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Ideas for a submissive moniker

For anyone not keeping up with our blog, we're hunting for a title that reflects my submissive role. Belle doesn't care much for 'slave' or 'sub,' so she's…

member_adab360f3f 23 Aug 2026 #1

For anyone not keeping up with our blog, we’re hunting for a title that reflects my submissive role. Belle doesn’t care much for ‘slave’ or ‘sub,’ so she’s searching for something better suited to us. We’ve seen some excellent suggestions on the blog, and I thought it best to ask here too to gather as many ideas as possible. Go ahead and suggest!

member_feda7f789f 24 Aug 2026 #2

bitch -A

member_381064b05f 26 Aug 2026 #3

> Atone wrote:bitch :lol:

member_0fe7c9ef96 28 Aug 2026 #4

> Atone wrote:bitch > -A Not quite. I need a term that identifies me while we're engaged in play. It shouldn't be something he's called all the time;)

member_ef260e9aa3 30 Aug 2026 #5

Girdle gazing pervert. Oh wait, that describes me too.;) D

member_3d7705e8f0 31 Aug 2026 #6

Hmm, boy? slut? pet? gelding? mikecb

member_edf40520d7 2 Sept 2026 #7

Little one?

member_6a2b8da741 4 Sept 2026 #8

> member_adab360f3f wrote:For those who don't follow the our blog, we are looking for a submissive title for me. Belle isn't a fan of slave, sub, etc... She is trying to find something that fits us more. There were some great ideas posted on our blog and in order to get the most suggestions possible, I figured I would ask here as well. > Fire away! Sign up with the slave registry. It assigns you an 9-digit unique number; mine is tattooed on my back, and CQ often uses the first three digits when we play. The website itself feels a bit odd to me, but I do like the concept of having that number. For me, it really helps put me in a submissive mindset.

member_70db9936f8 6 Sept 2026 #9

If my memory serves, you wear a Jail Bird device. Why not something like JBB (jail bird boy) or CB (chastity boy)? Something both of you would grasp right away. However, think about how your friend will react when asking what it means. It could become another way for them to tease you—perhaps with an agreement that if "Jane" asks, or worse yet, your boss does, you must explain, while Belle retains the discretion to be honest whenever she chooses. She might never actually do it, but you'll remain on edge every time they ask. I had a similar situation with a college girlfriend in 1974; she teased me constantly by making me worry that she was about to reveal an embarrassing secret.