Ways to connect with other chastity pairs

Hi everyone, we’re the guy in a kinky pair. For roughly five years now, she’s kept my key. We frequently talk about connecting with new folks who share our kink interests. As we look into making friends within this community, it seems like chastity is among the more challenging fetishes to find others practicing. Being nudists helps us easily connect with other nudist couples for socializing. However, I’d mention that we aren’t swingers, which feels a bit narrow in terms of options. Since she’s bisexual, there might be a chance later on that she’d enjoy an experience with another woman, though right now we’re not focused on the couple we recently met. Our ideal scenario is to chill together, go on double dates, talk it over, offer support, and just vibe as a group. I also feel it would be great to have a friend who stays caged too. Any tips on where to locate these couples? Please share. We live in NJ.

This forum is a solid spot for that. Standard dating apps aren't really built for it. There's some discussion about FetLife... Worth taking a look.

We've connected with friends (or partners lol) here and on FetLife by attending local gatherings. We also met playmates that way.