Inquiries Regarding Prince Albert Piercing

As some of you might recall, I had a chat with my wife recently about getting a Prince Albert piercing. She wasn’t overly excited about it back then. Well, the topic came up again and she seems to be warming up to the idea, at least slightly. She asked questions regarding how the process would work, what sensations it would bring, and what it looks like. I want to gather more information for both of us. So here is my request for help.

1. Is there a good site or forum (like this one) where I can ask questions and receive reliable answers?
2. I need some pictures to show her. If you search Google Images for “Prince Albert Piercing,” the results look pretty intimidating, at least to me. She probably wouldn’t want to hear about it again if she saw them. I’m looking for a few images of a ring with a fairly small diameter and reasonable gauge (not sure what that means exactly).
3. She isn’t certain she wants it inside her body. That might not be a deal-breaker for me, since I have only been inside her once in the last eight months anyway. One concern is that she is very tight. It’s common for her to be too tight for comfortable penetrative sex. She worries the PA will make this worse. Any experiences with this?
4. How does it feel for her during sex? I’ve read that it can stimulate the g-spot. I’d love to hear your personal experiences.
5. Once the piercing has fully healed, is it possible to remove the ring for intercourse and then put it back in later? This would likely be for short periods (under an hour) and not very frequently. Even before chastity we had “alternative” sex more often than regular intercourse because it suited us better. She still enjoys regular intercourse though and doesn’t want to lose that.
6. If I/we decide the PA isn’t right for us, will the hole close up after being removed for a while, or will there always be an opening on the underside of my dick?
7. This might relate to #1, but how does one find a reputable and experienced piercer? Anything else you think is important would be helpful too. I know this is asking quite a lot, so I appreciate your time in responding. thanks, -A

I don't have much time right now, but here are some quick answers to a few of your points... 2. Is mine too big? I've shared pictures before. You can find more pics and lots of good info here: ... t_Piercing 4. Belle feels it and knows it's there, but she doesn't think it adds much to her pleasure. It is positioned on the wrong side for optimal G-spot help. 5. Yes, you can take it out. 6. The woman who did mine told me that while holding my dick in her hand before punching through, a PA will not always close. It often stays open, though the hole gets smaller when nothing is inside.

> Atone wrote: > 1) Is there a good site / forum (such as this one) where I can ask questions and get good information? As Thumper pointed out, BME is the best site. If you buy a membership, you gain access to an enormous gallery. > Atone wrote: > 2) I am looking for pictures to show her. If you do a google image search on "Prince Albert Piercing" the results are really rather scary. And that was to me. She would probably never talk about it again. I am looking for a few pictures of a fairly small diameter ring in a reasonable gauge (not sure what that is). There are some on the FAQ page. The issue you've hit is that many people like sharing their extreme large-gauge piercing photos. That can be intimidating. > Atone wrote: > 3) She is not sure she wants it inside her. That actually might not be a show stopper for me, I have only been inside her once in the last eight months anyway. One reason she is concerned is that she is very tight. It is not unusual for her to be too tight to have comfortable penetrative intercourse. She thinks the PA would make this worse. Any experiences with this? My wife was worried about it too. I think eventually, I found it more uncomfortable than she did. If the piercing isn't healed perfectly, it can get twingy during sex. She originally had concerns, but afterward, she didn't really mind. Her main worry was that the bead might fall off inside her! heh > Atone wrote: > 4) How does it feel for her when we are having sex? I have read that it can stimulate the g-spot. I would love to hear any experiences you have with this. My wife didn't notice it much, honestly. > Atone wrote: > 5) Once the piercing is fully healed is it possible to take out the ring to have intercourse and then put it back in afterward? This would probably be for relatively short times (under an hour) and not very often. Even before chastity we had "alternative" sex more often than regular intercourse because it was better for both of us. She does still like regular intercourse though and doesn't want to give that up. It should be OK for short periods, but honestly I wouldn't plan on leaving it out for more than an hour at a time. It's amazing how quickly it closes up and becomes painful to stretch back open. > Atone wrote: > 6) If I / we decide that the PA isn't for us will it close back up after being removed for an extended time or will there always be a hole on the bottom of my dick? I've had a few piercings begin to reject. When I took the jewelry out, they closed immediately. I wouldn't worry about it. If you don't go with a really large gauge, I can't imagine it would cause a problem. > Atone wrote: > 7) This may relate to #1 but how does one go about finding a reputable, experienced piercer? I'd start by calling piercing/tattoo shops in the area to see who performs them. From there, visit several places and get a look at their work. Get an idea of their experience with PAs specifically. They might even have a portfolio to show you. Obviously, look for a place that appears sterile and has good safety procedures. You can also check online reviews for positive or negative comments about the shop. Good luck! Mikecb

Or you could come visit me in Minneapolis and I could take you to the girl that did mine. She was awesome.;)

I understand that the PA is generally on the wrong side for g-spot stimulation but not if you are using rear entry or her riding top facing away. It sounds like it wouldn't make much difference anyway. I will check out BME, I don't mind paying if the value is good. That is about what I expected regarding taking it out. Probably not something I would want to do unless I was removing it permanently. Thumper, I might have to come visit you. I am sure there are good places relatively nearby but I'm not sure how I would get a personal recommendation. The only people I know that have piercings are friends of my kids. I won't be asking them for advice. Thanks for the help. -A

A lot of people write about having a "relationship" with their piercer but honestly, I just walked in, said I want to get my nipples done and that was that. You are obviously old enough but you do want to make sure they have you sign a release which includes information like age and so on. Also, make sure they use sterilized equipment. The needles and everything else should be in sealed packets that they open right in front of you. Generally, watch them perform the setup. From what I've read, PAs are pretty common but you should ask: have you done this before? How many times? The shop shouldn't be sleazy, dirty, or skanky. If it gives you a bad vibe, turn around and walk out. I've been to three different piercing places and a tattoo shop (that also does piercings). All of them were fine and I would go back to any of them. Sort of an unofficial criterion for me was that they all accepted credit cards which says something about how serious they are about business. The cash-only places, especially solo operator spots, are the ones I stay away from. I think finding a tattoo artist is a much bigger deal than finding a piercer. With a tattoo, you need to know you like the person's art style and aesthetic. Even if you give them a design, they will interpret it on your body. Artists are who you need recommendations for. Piercers just stick a needle in you for about 3 seconds. You mainly want someone using sterile procedure who has done it before (hopefully many times). L

> member_ef260e9aa3 wrote:I think finding a tattoo artist is a much bigger deal than finding a piercer. With a tattoo, you need to know you like the person's art style and aesthetic. Even if you give them a design, they are going to interpret it on your body. Artists are the ones you need a recommendation for. Piercers, they are just sticking a needle in you for about 3 seconds. I do agree that tattooists should be well-vetted for the reasons you state, but during my research I found that a piercer does more than just stick a needle in you. *Especially* when we're talking about a genital piercing. Back when BME was still free, there were ample horror stories I will not relate. The overall advice is good: make sure it's clean and the staff are experienced. In MN, piercers need to be licensed. That's a great place to start if similar regulations exist where you live. Also, if the piercing room doesn't look like a doctor's office (complete with surgical gloves and antiseptic swabs), I wouldn't use it.

I've read the horror stories too and I think we are in agreement! Like you said, you want clean and sterile, brightly lit spaces with people who don't give you the creeps (although if it's a male piercer, he'll probably be covered in tattoos. At least that's my experience. LOL). I think piercing (and tattooing) have become mainstream enough that it's easy to find a reputable place. The back alley skeezy places are being shut down or hidden away for the underage kids. L

People should think twice about getting a body part pierced in a tattoo shop... The reason is that tattooing releases micro fine mega tiny spray droplets of blood into the air... A piercing could get cross contaminated by such airborne droplets. The risk is incredibly small and having a tattoo it's a risk I felt worth taking but here in the UK the general advice from many is not to mix the two practices. I lived.

That sounds fine in theory although in my (albeit limited) experience, I've never seen a purely piercing place. I've seen tattoo shops that don't do piercings, but I've never seen a piercing only place--there are always tattoo artists as part of the business. I am not sure it would be economically viable to have a piercing-only shop. Tattoos are where the money is. Piercings are cheap. L

Interesting. The three businesses near me are all body jewellery only, no tattooing. The tattoo place I was tattooed in was exclusive tattoo. Honestly not sure, maybe there is some UK regulation. Wouldn't surprise me. Bloody nanny state the UK is....

> member_6a2b8da741 wrote: Bloody nanny state the UK is.... Well, we're still dealing with Puritan attitudes and sensibilities that have existed since 1620...LOL L

The place I frequent for all my body modification needs ( does the tattooing on different floors from the piercing. Both activities are done in enclosed rooms (which makes whipping your willy out a little bit easier).

The only local piercing shop I have found does both piercing and tattoos. I am going to stop by and check it out soon. We aren't quite there yet but it will be nice to have a good place in mind when we do. -A