Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub? discussion

I had some fun experimenting with Carlilock a while back, but lately I find myself having more free time than kink-focused time.

I’d enjoy keyholding for a submissive who commits to daily email updates including photos. If your daily messages amuse me, make me laugh, or turn me on, I’ll shave some days off your lockup duration. However, if you miss submitting that “proof of life,” the lockup lengthens.

I’m not big on cybering; what matters to me is intelligent conversation and getting to know someone through having their cock locked up.

I don’t use webcam or instant messaging apps, but I do occasionally make POV videos which I’d be happy to post on my site for you to download.

Ideally, I want something that evolves into real-life BDSM. Based in kinky San Francisco, though open to distance keyholding from anywhere globally.

Bonus points if you’re local or willing to travel and can film tease, denial, chastity, and bondage content with me.

I could picture them lining up at your doorstep.

It's been relatively calm so far, but I'm open to managing multiple relationships at once. If a lot of people come my way, I should be able to cope. I also host an in-person chastity social gathering here in San Francisco for any locals who'd like to meet me before handing over something precious. You're more than welcome to join me on the fourth Thursday of every other month at Wicked Grounds. We typically see between 10 and 20 attendees, with a wide mix of ages and experience... plus plenty of folks willing to vouch for me. Feel free to browse my website or read through my numerous posts about chastity and other topics on Fetlife if you're unsure about online keyholding or wondering whether I'm genuinely "real".

I might be interested.

@charger71 I'm not quite sure what to make of a "might be interested." If you are *actually* keen, send me a private message and we can discuss what makes this enjoyable for me, your past experience, the device you own, etc... Otherwise, I'll take it as just a compliment rather than an intent to get locked up.:-)

Miss Alice, I have extensive experience with online keyholding. although i would be extremely interested in,and desperately want, an inperson kh,i live in Indiana and You are in Cailifornia:( i have had an online kh keep me locked 24/7, with daily emails and pics,for 7 months.i wear a cb3000 with a plastic nymber lock. because of metal detectors at work. i am currently self locking,because my kh was only contacting me about once a week. if You would like to chat or email,to see if we are compatible,i would like to hear from You Miss. otherwise,sorry to waste Your time. throbbing with anticipation lol locked lil ken

@lilken05 I am very open to discussing terms and expectations as well as what would make it fun for both of us. I don't do much cybering so I don't use any chatting programs, but I look for daily photos and email interaction. It gets boring and disappointing for me if subs just kinda wander off.

I sent you a PM, Miss Alice:)

Thanks @nd601 my offsite email sometimes filters notifications into the spambox, so I don't always know when to check in here.:-)

> AliceInBondageLand said: > Pretty quiet here so far, but I am open to sustaining more then one relationship so if the flood arrives I will probably be able to handle it. > I also organize a real-life chastity social here in San Francisco if there are locals interested in meeting me before surrendering something so important. You are very welcome to join me on the 4th Thurs of every other month at Wicked Grounds. > We usually have 10-20 people, a huge variety of ages and experience levels... and likely a lot of people glad to act as a reference for me. > You can also check out my website, or my copious amount of writings about chastity and other subjects on Fetlife if you are nervous about online keyholding or have concerns if I am "real" or not. > Click to expand... It was also pretty quiet at this side of the pond when I advised I was looking for an addition. Has yours improved any? I found it strange that people think we will be innundated yet it seems not. I guess with chastity it really does separates the men from the boys.

Sent a PM to you Miss

Yes, I am still seeking.:-)

This has given me a few one-time experiences for a week or so (sometimes even less) but I am still hoping my ideal sub for long term is still out there.:-)

Message sent Miss Alice!:)

> Mistress Jules said: > It was also pretty quiet at this side of the pond when I advised I was looking for an addition. Has yours improved any? I found it strange that people think we will be innundated yet it seems not. I guess with chastity it really does separates the men from the boys. > Click to expand... Well that's likely because both of you treat chastity as a paid service. Memberships to paid websites & tribute isn't most people's thoughts of acceptable. I don't honestly see a huge difference from the random spamers that come through doing the same thing that get ejected other than post counts. It's not something that separates the men from the boys so much. Wish you both the best of luck however.

> kaeru said: > Well that's likely because both of you treat chastity as a paid service. Memberships to paid websites & tribute isn't most people's thoughts of acceptable. I don't honestly see a huge difference from the random spamers that come through doing the same thing that get ejected other than post counts. It's not something that separates the men from the boys so much. Wish you both the best of luck however. > Click to expand... @kaeru Actually I do see a difference. My experience of Mistress Jules is that she is an honest and caring individual with a genuine interest in male chastity. She contributes to this site in a meaningful and creative way and is not to be confused with financial dommery, fakes or scammers and that's a fact. The more Jules's we have here the better. Oh and furthermore I think you should apologize.

> Mascara^Snake said: > @kaeru > Actually I do see a difference. My experience of Mistress Jules is that she is an honest and caring individual with a genuine interest in male chastity. She contributes to this site in a meaningful and creative way and is not to be confused with financial dommery, fakes or scammers and that's a fact. > The more Jules's we have here the better. > Oh and furthermore I think you should apologize. > Click to expand... Well said Mistress A, I totally agree with you

One more vote for Mistress Jules! She is very warm carng and actively involved in this community, all I know really about Alice is that she's never tried to message me personally to take my money, and she has NEVER laid accusations about other members...@Kaeru

Oh I don't discount that either are involved in the community. People from all walks are involved in this community. They do both however have their motives. You can get just about anybody interested in anything when there is some financial gain to be made. It's certainly why most show up to their jobs every day. I also never called either any form of fin-domes. They do however have financial demands which does put them in a similar categories of players. I figured I would need an asbestos suit if I mentioned it, but so be it. Especially when neither is especially upfront about it. Mistress Jules in her defense has put that on her site recently, but most won't happen by there before contacting her. Are they the only ones like this? Certainly not, but they both gave rise to the discussion at the moment. There is really no need here to apologize to anyone. To them, or me. It's just the facts reality. Most don't require financial reasons to do what they enjoy, others do.

> kaeru said: > Oh I don't discount that either are involved in the community. People from all walks are involved in this community. They do both however have their motives. You can get just about anybody interested in anything when there is some financial gain to be made. It's certainly why most show up to their jobs every day. I also never called either any form of fin-domes. They do however have financial demands which does put them in a similar categories of players. I figured I would need an asbestos suit if I mentioned it, but so be it. Especially when neither is especially upfront about it. Mistress Jules in her defense has put that on her site recently, but most won't happen by there before contacting her. Are they the only ones like this? Certainly not, but they both gave rise to the discussion at the moment. > There is really no need here to apologize to anyone. To them, or me. It's just the facts reality. Most don't require financial reasons to do what they enjoy, others do. > Click to expand... I have been chatting and engaging with Mistress Jules pretty much since she turned up here, as a breath of fresh air, adding to the very short list of genuine Mistresses gracing this site - a site that is doing a pretty darn good job of suppressing the fin-dom virus that seems to be infecting the internet. In the time we've been conversing she has NEVER asked me to contribute financially in any shape or form, yet she willingly gives her time when we're both online. I suspect, you have never been asked to contribute directly by her, kaeru - you are merely commenting on seeing her website. Sadly you don't seem to have the intelligence to differentiate between an "option" that some might find fun versus an "obligation" which reflects the act of a fin-dom. My suggestion is get over it - and apologise for your misunderstanding - or simply leave our community and go bitch somewhere else.........

Actually we talked for a bit, but was eventually directed to her site to go over, check out her rules & style, and to return if I was fine with them. As such, I certainly did not return. Her site did also say under the "How much will it cost?" section up until today it was not optional, and to leave if not comfortable with the idea. If she wants to comment on the interactions, and means, I say let her. Which so far she seems to not want to. Seems the discussion thus far has at least had some effect on her public facing words at least which is positive. I'm not bitching about being turned down, not being committed, trolling, etc. Just speaking the truth, and taking the flak that comes with it.