Introductions discussion

My keyholder and I have been dabbling in chastity for several months, intermittently. My issue is that it doesn’t really click for me when I’m not shaved and wearing panties or similar garments. She prefers my hair because she finds the texture prickly and somewhat painful on her skin. However, when I keep my beard/body hair and wear boxers, I feel frustrated; I feel like a proper man who could snap his lock with bare hands. I genuinely enjoy being caged, but I wish more of my feminine side were acknowledged. She really favors masculine men, yet I have pleased both her and other guys while still wanting to be exclusively hers as ‘her man.’ So, I’m at a crossroads and feeling somewhat lost—I hope for some guidance.

Although I firmly believe your body belongs to your keyholder, explaining why you prefer being smooth might help sway the situation. It is ultimately her decision, but good communication can make a difference.

Must you be completely hairless everywhere, or would shaving specific areas suffice? Perhaps there is room for a compromise that works well for both of you.

> Do you have to be smooth all over or would you be content with only shaving some bits? Maybe you could find a compromise you'd both find enjoyable enough. That is exactly what I've been attempting. Being completely smooth is really what I want, but currently, I am compromising. I desire to shave everything and believe that if I stay consistently hairless, it might work for her; she mostly dislikes the stubble growing back. So, she would prefer me just not shaving at all rather than dealing with regrowth.

@chastised4her2386 If your keyholder insists you keep body hair, then you will likely remain frustrated. But if your desire to be smooth becomes too strong to ignore, seeking another keyholder might become necessary.

As a Mistress, I expect my sissy boys to remain hairless at all times, though we all have different preferences for our little ones. My first boy, Dickie, had regular waxing sessions specifically to remove back hair. When the woman who performed his waxings became friends with us, she suggested giving him a Brazilian after he asked if waxing would slow down regrowth compared to shaving. I approved it, and Dickie has maintained that smoothness for nearly five years. When I decided he should start shaving his chest, she did an initial full wax on him first. The same approach was taken with his legs, which is also when she began trimming his eyebrows. Now, Dickie knows to expect back waxing, a Brazilian, and eyebrow adjustments every 6-8 weeks. Since his back hair grows slower than the pubic area, he shaves that spot two to three times a week until his next appointment about two weeks out. This leaves enough length for effective front-to-back waxing at home while keeping the front smooth as a baby's bottom. Plus, panties and thongs look significantly better without any stray hairs! If you'd like me to discuss potential solutions with your keyholder, please message her directly. Good luck on your journey. Mistress Suzan