Introductions discussion

Greetings Mistresses, Masters, slaves, pets, sissies, and others, I’ve been watching from the sidelines for about a month and decided to step forward with a ‘Hi’. My path here feels somewhat unusual, though I suspect it only appears so because my entry isn’t the typical one you see. I feel incredibly fortunate to have found an wonderful woman who is also the kindest and most nonjudgmental person I’ve ever encountered. She truly understands me and allows me the freedom to be myself. It’s been a rather strange experience over our nearly year of dating, having someone embrace my nature instead of molding me into what they want. This seems to contradict common beliefs about chastity if one believes everything they read. Although I haven’t had as many partners as she has, my approach to being a lover is unique in both practice and outcome. Personally, I believe I simply appeared at the right time in her life.:) She (was) quite vanilla. Anyway, there is a reason I am here. While browsing sex toys, I noticed the CBX000 line and felt only a hint of interest. I mentioned it to my lady (she prefers that title), and she was curiously intrigued. About three weeks later, I purchased one and told her, which made her even more interested. I spent about four days in lock down feeling very aroused. We don’t live together but communicate daily via talk or text. She received no specific instructions; I just shared my feelings with her. On the night of day 2, she enjoyed watching my penis strain against its confinement while she used a dildo I had given her two months earlier for masturbation. (She loves that toy but claims to prefer my cock.) The following day, we cuddled almost all day long, and I think she was trying to gauge how chastity affected me. On Sunday morning, she released me, and eagerly took her. As I approached climax, one of her sons opened the bedroom door. We quickly separated. She threw on a robe and went out to spend time with her children while I lay in bed feeling quite frustrated. About 20 minutes later, she returned with a bowl of soapy water, a wide smile, and said, “Honey, I have something for you!” Inside the bowl was the CB6K, ready to dry before being put back on. Monday evening proved to be explosive. It amuses me that this lady found her power through chance rather than deliberate desire. She isn’t interested in becoming a mistress or owning a piece of me. For her—and for me too—chastity simply heightens the intensity and variety of our lovemaking. We both have submissive tendencies yet are very assertive individuals. Together, we enjoy every aspect of being together. Yesterday, she mentioned that being with me has improved her as a lover. She feels that being a lover involves more than just physical friction; it requires mental connection and animalistic passion too. We agree there is much to explore ahead. Neither of us knows exactly where this journey leads, but we know love will be present wherever we let it go. Her M

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Hi HTm, A really good story, not too different from my own experience. There is plenty of fun to be had with chastity play without it turning into a full Dom/sub dynamic. It seems your lady has an excellent mindset for what you are doing. And there is nothing quite as thrilling and maddening as having sex while uncertain if you will get to finish. I hope to see you around here, but feel free to reach out if you (or your Lady) need some ideas. Kontraband