Introductions discussion

Hello everyone! I’m new to this place and absolutely thrilled by my chastity daydreams.

I’d love some recommendations for a beginner-friendly starter cage. Also, how do individual measurements influence which model works best? Personally, when relaxed, mine is quite small—around half an inch—but it can swell significantly during arousal, reaching over six inches. I’m slightly concerned that if I choose a very compact cage for my soft state, it might cause considerable pain once I get excited!

Thank you all for your input.

As long as the sensation is bearable? *shrug* The goal is to find a cage that sits tightly when soft so arousal becomes difficult. If it fits properly, you might feel some discomfort while trying to get excited, but it should feel more like pressure rather than sharp pain.

Hello there! You are definitely a grower bee!!!!! Typically, you want the cage to be as tight as possible while flaccid. If there is too much room to expand, it tends to tug on your testicles and THAT'S painful!!!!! If the penis cannot fully erect within the cage, the erection sort of points 'backward' into the body....? Reviews and advice here suggest that this direction is MUCH LESS painful than having your nuts yanked off by a device!!!!!! MY OWN experience mirrors yours.... I grow quite large when hard. My current cage fits me snugly, and I must say my morning wood is easily manageable!!! I'll add the disclaimer that this is MY personal take!!! We are all different individuals!!! I suggest you grab an affordable adjustable metal Chinese model.... Like this one.... The ones with rings like the image can be adjusted because you can widen or narrow the gaps between them to suit your needs... This way, you might spend around $30 getting a good fit before diving fully into the lifestyle and/or ordering custom!!!! The solid Chinese cages cannot be changed, so I recommend avoiding them because if the dimensions are off (which they frequently are with Chinese devices!!!!!) you've wasted money - period! So.... I hope this helps! With warmest regards. J.

We began with a few days and then progressed to a week, then ten days, and eventually two weeks. We later returned to one week, which we agreed on since it wasn't much of an issue for me as we usually had intercourse on weekends anyway. My wife doesn't like how I act after I climax, so we are once again in an indefinite chastity period. That typically means no orgasm until she gets carried away during hers and brings me over the edge with her. This can happen at any time but usually takes at least two weeks. I am more comfortable at one week, but my wife now feels she truly controls my penis so I have lost a say in the matter. Plus, she enjoys all the attention I give when I'm very horny, like the three-hour foot massage I received today.:)