Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub? discussion

I’ve been searching quite actively for a while now, but everyone seems to be either a scammer from overseas or “professional” types who demand tributes before even considering communication. This is my first time using the community to search, though I’ve lurked anonymously for some time. Hopefully it goes well.

I’m looking for something that might potentially lead to a female-led relationship. If it doesn’t, then that’s fine too. Relationships aren’t meant for everyone. It may be a while away, but over time and getting to know each other is the most realistic method I believe. It takes time to build likeness and trust in someone.

I’m inexperienced, and my desires have never gone beyond fantasy. Nobody I’ve met has been interested in this sort of thing. I know that I like pain and I crave it.

Have you tried sites such as Adult friend finder? There may be people there who share your thirst for pain.