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Hello all! I'm a newcomer to this website, but I've been around in the lifestyle for a while:) My male partner and I are just beginning our journey into…

member_e93db99d3d 2 Sept 2026 #1

Hello all! I’m a newcomer to this website, but I’ve been around in the lifestyle for a while:) My male partner and I are just beginning our journey into chastity, and I’ve been browsing for inspiration to make the experience more engaging for both of us. He’s heading off to Calgary, Alberta tomorrow (roughly 3000 km from here), and I intend to keep him locked up during his entire six-week stay. We usually manage about four days at a time, so this could be quite an ordeal! I’d love any suggestions or advice! Thank you!

member_cd6cce372f 4 Sept 2026 #2

Glad to have you here! Having spent just over a week in chastity now (my longest time caged so far), the beginning can feel pretty intimidating. This is especially true if your device isn't quite fitting right or has other issues. I began with the CB6000, moved on to the CB600s, and currently use the Mature Metal jailbird. The Jailbird stands out as by far the most comfortable option I've used. I assume your partner will carry a key so he can take it off for cleaning or if issues arise while you're apart? How do you plan to keep him secured?

member_e93db99d3d 5 Sept 2026 #3

> Subby Hubby said: > Glad to have you here! > Having spent just over a week in chastity now (my longest time caged so far), the beginning can feel pretty intimidating. This is especially true if your device isn't quite fitting right or has other issues. I began with the CB6000, moved on to the CB600s, and currently use the Mature Metal jailbird. The Jailbird stands out as by far the most comfortable option I've used. > I assume your partner will carry a key so he can take it off for cleaning or if issues arise while you're apart? How do you plan to keep him secured? > Click to expand... I'll definitely include a key with him for hygiene and emergencies. My plan is to talk daily and have him send photos confirming the cage remains in place. Is the Jailbird travel-friendly? Will it trigger alarms at airports, for instance? We've also tried the Bon4, but he found it uncomfortable, whereas the CB6000 has worked best for us so far. Thanks for your response!

member_cd6cce372f 7 Sept 2026 #4

> GoddessNyx said: > I'll definitely include a key with him for hygiene and emergencies. My plan is to talk daily and have him send photos confirming the cage remains in place. Is the Jailbird travel-friendly? Will it trigger alarms at airports, for instance? We've also tried the Bon4, but he found it uncomfortable, whereas the CB6000 has worked best for us so far. > Thanks for your response! > Click to expand... If you have an iPhone, you could even FaceTime each other while he handles his cleaning routines. Since it's stainless steel, I'd guess it might set off a few alarms. Not entirely sure, though; my husband mentions that when we travel, we just pack the device in our luggage until we arrive.