"Pleasantly Met!"

“Hey everyone, After a bit of chatting on Thumper’s blog he suggested I pop in and introduce myself, so here goes. I’m a guy with some hair scattered about who likes other hairy guys too. I’ve always loved exploring my sexuality in different ways. I have a great partner, but I also enjoy pleasing myself quite often—probably more than average since I can count the wet dreams of my life on two hands. After experimenting a bit, I noticed how my body seemed to hit new levels of sensual energy when I held back for a few days. Usually, I could last just over a week before an unstoppable urge made me feel those hormones and endorphins rushing through me. It turned into a personal challenge: seeing how long I could hold out. Once, I lasted two full weeks until my prostate felt ready to burst; nearly every moment of being awake (and some asleep) was filled with that desperate need to cum. Later, I found pictures online of a muscular guy with his manhood tucked into a shiny metal pouch (which I later learned is called ‘The Cave’). It looked sleek, simple, and incredibly confining. I started picturing how amazing it would be to have all that raw masculine power churning inside me, unable to escape, building up over days, weeks, or even… gulp… months! I found several sites focused on heavy belts and feminization, which put me off for a while. I’m not about gender politics; I respect others’ fantasies, but it wasn’t mine. Thumper’s site opened my eyes to what wearing a device could be like, leading me right here. Right now, I’m just getting used to the sensation of my device. So far, I’ve worn it for short sessions. Once that feels natural, I’ll try sleeping in it. My boyfriend has seen it and seems interested; he immediately asked about what happens when you get an erection with it on. Then, as if conducting his own experiment, he dropped to his knees and licked my balls and the skin behind them. I’m not entirely sure where this is heading yet. It probably won’t be a 24/7 lifestyle for me forever. But I’d love it if it helped me break my two-week record and explore some new territory. Bagged Bagged Bagged.jpg (50.28 KiB) Viewed 6114 times Locked Locked Locked.jpg (50.26 KiB) Viewed 6114 times

Welcome to the forum, OzCub! When I first started with **chastity**, it was a play session LRC and I would do for a weekend or a week. We kept doing this for years until it slowly became monthly stays. After staying in chastity that long at once, wearing nothing felt "off." We talked about it, and now I'm approaching my first full year of continuous wear. You didn't mention if you've given the **key** to your boyfriend? That was a nervous time for me too. LRC leaving the house with my **lock** on was incredibly exciting—maybe second only to when I left the house myself, locked up, for the first time. Another good moment is being just three strokes away from an **orgasm**, then having to put the device back on. When it locks shut, my balls feel as big as grapefruits! So watch out; this can become either addictive or very comfortable, depending on how you look at it.

Thanks for the reply, We've discussed edging over several days and adding variety by not always cumming every time we have sex. I'm sure his **key** will end up in his gym bag sooner or later. One year seems like OMG! Which device are you using? What's your plan once you hit that goal? For now, I'm taking it day by day and figuring out the right size for my ring and spacer. I started with the third smallest A-ring; it was comfortable enough, but I realized I could fit my thumb under it. So now I've moved to the second smallest, which is a tighter squeeze but "doable" once everything softens up.

Just wanted to share a quick update on my progress. I had the day off work today and decided to experiment with wearing the device out for an extended period. I put it on after my morning shower and resolved not to take it off until my partner got home from work. After showering, I applied some gun oil to the head of my cock and rubbed more behind the scrotum where the A-ring sits. Once assembled around my cock and balls, I barred up almost immediately. Partly because I enjoy the kink, but mostly because the A-ring is quite tight. I pushed my erection into the cage, guided it back onto the posts, and clicked the **lock** shut. After a few minutes marveling at my **predicament**, I stuffed everything into a red jockstrap, put on some pants, and made breakfast. After doing some housework and browsing porn online, I felt a slight burning behind my scrotum, so I added more gun oil to the inside of the A-ring. That solved it almost instantly. I tested the device in various positions: sitting, lying down. Even erections while locked were comfortably contained. Following Thumper's advice, I chose a device with little room for growth, and I'm glad I did. In the afternoon, since it still felt comfortable, I decided to take it out further as well as testing some distance from my **key**. So I left the keys at home and took the device on a leisurely walk through urban scrub. Other people walking by seemed oblivious to the serious hardware locked onto me. Reaching a relatively secluded part of the bush ahead, a guy stepped out. He tucked his right thumb into his shorts' elastic and brushed his fingers against his bulge in an obvious way. He nodded and gestured for me to do the same. Not particularly interested at best times, let alone now, I kept walking and chuckled internally about his timing as we passed each other. Further down the path, I decided to try urinating while locked. I climbed through knee-high grass into a secluded bush section, untucked my tackle, lined things up using a small twig, and admired the warm arc glossing over autumn leaves. "Lining them up" was definitely the right move. The first time at home sitting down, my stream sprayed in more directions than a carnival ride. Now I'm back home, still very much locked, enjoying the feeling of my cock writhing against the device. I notice that for periods of several minutes, the sensation fades into the background. A few more days like this and I'll have to plan an overnighter. It's scary how natural it feels.

> member_b137b8d116 wrote: > Right now I am in a CB6000s.  I have a device on order from MM and will be switching to it soon, I hope.  As for reaching a year, this isn't a goal.  The device for now has become a part of my daily dress for the forseable future.  I think you'll find that there are more than a few mwmbers that have had a device on for multiple years. > Wearing a device does't mean no orgasm, just that you have given the controll of when it happens to someone else. Right now I'm wearing a CB6000s. I've ordered another device from MM and hope to switch soon. Regarding the year mark, this isn't really a goal; the device has become part of my daily attire for the foreseeable future. You'll find many members here have worn devices for multiple years. Wearing one doesn't mean no **orgasm**, just that you've handed control over when it happens to someone else.

> member_75c78a1ec7 wrote: > Right now I am in a CB6000s.  I have a device on order from MM and will be switching to it soon, I hope.  As for reaching a year, this isn't a goal.  The device for now has become a part of my daily dress for the forseable future.  I think you'll find that there are more than a few mwmbers that have had a device on for multiple years. > Wearing a device does't mean no orgasm, just that you have given the controll of when it happens to someone else. Oh yes, sorry about that! I assumed you were contrasting my two-week hold with your long-term wear. I think experiencing the device as more or less your default state would be very interesting headspace. I do worry a bit about showering with the supplied **lock**. Do you know if it tends to rust?

Regarding your other question, I think giving my partner the **key** and letting him decide would be very interesting. Last night we toyed with the idea a bit. Without saying anything, I went to bed early, locked it in place, and left both keys on his side of the bed while he read. He stayed up for another hour or so browsing online before getting curious. There was a sparkle in his eye when he spotted my cage and the **key**s on the bed and realized my predicament. The keys were promptly scooped up and popped into his mouth, followed by a brief pantomime of swallowing them. I chuckled and told him he could do whatever he wanted with them—it wasn't entirely a joke. He seemed to ponder for a few seconds before stuffing the keys into his bedside drawer. Then he leaned over and started licking my cage with his tongue, which made me want to rock against his face. When I was sufficiently hard, he stopped, leaned back, and resumed reading for another 30 minutes or so, occasionally pausing to taste a drop of precum or make me stiffen again in the cage. Before we turned off the lights, he handed back the keys. We chatted for a while. He asked if I thought I could sleep in it. I said I was willing to try and that it was his decision. But we agreed it probably wasn't best for a weeknight experiment. I made sure he undid the **lock** and removed the cage portion so he could experience some of the "ceremony" of the moment. Then we lay there cuddling for a bit. "No cumming," he said, rolling over. "Not until tomorrow."

> member_b137b8d116 wrote: > > member_75c78a1ec7 wrote:I do worry about showering with the supplied **lock**. Do you have experience in whether or not it rusts is prone to rusting? I don't think you need to worry if you're only doing it occasionally. I had one that stayed locked during daily showers for five weeks without issue. That same lock also survived many trips to the ocean and swimming pools. The only maintenance was adding a few drops of oil (gun oil—not sex lube, but the kind used on actual firearms) about once a week. I did rinse it with fresh water after getting out of the sea too. -A

> member_b137b8d116 wrote: > Before we turned of the lights he handed back the **key**s. We talked about for a while. Sounds like you are off to a good start! -A

Let me know if you guys enjoy reading this. I'd love feedback. I hope you don't see me as some uppity whippersnapper. I realize many of you are incredibly experienced and knowledgeable, holding infinitely more nuanced views than I ever will on these matters. Sometimes it's nice to revisit a familiar experience through fresh eyes.

> Atone wrote: > I don't think you have to worry about it if you are only doing so occasionally... The only thing I did to maintain it was add a couple drops of oil (gun oil - not the sex lube but the kind you use on real guns) about once a week. > -A Thanks A, That might be slightly harder to find around here though. We aren't particularly fond of firearms over this side of the pond. I imagine sewing machine oil would likely be the local equivalent.

It's absolutely great reading this as someone who is strictly hetero (though I did experiment with a male friend once). It gives insight that same-sex couples aren't so different in their daily dynamics. And it sounds like you both are indeed off to a good start and have lots of fun waiting ahead.

> member_b137b8d116 wrote: > I imagine sewing machine oil would probably be the local equivalent. Not sure if it's available there, but 3-in-1 oil works well. It has a rust inhibitor in it, and I'm not certain if sewing machine oil does.

> member_b137b8d116 wrote: > After a bit of housework and some surfing porn I felt a small burning at the back of scrotum so I rubbed a little more gun oil on the inside of the A-ring which resolved the matter more or less instantly. Yep, keep it lubed up and you should be fine. Based on my experience, that's probably the start of your sack stretching a bit, though plastic tends to grip pretty well. > member_b137b8d116 wrote: > At the suggestion of Thumper I selected a device that would not allow much room for growth and I’m really glad that I took his advice in this regard. Glad to hear it! > member_b137b8d116 wrote: > It got quite the thrill out of other people walking past, completely oblivious to the serious hardware locked on my cock. I remember that feeling well. It became especially acute when in the presence of attractive members of the opposite sex (though mileage *will* vary). > member_b137b8d116 wrote: > It’s frightening how natural this feels. Eventually, you may only feel natural when it's there!

> member_efaaeaef99 wrote: > > member_b137b8d116 wrote: > It’s frightening how natural this feels. Eventually, you may only feel natural when it's there! Not only that, but it might also be more comfortable. I was hanging free on Monday and had to fidget about twice as much as when wearing the device. Tuesday I wore a locking cockring, which was better psychologically at least. Wednesday I was back in the tube; everything was great again. -A