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My wife and I are inseparable. We’ve been married for nearly twelve years, and both of us find it tough to be apart even for a single day. If you followed my archived discussion in the Foyer (linked here), you know that when she travels for work, she locks me up before leaving. The longest period so far has been 36 hours. Yesterday morning marked the beginning of another lock-up, which will last until Wednesday night when I visit her.

This round brings new changes and challenges. First, being quite auto-erotic by nature, I’m experiencing a stronger hormonal surge than before and have more need to indulge. I suspect it’s because I know there are still about two days left before I get unlocked. Second, my body seems to be getting used to the CB6k; sitting and driving feel much better now compared to earlier times. Finally, what I hope for after being unlocked has shifted. On the previous two occasions, I was desperate for a quick release, but this time I’d feel almost like something is missing if that’s how it ends up happening. Wednesday night promises to be romantic and sensually charged.

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Everything went smoothly until about midnight on the 10th. I caught some sleep but was roused by a typical night-time erection, which this time felt quite painful. Initially, I assumed it just needed more lubrication and began wiping down the area around the ring. While doing so, I spotted blood. My wife called to advise me that I should go ahead and break the pin. Once I took everything out, I could see how bad the damage was. A cut had started where the ring meets the base of my shaft and extended down across my scrotum for about 4 inches. It seems I used a spacer that was too small. Being tall with significant growth potential, I was running the cb6k with number 2 ring paired to the smallest spacer. The day after the mishap, I decided to test some adjustments. Switching to ring number 1 with the second-smallest spacer worked in terms of fit but proved a bit loose; I could pull it off easily. I considered returning to ring 2 with that same spacer, but my scrotum was still too swollen for comfort then. Still, I believe ring 2 combined with the next-up-sized spacer will work perfectly. On top of that, I’ve ordered an affordable Amazon version of the cb6ks, which should arrive tomorrow. My plan is to use the rings from the original unit while utilizing all other components from the budget model. With this setup, I hope to manage a lock period longer than 36 hours.

It's sweet that you two are getting along so well xx Just make sure nothing touches the area until it’s completely healed. You can still wear your heels, just not the device. Your manhood is quite delicate with such thin skin. To speed up healing, keep it uncovered if possible and apply zinc nappy cream generously to those bits. Staying clean and dry in fresh, soft underwear will be so much better than dealing with chafing plastic. Xx Wendy

Just leave your winky alone. Think of your wife in a nice way and keep busy—go shopping, clean the house, tend to the garden, do laundry and ironing—and time will pass quickly. Then you’ll be all better when she returns home. Xx Wendy

Thanks for the tips! Luckily things healed up quite fast; I applied antibiotic ointment to my bits twice a day. I visited my wife on the 12th. It was such a wonderful night! We spent hours with each other, even though I was pretty sore. Pure bliss. After we recovered, we went out for a fantastic meal. Then we just drove around the city for a bit. When we returned to the hotel, we watched Top Gear and chatted until we fell asleep. Then on Valentine's Day she came back from her trip. We spent an afternoon cuddling up. In the evening we had a lovely dinner at our favorite Chinese restaurant. The time just flew by as we talked while enjoying the rich flavors. After leaving, we drove 100 miles to the adult shop where we bought the CB6K. We grabbed a few more things and headed home for a hot night of passion and wine. Today there’s barely any sign of my wounds, and I’ve been told to lock myself up when the CB6KS arrives. I have no idea how long I’m supposed to stay in:D

Well the CB6KS arrived and viva la diferencia. I’ve only had it on for ten minutes and I can already tell this will be infinitely more comfortable. With the standard 6K, my head was getting trapped long before reaching the end of the tube. With the 6KS, the standard briefs are tight enough that when I do grow, my head slides right to the end of the tube!:) Everything went as hoped regarding the different parts. Genuine ring (#2), knock-off everything else.

This is starting to get really frustrating. I tried the #2 ring with the 2nd smallest spacer and was fine until bedtime. Then I got the beginnings of a chafed red ring clear around my plums. So I switched to the #1 ring with the smallest spacer and experienced similar results at about the same time. I’m leaving it alone now to let everything heal before trying the #1 ring with the 2nd smallest spacer. Is this just part of my body adjusting, kind of like building up calluses for guitar playing?

Hey! I thought I was the only one who plays guitar with his penis! I wonder if there are more. Maybe we should start a forum!

It seems to me that you aren't leaving enough room between the back of the cage and the front edge of your cuff ring. For most people, an average gap is about 3/8 inches. I think this would be a good starting point if you're still getting rubbed raw. Hope this helps! Good luck. Being locked up really isn't fun when your bits are being chafed.