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I've had two instances this morning of new members approaching me, looking to do business. I toggled my online status so it doesn't display when I'm active,…

member_312dc71f9b 2 Sept 2026 #1

I’ve had two instances this morning of new members approaching me, looking to do business. I toggled my online status so it doesn’t display when I’m active, yet my profile still indicates that I am online. Are there separate settings for defining my availability? While I expect notifications will continue while offline, I want at least to avoid immediate chats interrupting me as I contribute across various parts of the forum.

member_6c5e93d418 4 Sept 2026 #2

@MaleChastityNow Let's not beat around the bush - these are all "ladies" who joined with a single purpose: earning money from members here by luring them off-site to Yahoo Messenger or similar platforms to sign up and pay elsewhere. I find that asking if they want my Credit Card number upfront makes them go silent;) Name the names so everyone knows who you're talking about. I think I can safely say that none of the true dominant ladies here will be sifting through mini chat or messaging you looking to do business. Some might well say "Hello" and want to learn more about you, but isn't that a perfectly acceptable and enjoyable thing - exchanging views and knowledge? By naming them, hopefully admin will pick up on them and delete their profiles. Many get bored after a few days when they realize there are slim pickings here. Looking at your profile, can I suggest you post the Not Available message on the offending member's profiles rather than your own? And mention scamming as well - then others may heed the warning.