Spotting Journey Material

Hello chastonettes. I’ve recently started exploring our journeys here and, if I’m being honest, I feel as though I may have had some unfortunate encounters. first with a rather dubious fake erection, followed closely by a rather surprising caged willy. While I understand this is a male the community and we all have our curiosities or want to show off our tiny little packages, I find myself wanting to learn more about everyone’s experiences without it necessarily becoming fixated on the physical aspects. I believe that sharing images of dildos and caged bits in public journals is acceptable; however, I’ve noticed that many opt not to do so. This begs the question. Would it be worth considering a way to differentiate journal content? Perhaps incorporating labels like “rude willy piccies” or “safe no willys” could help set expectations and provide us with clearer choices about what we engage with. Just so I, and those like myself know which to read or avoid? Don’t get me wrong, Im not opposed to willy’s locked or otherwise and I may venture into the private section to have a bit of a chuckle down the line, but I’d prefer that option to remain my choice. I hope my suggestions aren’t out of turn. I just thought it might help foster an inclusive and understanding atmosphere. I look forward to your views on this matter.

An idea worth looking into I believe. I know that my kh would not like a surprise viewing of other appendages. And on the same token she would not approve of mine being on view, in her words it’s hers and hers alone to appreciate. So I can assure you that you will find no surprises on my journey.

I suppose we could have a sub-forum for those who prefer to post NSFW pics in their thread. That way, someone reading would not randomly stumble across dick pics, or locked dick pics.

I woud gladly slap a NSFW on my journey bracket Something like [denied_one - NSFW] or just shoot me an inbox Tom and tell me to stop. The posts have all been in my journey area and not in the public viewing And all content had been approved by my Wife My bad, seriously

> I suppose we could have a sub-forum for those who prefer to post NSFW pics in their thread. > That way, someone reading would not randomly stumble across dick pics, or locked dick pics.. This may not be a bad idea. Not wanting to create more work for you as you already seem to stay busy enough managing the site. But at the same time I’m not really interested with inspecting another man’s junk. If surprises were tucked away it may also encourage more kh input. Just don’t lose sight of what you originally created. An adult conversation site that you can share a cup of coffee over.

I formally requested all pictures in my journey be deleted except for the very nice picture of Chicago in the summertime. Sorry

The most recent NSFW image was deleted by myself.

Oh dear. I fear I may have caused a bit of a ruckus. I apologise if my previous comments came across as complaints about content or requests for removal. That was not my intention at all. I believe a simple warning would be more than adequate in these instances. It seems unlikely that anyone would inadvertently search something and land directly on explicit images or adult content.

Apologies. Yes it came across as though the pictures in my journey, specifically, were offensive. I am going to be more mindful of what I post in my journey based on the subsequent commentary as well

I am much more interested in reading peoples general experience than look at pictures, and for me thats the nice thing about this site which makes it unique, that the vast majority of input is geniune and fantasy is limited to the fiction section. I have no intention of sharing photos of any part of my anatomy on here and no great wish to see any one elses. However I appreciate that others may feel differently. I must admit I didnt realise that intimate pictures were allowed in any of the public sections.

> Spaceman wrote: ↑Wed Feb 12, 2025 6:04 pm > I am much more interested in reading peoples general experience than look at pictures, and for me thats the nice thing about this site which makes it unique, that the vast majority of input is geniune and fantasy is limited to the fiction section. > I have no intention of sharing photos of any part of my anatomy on here and no great wish to see any one elses. > However I appreciate that others may feel differently. I must admit I didnt realise that intimate pictures were allowed in any of the public sections. Point taken. All of my journey is 💯 genuine. Just saying, since authenticity was mentioned in your comment

The only pictures I have in my journey are screenshots of text messages exchanges or captions I have shared with her and nothing NSFW except the written words. She started out VERY vanilla and looking back, I’m amazed at the progress over the past few years.

:lol::lol: Mr. P should be proud. Kh_c has every locked man on the forum in the palm of her hand. Not literally of course, no pun intended at all, only the utmost of respect. Mr. P you have a jewel in her, hopefully she lets you cum one day.

^ a whole thread was made about literally my most recent pictorial entries to the forum via my own journal And then kinda lumped on..what else could I do, but delete the offensive content?

FWIW, If there are attachments (most lkely images) in a thread A paperclip is shown in the line under the threadtitle. That would give you a headsup that there may be possible NSFW pix in a thread. But if somebody uses the image-bbcode to link to an externally hosted pic no paperclip would be shown. > Tom Allen wrote: ↑Wed Feb 12, 2025 2:16 pm > I suppose we could have a sub-forum for those who prefer to post NSFW pics in their thread. > That way, someone reading would not randomly stumble across dick pics, or locked dick pics. Or the rules could be adjusted, that genital pix have to be hosted externally and only linked to via url-bbcode, not the Image-code. That way no preview eould be displayed, and the reader would have to click the link to see the pic.

> denied_oneWed Feb 12, 2025 5:54 pm > Apologies. Yes it came across as though the pictures in my journey, specifically, were offensive. > I am going to be more mindful of what I post in my journey based on the subsequent commentary as well I feel I need to offer a personal apology to *@denied_one* I wanted to reach out regarding the earlier entry and express my sincerest apologies for any confusion caused. It appears that when starting on the journals, you were my first choice, as your entry was at the top of the list when I began reviewing. So it was just by mere chance, bad timing or unfortunate luck. Initially, I thought to myself, "Oh! Are they all like this?" and I did find a comment from a few pages back where another lady member inquired about the same situation, and the response was a clear "Yes. It is allowed." I assure you, my intention was not to complain, but rather to seek insight. I simply wished to inquire if there might be a way to identify such entries without having to ask every individual member. Please understand that this is not a personal matter. I wasn't asking for anything to be done and feel terrible that I have interfered with, or caused any unnecessary actions on your part. Thank you for your understanding.

Granted I'm new so if I overstep I apologize. I finally joined here versus another larger forum largely based on the lack of certain in your face content. It was my impression from looking on the outside it was frowned upon. So again not to be out of line but some sort of warning if it is to be posted would be nice.

> Kh_CThu Feb 13, 2025 5:08 am > Thank you for your understanding. Apology accepted! I can see how a warning of sorts would go a long way. A NSFW tagline in the Journey name would work well I think. I totally understand. I am new here and wish to offend no one, yet at the same time I did wish to "shake things up a bit" at least in my journey area. This is all a big misunderstanding, as I was a bit involved in the "journey bombing" topic from a few weeks back, so I am a bit tentative (read: sensitive) about doing things that may be considered "out of line" around here. Commentary that doesn't mention me or my journey by name but clearly is being discussed per the specific details kind of intensifies that "sensitivity" and puts me into a slight feeling of fight or flight (yes even on the Internet. I'm a special case I guess) Then I read more comments in agreeance of the topic... There is another online chastity community that is far more explicit that this one, (we won't go there), but this community is NOT that one for a reason, and I am aware of that So I'm a man.... I immediately go into "fix it" mode. What's the easiest fix? Removal and don't put em back.:) I only wish to be supportive of those who may be struggling from time to time with MC, as I struggle with it mightily now and again. In my mind, the imagery was supportive of the specific lifestyle we have chosen here Seriously I will be more careful of my imagery. I do not want to offend anyone. Literally anyone. I apologize for my misunderstanding. Miss *@Kh_C*

I am late to this to this topic. All keyholders are important on this forum. They keep us inline.

> Spaceman wrote: ↑Wed Feb 12, 2025 6:04 pm > I must admit I didnt realise that intimate pictures were allowed in any of the public sections. Personally, I don't think they should be. Ideally, pictures should be allowed in one specific area only. I don't even agree with them being in the poster's own journal (because that is public) Not being a prude. I don't object to pictures. But they should be relevant, serve some useful purpose, and in the right place.

Ok ok ok let me ask this, so we are - ya know - "all clear" Are "Naughty pics acceptable" in the Kinks, oh my section??

> denied_one wrote: ↑Fri Feb 14, 2025 7:47 am > Ok ok ok let me ask this so we are ya know "all clear" > Are "Naughty pics acceptable" in the Kinks, oh my section?? From the forum rules pinned at the top of each subforum. It doesn't specifically mention the "kinks" group because it probably didn't exist but they are fine there too. The rules should be updated to reflect that. link to the "rules" post the archived discussion included below as well. Pictures - Avatars & Attachments Yes, we have to spell this out: your forum profile picture - your avatar - can not be anything that shows explicit or implied genitalia, sexual acts, or publicly identifying features. We know you want to show off your new stainless steel underwear, but please do not take an explicit picture of yourself (locked up or otherwise) and use it as your avatar. Pictures of sheer, lacey panties barely concealing your device are also off limits. We want this forum to be as friendly to newbs as we possibly can. And since many newbs are women, and since women tend to approach this a little nervously, we don't want them to open a thread and have your happyhorny show-off pictures smack them in the face. So, please post explicit photographs (or other such artwork) in the Members Lounge, and include the (pic) or (photo) tag in your subject title. That way, only forum members will see them - and not random strangers from the internet - and anybody who opens that thread will have ample warning. Edit by Schnoff: Explicit photographs or artwork are also allowed inside your own journal in the Journey forum. That's in your own journal thread only; if you photo-bomb other people's journals, we'll warn once, and ban on the second offense. Please use some common sense. If you have any question as to your choice being appropriate, please message the mods.

^ I read all these when I joined:) I'll just stop. Done

Personally, I feel the specific pictures were just fine. I think that it if someone is on a male chastity site, and reading about male chastity, and all of our experiences and all of the various dynamics we all enjoy, there is no harm in a few "on topic" images. I also feel that the images in my hubbies journey are/were actually supportive to a newbie who may be lurking for info. That said, the pics go where they go. I am fully in support of what my husband posted, specifically speaking.

Ok. I have definitely posted some rude pics in the members section, which cant be accidentally discovered by public and are clearly marked images. Now if I quite rightly have to title it as rude pics even in the members only section, why not in public forums and public jounals? There are journals in the "bit more private" section that are mainly caged dic images. Also not where they can be found accidentally. So no issues. That works. I think its more about accidental discovery by the public and dare I say sensitive women and children? No one from here is actually complaining about the images. We all see dics all the time. I think the message is saying that we should be mindful of others. Forgive me if im wrong.

> Mr Pickle wrote: ↑Fri Feb 14, 2025 9:48 am > Forgive me if im wrong. Nope, you are not wrong. That all made sense! This is pulled from the rules and it highlights exactly what you said and this also why my specific pictures were actually even posted in the area that they were > So, please post explicit photographs (or other such artwork) in the Members Lounge, and include the (pic) or (photo) tag in your subject title. That way, only forum members will see them - and not random strangers from the internet - and anybody who opens that thread will have ample warning. > Edit by Schnoff: ***Explicit photographs or artwork are also allowed inside your own journal in the Journey forum. That's in your own journal thread only;*** if you photo-bomb other people's journals, we'll warn once, and ban on the second offense. I agree being mindful of others is key 🗝️ I think a** [User ID - NSFW]** helps the edit by Schnoff exist in a careful way. But if that is not an option. Then, I personally will only post "explicit" photographs in the Kinks, Oh My! Section - simple fix on my end

Yes. It is confusing and also stangely contradicting. > That way, only forum members will see them Makes sense. However; > in your own journal thread Where the public can see them? That makes no sense at all? It totally contradicts the above and you're right to point that out. You did check the rules and went with the latter rule. Thus no rules broken, and no one accusing of rule breaking. I do wonder if when the forum was setup, If the journeys were all private for member viewing only? And since then they have become public, but the rules not updated? Anyone? So the rules need clarifying. Graphic content where public can see them or not? Bearing in mind that most people using google don't land on the home page. They go directly to content I have to say the line: > only forum members will see them has to be the one that overrules them all. For both moral and legal reasons. Fortunately there are a lot of members only sections to choose from including journeys.

> denied_one wrote: ↑Thu Feb 13, 2025 10:40 am > > Kh_C wrote: ↑Thu Feb 13, 2025 5:08 am > > Thank you for your understanding. > My apology is accepted! > I can see how a gentle warning would be very helpful. Adding a NSFW tagline to the Journey name seems like a good fit in my view. > I completely get it. Being new here, I want to avoid offending anyone, but at the same time, I did want to "shake things up a bit" within my journey area. > This whole situation is mostly a big misunderstanding because I was quite involved in that "journey bombing" discussion from a few weeks back, so I am a little tentative (read: sensitive) about doing things around here that might be seen as "out of line." Commentary that hints at me or my journey without naming us directly kind of amps up that "sensitivity," putting me into a slight fight-or-flight mode (yes, even on the Internet. Guess I'm special) > Then I read more comments agreeing with the topic... > There is another online chastity community out there that is far more explicit than this one, (let's not go over there), but we are NOT that group for a reason, and I am aware of it. > So, being a man.... > I immediately jump into "fix it" mode. > What’s the easiest solution? > Remove them and don't put em back.:) > My main wish is to support those who may struggle with MC from time to time, as I myself wrestle with it mightily now and again. In my mind, the imagery was supportive of the specific lifestyle we have chosen here > Seriously, I will be more careful with my imagery. I do not want to offend anyone. Literally anyone. > I apologize for my misunderstanding. Miss @Kh_C Personally, I hope this doesn't discourage you from actively participating in this forum (I enjoy reading your posts), that would be a shame, and it is perfectly clear you had no intention to cause offence, which I am sure was the case. I suggest the way forward is simply to keep posting, but limit explicit pictures to the members only area and insert the required [pic] in the title. Can we now close this chapter and move on? Please?