Introductions discussion

Who would have thought my first post EVER for an online thread would have to do with my new role as The KH?! Seems safe and as my locked-up BF has so supportively suggested, where else can I speak freely (albeit anonymously) about this newest road I’m traveling… I’m happy, I’m nervous, I’m curious, I’m excited, I’m insecure, I’m exhilarated, I’m scared, I’m intimidated, I’m empowered, I’m all of these things, all at once, and it is honestly a bit overwhelming …but most of all I’m aroused, stimulated, over the top with the endless possibilities that seem to be placed literally at my feet. I’ve never had a penis before, let alone one I held under lock and key. The thought of controlling its release (and what and when it releases) is daunting! So much to say, so much to do, so much to absorb…so here is where we chose to share our story. I am completely new to the idea of chastity but find that embracing it has been (a little) easier than I imagined. My short path has not been without bumps mind you…I am lucky, truly blessed, that my partner in crime is a most wonderful, wicked-smart, caring, sexy, patient man that has been totally supportive and loving throughout. I know not where we will end up but am confident it will be one Willing and Wild ride!

> WillingWarden said: > Who would have thought my first post EVER for an online thread would have to do with my new role as The KH?! > Seems safe and as my locked-up BF has so supportively suggested, where else can I speak freely (albeit anonymously) about this newest road I'm traveling... > I'm happy, I'm nervous, I'm curious, I'm excited, I'm insecure, I'm exhilarated, I'm scared, I'm intimidated, I'm empowered, I'm all of these things, all at once, and it is honestly a bit overwhelming ...but most of all I'm aroused, stimulated, over the top with the endless possibilities that seem to be placed literally at my feet. > I've never had a penis before, let alone one I held under lock and key. The thought of controlling its release (and what and when it releases) is daunting! > So much to say, so much to do, so much to absorb...so here is where we chose to share our story. > I am completely new to the idea of chastity but find that embracing it has been (a little) easier than I imagined. My short path has not been without bumps mind you...I am lucky, truly blessed, that my partner in crime is a most wonderful, wicked-smart, caring, sexy, patient man that has been totally supportive and loving throughout. > I know not where we will end up but am confident it will be one Willing and Wild ride! > Click to expand... Enjoy! What you do now is what you want to do. Sex of course you decide if when and how; but you may find it's also a nice lever to get other things as well....LOL!

> Joroincharge said: > Enjoy! What you do now is what you want to do. Sex of course you decide if when and how; but you may find it's also a nice lever to get other things as well....LOL! > Click to expand... Hmmmm...other things?!:)

> WillingWarden said: > Hmmmm...other things?!:) > Click to expand... As a submissive I can suggest a few ideas; 1. Household chores, especially the really dull, mundane ones, you hate. It actually turns me on to be ordered to do such tasks, then again I am a sissy maid at heart! 2. You decide where you are going out for the evening, see that movie or play he refused to go to beforehand, after a few days or a week in chastity, he'll go along. 3. You get him to do things that amuse you. Get him to wear panties, curtesy whenever he speaks to you, or shave his "boy areas". Take photos, and tease him mercilessly. 4. Loads and loads of oral sex, for you of course! He doesn't get to cum, not until you've got bored of having your pussy licked [for the 50th time]. Also, and I think others would probably agree here, his oral skills will improve dramatically, the longer you keep him locked up. Expert advise and direction, from you, will be acted on with keen diligence. Just a few starting points there. Really it's up to you, and [of course] what you think would be fun for both of you. But I'm pretty sure at least some of what I have mentioned above will be interesting to him, but perhaps in a slightly different flavour. I like chastity play as it gives up control to my Mistress, and I'm pretty sure that's what most other people who like chastity are turned on by as well. Enjoy.

I would advise slow baby steps... keep it fun for both parties. Don't do from nothing to "weeks" of lockup plus all chores in one go. Sounds like as a fantasy, but its probably not a fun reality in most cases. Second the idea of making him wear panties (either full time or only when locked). Or enforce the rule that he must be locked up whenever you wear your special/sexy lingerie. That way he suffers from being locked and horny at the same time;-) Some submissives into chastity are also thrilled by being a cuckold (i.e. you get to have sex with another man). Some are into the fantasy but can't handle the reality. Similarly some KH's are into this and others find it revolting. You may want to hint to him that "you need a penis" while he's locked up and "what should I do?" - since clearly he can't be unlocked. Have fun. But most of all talk a lot with your partner. You need to trust each other massively. Do let us know what you decide on and how it goes:) -droog