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Hello everyone, My Madame and I are committed to serious 24/7 chastity, but so far we haven't found a device that works. Of course there is the steel belt;…

member_1da078a1bd 2 Sept 2026 #1

Hello everyone, My Madame and I are committed to serious 24/7 chastity, but so far we haven’t found a device that works. Of course there is the steel belt; it’s very secure and exactly what I’m aiming for. However, given my current build (I am quite large), buying one now would be a waste of money. My height and frame are such that my target weight sits just under 99kg (218 pounds). So let’s assume that about a year from now I will hit that goal. But until the permanent chastity belt becomes a reality, Madame has instructed me to find an interim solution. This is where I need your help. For some reason, my CB3000 isn’t an option; it causes irritation around my “clit,” so I can only wear it for about 6-8 hours before it needs to come off. So any advice? Any ideas? Anything at all? Please help… hugs Chastity sub

member_4a7ace589f 3 Sept 2026 #2

If you are looking for some guidance then a bit more detail is needed. When you mention getting a condition around your 'clit' that stops you wearing it for longer than 6-8 hours, what exactly do you mean? Also, what do you understand by the term "permanent chastity belt"? For instance, I have worn a cage/tube with ring type CB almost constantly for years. Yes, I do get out and I can cum too, though much less often than my time in lockup is actually spent getting released. My partner keeps me locked 24/7/365 and only lets me out herself, always while she is present. Some people would describe that as permanent. Then there are others who never get let out or can cum at all; they consider themselves permanently locked whereas I might not. I would suggest identifying exactly what the problem is before slowly increasing your time in lock.

member_bfbaf8d4ec 3 Sept 2026 #3

> Chastity sub dk said: > Hello everyone > for some reason my cb3000 isn't an option; it causes irritation around my "clit" so I can wear it for about 6-8 hours before it needs to come off, > So any advice? > Any ideas? > Anything at all? > Please help... > hugs Chastity sub > Click to expand... Hi, CS! Could you elaborate a bit on these reasons? It may help narrow down the answer. Regards, K.

member_1da078a1bd 4 Sept 2026 #4

> filltee said: > If you are looking for some guidance then a bit more detail is needed. > When you mention getting a condition around your 'clit' that stops you wearing it for longer than 6-8 hours, > what exactly do you mean? > Also, what do you understand by the term "permanent chastity belt"? > For instance, I have worn a cage/tube with ring type CB almost constantly for years. Yes, I do get out and I can cum too, though much less often than my time in lockup is actually spent getting released. My partner keeps me locked 24/7/365 and only lets me out herself, always while she is present. Some people would describe that as permanent. Then there are others who never get let out or can cum at all; they consider themselves permanently locked whereas I might not. > I would suggest identifying exactly what the problem is before slowly increasing your time in lock. > Click to expand... Okay, I'll do my best.. First off,.."the condition" is an extremely unpleasant redness behind "the Balls" where the ring sits. I have tried oil, talcum powder, and lube; I've done nothing with it; I've even tried wearing a nylon stocking around the ring. And if I go up a ring size ..the CB slips off.. By permanent belt, I mean something like a Tollyboy or Neosteel...but since I am starting out with a PA piercing (per Madame's orders), the word Permanent isn't quite my definition yet.. My Mistress has her greater plan in mind but I don't know what it is ..I might find out later on ..just not now ..so here is my advice if you want to know:-) go onto fetlife, look up my Madame ..and ask her directly!:-)..

member_9a1e05c0fe 5 Sept 2026 #5

**In my view permanent means - untouchable ** You simply cannot stimulate yourself in any way. You can't pull out, you can't touch. You can't crack or break etc. etc. – and you will eventually give up even thinking about self stimulation, because it isn’t going to happen! That is what permanent means to me. And that brings the greatest relief! I no longer have to battle a rebounding urge to stimulate; it simply remains pointless regardless of how many weeks I stay locked away. The way my keyholder (my wife) uses her property is not really up to me. But as long as I serve her, I am happy. I know that she occasionally desires close encounters – at least for the moment….:-) **Go for steel - and a proven anti pull-out mechanism** She has just ordered me to wear a steel device with PA-fixing wire, – being placed in this dungeon feels like heaven. For the first time I can honestly say that I have handed over 100% ownership and control of my manhood to her. Before that it wasn't truly permanent; – I was struggling with a small lie: that I was fully captured, when really I wasn’t. *There was always some backdoor option, which haunted me.* It is over now! Go for steel! And any proven anti pull-out mechanism, like my PA. A PA piercing heals incredibly fast (almost!):-) and it certainly hurts less than your night boner does. I am not into belts. They seem clunky to me. I have an active lifestyle, – and neither my keyholder nor myself want me restricted from good physical or economic performance. She wants me on my toes in every possible way. That is something a device allows; I doubt it works with a belt. And belts aren't that secure either; they hold great potential for health and cleaning issues... Cheers BlueEyes

member_bfbaf8d4ec 7 Sept 2026 #6

> Chastity sub dk said: > Okay, I'll do my best.. First off,.."the condition" is an extremely unpleasant redness behind "the Balls" where the ring sits. I have tried oil, talcum powder, and lube; I've done nothing with it; I've even tried wearing a nylon stocking around the ring. And if I go up a ring size ..the CB slips off.. > By permanent belt, I mean something like a Tollyboy or Neosteel...but since I am starting out with a PA piercing (Madame's orders), the word Permanent isn't quite my definition yet.. My Mistress has her greater plan in mind but I don't know what it is ..I might find out later on ..just not now ..so here is my advice if you want to know!:-) go onto fetlife, look up my Madame ..and ask her directly!:-).. > Click to expand... What do you (or, probably, your Mistress) think of KTB? It is easily cleaned, invisible under clothes, does not require a ball ring (though in this case you need tight panties to avoid pinching), and requires no piercing. And it is absolutely secure – you yourself will never want to move all those spikes along your shaft.

member_a95f8bf476 8 Sept 2026 #7

What's a KTB?

member_1fb565c514 9 Sept 2026 #8

A KTB is a "Kali's Teeth Bracelet," which is a cuff with small teeth on the inside that fits around the penis. I know some people here report using them for long-term wear, but the one I have (which has several hundred very sharp teeth) wouldn't work well for that purpose. I believe there are some KTB designs with fewer or blunter teeth, so those might be suitable. Here is a link to an example: Regarding your more general issue, I think your best bet is a metal device customized specifically for you. I have been very happy with my JailBird from Mature Metal.