new thing is we bought a whip set. She loves to whip me on a routine basis, to let off steam & stress. It is also for when i talk back, then its bigger whip & harder blows. Don't know why this turn me on, but it does. But everything she does turns me on now. Just waiting on her hand and foot. bathing her, dressing her, getting her off then cuddling after. Cleaning her up after she comes( she bends over the dresser with her awesome ass towards me and i only use wipes, but so awesome). She doesn't even acknowledge my cage and i love that too.:D Forgot - no hand jobs anymore. total denial. except she will slap my dick around when it is out for grooming every 3 weeks. I think it was around Christmas that she last let me come, but she is pretty sure we are done with that.