Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’m looking for ways to use chastity as a motivator to discipline myself—doing chores, keeping up with tasks, and curbing procrastination. Currently I’m using an emlalock holder since I don’t have an owner right now. Aside from finding a permanent holder (which is one of my goals), the main idea I have involves the games feature on emlalock: on an honor system, I could boost my time by intentionally losing hands of blackjack—a gambling mechanic for adding time that’s built into emlalock—depending on how well I managed my day. I’m not sure if there are specific websites or services tailored to this approach. Another method (besides having a virtual online keyholder) is asking an online friend to handle it: I’d send them the site link, and they could adjust my time up or down slightly. Any ideas? Thoughts? P.S.: For those who know me, I’ve been away from the chastity scene for several months due to some device issues. I’m tweaking the setup now to improve it before trying again.

Of course, I have an idea that might work for you. See if you can guess what it is.

I also have a small idea. You could try locking your device and throwing the key down the toilet, then just flush everything away.

A couple of ideas that might work: Send the key to yourself in the mail. You can use different carriers like USPS, UPS, FEDEX, Airmail, etc. There is also another online key holder service called Carlilock which is similar to what you currently use. It somewhat depends on how long you want to risk being locked.