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Adjustable ring size for steel devices

Has anyone tried or anything similar, where you can adjust the ring size? I've been having fairly regular slippage issues with the 45mm ring on my steel…

member_40ba684a17 27 Aug 2026 #1

Has anyone tried or anything similar, where you can adjust the ring size? I’ve been having fairly regular slippage issues with the 45mm ring on my steel device. The 40mm ring was just too much for me. I’m wondering if the adjustable ring allows me to find a sweet spot between security and comfort around 42 or 43mm. I like the idea of an opening in the ring so I don’t have to force everything through.

member_bc1d2dd491 28 Aug 2026 #2

It's at least an interesting concept. I also struggle with getting the ring size just right to avoid both pain and escape, but I'm making some alterations to my device to fix it. Eddie

member_b195396d43 29 Aug 2026 #3

I’d be worried about two things: A: the hinge and B: if it works like real handcuffs where you don’t lock at a specific spot but can keep tightening. If it gets pushed, squeezed, or sat on, could ratchet up tighter!!! It might not work that way, but that’s how it looks. That would make it useless!! MsM's ld

member_c5a7c75d7b 30 Aug 2026 #4

I agree with LuckyEddie and slave d and would add that years ago I was also worried about squashing things through. Don't be. It quickly becomes a non-event.

member_1f353e1d87 1 Sept 2026 #5

> slave d wrote: ↑Wed Dec 28, 2022 9:24 pm > ...like real handcuffs it doesn’t lock at a certain spot, you can still tighten it, so if it got pushed, squeezed or sat on it could ratchet up tighter!!! It may not be like that but that’s how it looks... I think that's exactly how it works. Could be amusing for a KH with an 'evil' streak.:twisted:

member_381064b05f 2 Sept 2026 #6

Image I can't even imagine how uncomfortable.

member_40ba684a17 3 Sept 2026 #7

Thanks for all the feedback folks. My fourth cage is currently at the post office sorting office, so I'll wait for that to arrive and see how it works out for staying in place before I buy anything new. Obviously, cost of the adjustable one is minimal, though it does take a month or two to get here to Ireland from China. It's not just the 'squashing thing through' discomfort. I'm finding it hard to keep both balls in front of the ring. More often than not, I find that one or other has slipped back behind the ring, and you can't recover them without taking everything off and starting over. I seem to be a long way from those photos with big bulging blue-balls scrotums, spending too much time pulling and pushing to get things in position.

member_1f353e1d87 4 Sept 2026 #8

> DubSissyBoy wrote: ↑Fri Dec 30, 2022 9:20 am > It's not just the 'squashing thing through' discomfort. I'm finding it hard to keep two balls in front of the ring. More often than not, I find that one or other has slipped back behind the ring, and you can't recover them without taking everything off and starting over. With the correct ring size and gap distance, this shouldn't happen. It sounds like one or both are too large. When I had issues with balls escaping, reducing the gap solved it. The gap should only be just enough for scrotum skin to rest in without pinching; this space is far too small for a ball to fit through...unless you have chipmunk-sized balls. Even when I used a slightly too large ring, the proper gap prevented ball migration.

member_40ba684a17 5 Sept 2026 #9

> TwistedMister wrote: ↑ > > DubSissyBoy wrote: ↑Fri Dec 30, 2022 9:20 am > > It's not just the 'squashing thing through' discomfort. I'm finding it hard to keep two balls in front of the ring. More often than not, I find that one or other has slipped back behind the ring, and you can't recover them without taking everything off and starting over. > With the correct ring size and gap distance, this shouldn't happen. It sounds like one or both are too large. When I had issues with balls escaping, reducing the gap solved it. The gap should only be just enough for scrotum skin to rest in without pinching; this space is far too small for a ball to fit through...unless you have chipmunk-sized balls. > Even when I used a slightly too large ring, the proper gap prevented ball migration. Thanks for the feedback, very helpful again. I can see that perhaps there might be a market for 1:1 masterclasses on 'getting comfortable with your cage' or something like that! Given the vast number of sellers and devices out there, lots of people are struggling through this learning curve. Here's a url[= photos of my cage, with measuring tape for scale. The gap doesn't seem large, >10mm at the shortest point on either side, maybe around 15mm at the widest point at the bottom. But perhaps more interestingly, I paid closer attention to what I was doing when refitting the cage for the first time in a week after my shower this morning. Bizarrely, it seems as if my right ball gets shy and disappears at the critical moment. I get the left one through, pulling the scrotal sac all the way up so the ring sits against my groin, but the right one seems to have gone AWOL, back towards my groin. Is anyone else experiencing anything similar?

member_1f353e1d87 6 Sept 2026 #10

> DubSissyBoy wrote: ↑Sat Dec 31, 2022 10:48 pm > Yep 5mm is MAX I can have. Anything bigger and I lose a testicle very quickly. 10mm and I can just push them through myself!! That's way too much for me. The gap at the bottom of my [modified] CB-3000 is only about 3mm, with more at the top, around 5mm. The ring itself is 40mm diameter and it's a struggle to get one ball through at a time; there's no way they are going through a 3-5mm gap, no matter how cold it gets. Even with just the ring, once both nuts and the rest are through, it is highly unlikely that a nut escapes, even if I dunked them in ice-water.

member_b195396d43 8 Sept 2026 #11

Yep 5mm is MAX I can have. Anything bigger and I lose a testicle very quickly. 10mm and I can just push them through myself!!

member_c5a7c75d7b 9 Sept 2026 #12

> slave d wrote: ↑ > Yep 5mm is MAX I can have. Anything bigger and I lose a testicle very quickly. 10mm and I can just push them through myself!! Getting the right fit for a chastity device is almost as difficult as getting fitted for a tuxedo since we are all different sizes. With a gap of 11 mm, there is no way my testicles could squeeze through without excrutiating pain, and probably permanent damage. With anything less than 11 mm, I get unbearable ball burn.