Dominant, professional or lifestyle? Get listed on the Wanted board. Post an ad
FindMistress

Locating the Ideal Chastity Device

Hey there! I've put quite a bit of effort into researching chastity and I still haven't found one that my body accepts. It seems like I have a fairly unique…

member_48fbf66a97 27 Aug 2026 #1

Hey there! I’ve put quite a bit of effort into researching chastity and I still haven’t found one that my body accepts. It seems like I have a fairly unique combination of ball size and thickness (for the ring) which is unusual, since all the cages I try end up either chaffing me, pinching me or letting my balls slip out of the opening. I am searching for a non-metal small chastity cage with an ~54mm ring size and a fairly thick band (preferably over 10.5mm thick, something that won’t let the testicles squeeze through). Here is a list of Chastity cages I’ve tried which gave me chaffing: Happygo Male Chastity Device Stainless Steel (Normal 50mm) Holy Trainer V5 (Normal 40mm, 45mm) V4 Male Resin Chastity Device (Normal 36mm, 40mm, 45mm, 50mm) 2021 MAMBA Cage Set (Curved 40mm and 46mm) Kink3D Cobra N+ Chastity Kit (Curved 47.6mm, Standard 50.8mm) Here is a list of chastity cages I’ve tried recently which gave me no chaffing: CHASTE BIRD 2022 New HT-V5 (55m) Kink3D Cobra N+ Chastity Kit (54mm XD) What problem I’m having: The “CHASTE BIRD 2022” gives me no chaffing, but it is cheap and because of that isn’t the most comfortable (Also doesn’t feel high-quality), so I have moved on to something more premium. The Kink3D Cobra N+ 54mm is what I currently wear, but after 3 days my left ball slipped out, even though I used the “XD” option (Thickest ring option Kink3D offers). Anything below or including 50.8mm gave me chaffing, while 54mm didn’t. The band doesn’t have the smoothest material/design and can pinch sometimes when bending or moving the legs. The lock mechanism can be a bit loose and cause a gap to form between the ring and the cage, and lastly the actual lock has some wiggle inside it causing the device to rattle if you are even to attempt getting any vibrating machine next to it. What should I do? I’ve finally found a size that doesn’t cause chaffing (54mm) and yet my balls slip out and I have other issues with the practical design of Kink3D. Does anyone have any good recommendations for non-metal chastity devices that offer sizes between 52mm and 55mm that may not cause this ball slippage? I would appreciate any help.. I’ve been struggling finding a good chastity cage for years.

member_f25297859c 29 Aug 2026 #2

No recommendations, just a thought… balls slipping through is largely a function of the gap between the base ring and the cage. I think you may have to go custom to get that gap just right.

member_48fbf66a97 30 Aug 2026 #3

> whoami wrote: ↑Wed Jun 21, 2023 12:09 pm > No recommendations, just a thought… balls slipping through is largely a function of the gap between the base ring and the cage. I think you may have to go custom to get that gap just right. Hey, thanks for the response. I noticed this too. When I get hard my balls don't slip through (From what it seems). I'm just not sure where I would find a good chastity cage that has this that isn't made of metal.

member_c5a7c75d7b 2 Sept 2026 #4

I agree with whoami. Of the devices I own, the only ones that I really care about are my (custom) Mature Metal Jail Bird and Watchful mistress. Please be sure to let us know if you find a good non-metal solution.

member_7cd1285cb5 5 Sept 2026 #5

Come check out my Evo! I presume by chafing you actually mean ball burn - the burning sensation at the bottom of the scrotum. That isn't actually from chafing and is from the scrotum being contorted and stretching at its shortest point where the divide is. Basically if the ring doesn't match your anatomy well enough, it pushes the skin and tesitcles around so that it stretches the skin causing the burning sensation. My Evo doesn't have any "sizes" as it is a made to measure system so it is more than possible to get you the ring size that you need. The base ring is universally acclaimed with its anatomical shape and waterfall edge design that helps spread out the scrotal skin to reduce burning and slippage. Plus I have other ways to reduce the ball gap so that you don't have issues with the testicles slipping through. Feel free to ask any questions you might have!

member_48fbf66a97 9 Sept 2026 #6

> BlackoutDevices wrote: ↑Wed Jun 21, 2023 2:25 pm > Come check out my Evo! > I presume by chafing you actually mean ball burn - the burning sensation at the bottom of the scrotum. That isn't actually from chafing and is from the scrotum being contorted and stretching at its shortest point where the divide is. Basically if the ring doesn't match your anatomy well enough, it pushes the skin and tesitcles around so that it stretches the skin causing the burning sensation. > My Evo doesn't have any "sizes" as it is a made to measure system so it is more than possible to get you the ring size that you need. The base ring is universally acclaimed with its anatomical shape and waterfall edge design that helps spread out the scrotal skin to reduce burning and slippage. Plus I have other ways to reduce the ball gap so that you don't have issues with the testicles slipping through. > Feel free to ask any questions you might have! Hey that is really cool! I'll definitely give this a look. Thank you very much!