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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I used to really enjoy porn. It got me turned on quickly, so I sought it out frequently. Now that I'm wearing a CB6Ks, though, I find it tedious because…

member_a99c908820 2 Sept 2026 #1

I used to really enjoy porn. It got me turned on quickly, so I sought it out frequently. Now that I’m wearing a CB6Ks, though, I find it tedious because there’s not much I can do about it. My viewing habits have dropped off, and I might stop altogether soon. Before, I’d pick a video I liked, reach climax in just a few minutes, and then head out of the site. These days, watching an hour of content without any release in sight feels dull. Everything starts to blur together. On the bright side, at least I can endure longer videos now; back in the day, I rarely made it through to the end. What I once considered a perk—the freedom to watch as much porn as I wanted—has turned into a chore. What about you? Are any of you still watching? Does it get you going?

member_ab12fa6f70 2 Sept 2026 #2

I'm still fond of porn; what I really love is the teasing!

member_a99c908820 3 Sept 2026 #3

I understand. It is stimulating, but it feels like every genre follows a predictable pattern. I’m constantly searching for something fresh, which doesn’t happen often. Perhaps I just don’t search hard enough.

member_ab12fa6f70 3 Sept 2026 #4

I love photo captions! xxx

member_96aaa05c94 4 Sept 2026 #5

Starting to notice the same problem. The fact that I no longer link porn with ejaculation is causing its appeal to fade.

member_c1dd971f01 4 Sept 2026 #6

I agree. Although I think it’s less about being unable to climax now—thanks to MM—and more that the medium has lost some of its bite. Everything has become so sterile and standardized. I’m not suggesting we revert to those risky, messy, seedy old days, but there is definitely a need for more flair.

member_cd6cce372f 5 Sept 2026 #7

You should watch it then with your keyholder while you are still locked! That’s the only time I view porn now, and it adds a much richer layer to what happens afterward!

member_b04a31b6d9 5 Sept 2026 #8

It is funny. For me, while I am locked up watching Females Dominating Sissys, I keep dripping and can't wait for my turn to become the Dressed sissy.

member_8cfb83a504 5 Sept 2026 #9

I truly enjoy reading sissy and chastity photo captions when locked up. Very arousing but in the end there is nothing you can do about it, making it that much more frustrating. You then go off to get your chores finished.

member_04d363172b 6 Sept 2026 #10

Although I get more of a buzz out of erotic/fetish stories than porn (not that porn does nothing for me!), being caged can be a bonus and prolong the experience. I think I've got to a stage where I enjoy the sensation of acute arousal as much, if not more than that of orgasm. Without some sort of "deterrent" I can go through arousal to all over in a few mins. If I can't touch my cock then that feeling can last practically indefinitely. Throw a butt plug or similar into the mix, and it can be an exquisite agony...:D

member_eceabb9821 6 Sept 2026 #11

I have found that the longer dickie is locked, he visits fewer porn sites than before. For many years I controlled his passwords for the computer, and monitored his viewing either firsthand or by using the history feature. I also watched his initial posts on The Mansion just to be sure he was being a polite sissy. Lately I've let dickie go anywhere he would like online, and have found he rarely visits porn sites anymore. I questioned dickie about it and he said would rather spend time on here these days. When he does visit video sites, it's almost always femdom, much more than what he used to watch. I think his 8 years as my sub has changed his point of view as he's come to expect being dominated. He did studder and stammer when I asked him about some gay videos that I found he had watched. dickie and my friend Trish's sissy sub have been spending more time with each other, some forced, some not, so maybe that is part of what he is watching these days. I find it's a nice barometer to monitor what he's feeling when locked, as when he is not locked, his computer time is up to me. Mistress Suzan

member_a99c908820 7 Sept 2026 #12

My wife does not like porn. Women are not as visual as guys are. Very rarely have I watched porn with a woman. For me, the purpose of porn was to help me masturbate. Without the ability to do that, I find it repetitive and boring. I still watch the more unusual things that I occasionally find but if she have seen one cuckold or sissie video, you pretty much have seen them all. They seem to all follow the same script.:) I tend towards the more extreme porn which is probably due to many decades of doing and watching many sex acts. After a while you get inured to the regular stuff and need more and more extreme porn to get aroused.

member_86435c1661 7 Sept 2026 #13

I've spent half my life watching porn:cool:. In recent years, with the internet, I just like amateurs videos and photos are what really excite me. Lately is becoming easier to find videos of men shooting as his wife enjoys another ..... I find it very exciting......:)

member_d1603b33aa 8 Sept 2026 #14

Today, my balls are sore and I'm not getting excited at porn. Looked at my favorites and they just didn't do it for me.

member_0a982b0680 8 Sept 2026 #15

I've never enjoyed regular porn very much, it has to have some mental element, and some classy tightly bound domination. I like the Ivy Manor videos a lot, but I always wish I was Jewell Marceau.

member_b81db88828 9 Sept 2026 #16

Interesting. I was a porn addict. My wife locked me up for a few hours and had me view all the porn I wanted. After two weeks of this I got bored with porn. Now I do not seek out porn anymore nor do I masturbate. I have not masturbated in four months now where 5 days was my previous record.

member_8eede75742 9 Sept 2026 #17

That was a good part of the reason for going into chastity... Break the loop of watch and wank. No point in viewing because you can't touch yourself, can't get hard and can't cum. No orgasm without My Lady's knowledge and permission. I went a week without an orgasm this past week, the first time in decades. Only out now because of some sores, but anxious to get back in.