Introductions discussion

Quick summary. My spouse and I chose to step back from our short-term chastity routine and return to normal life. That went on for a few weeks, but now here I am again in my CB6000 cage, which I had stored away over the summer. It’s fitted with medium Point of Intrigue (POI) spikes, paired with a woman’s blouse and shorts. My wife did up my face since she wasn’t happy with what I’d done herself. She usually wears very little makeup—just neutral lipstick and tan eye shadow—that’s all. She isn’t the type to wear heavy lipstick despite being bisexual:) I took a risk using blue, so she applied her look to me instead. It feels quite plain.

She had me lock up yesterday afternoon before leaving for work. This morning, after tidying up from breakfast, she instructed me to insert the medium POI spike. The plan is that I’ll post on sex forums and watch porn while attending to whatever tasks she needs at any moment. There will be at least one body massage, foot rub, bum licking, oral service, plus serving her drinks and snacks.

After dinner, she wants me to take Viagra. My doctor gave me a coupon for three free pills and 30% off my next purchase. Then I need to swap out the POI spike for the longest ones so that when she teases me later, it will hurt more. I’m not sure if she’ll have me lock up again once I ejaculate to keep me aroused or wait until after sex tomorrow. We’ve noticed that locking myself up for about two days makes me horny and very attentive to her needs because I want my weekend sexual release. Last week, I only locked on Monday.

I call this hybrid chastity. We attempted quitting it cold turkey, but we both missed certain aspects of the routine. My wife misses marking up my bottom; she went from being gentle so as not to hurt me to hitting full force for at least 50 times tonight is crop time. When once she would be upset if she left a mark, now she feels disappointed if there are only two or three marks. It’s a big shift in her attitude. I’ve also noticed that she no longer hesitates giving orders but has become more flexible when she sees I’m busy or tired.

Most importantly, she misses the way she can make me jump with just a slight touch to my public area. She also enjoys teasing without worrying too much about making me cum too early by keeping me locked until her orgasm first; then I am unlocked and teased further until I either come or not. Last Saturday, when I was certain I would ejaculate, she got the best of me. Even though she told me to take Viagra, it turned out she just wanted to watch me squirm with the POI digging into my penis. She had me lock up before I could cum but took care of me on Sunday.

So basically we do things when we feel like it and leave them alone otherwise. We both seem to prefer this approach now. There’s no pressure, and being locked lasts for short periods. I kind of missed the feeling of my cage against my penis after wearing it almost daily over the last 11 months. You could say chastity has moved from being a dominant activity into part of our broader BDSM play, allowing us to step away day by day or even all week long. My wife still has wiggle room because I agreed to stay no longer than two weeks without an orgasm, so she can continue playing her favorite tease and mind games.

Overall we’re quite happy with how things stand now. Last night was the first time in a fortnight that I wore my cage to bed again, waking up every two hours as usual. It’s manageable but it is the same issue I had before which isn’t caused by nighttime erections given my age. I won’t be doing that again though. That covers where we are now. I should have started watching porn a minute ago so better wrap this up before she comes in to check because I do want to cum tonight. It’s been a busy week dealing with a government audit which didn’t go well, and I am stressed out.