A different perspective on keeping it private with friends

I find the other thread quite engaging where you mentioned your KH sharing with her friend that you are in chastity, and it has been on my mind often. I came across this post today … i-love-the

No Idea - i love the fact that none of our friends or family know how it really is in our household. The phone rings, and Mz Carna picks it up and carries on a normal conversation with Her sister…while i am tread underfoot. They have no idea what goes on behind closed doors. But we have found the dynamic that works for us. All they know is that we’re both happy. and it made me ponder how enjoyable our experience of keeping everyone else in the dark has been. I must admit, I think this secrecy is just as arousing as telling people. -A

My wife and I have a firm rule to keep our situation away from friends and family. She suggested that I join a forum or set up an anonymous blog to track our progress, so here we are. If she or I were to let any friend or family member in on our secret, the arrangement would end immediately. We both agreed to this condition before I handed over the key. My time in chastity and my role as her servant/submissive is kept strictly between us. Outside the house, we behave like typical couples, and with our kids around, we act as regular parents. However, once the children are asleep or at grandma's for a sleepover - she takes control. She holds the reins always, which I accept, but we are discovering how subtle her commands can be to preserve our secret.