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I’m a 24-year-old new to chastity. I recently purchased my first device and have enjoyed using it, as owning one has always been something I wanted. As long as I can recall, I’ve preferred being submissive. I really appreciate the authority women hold over me; getting instructed and meeting objectives suits me well.

Oops, hit post too early! Here is more: The main reason I got a chastity device is because I masturbate excessively. My goal is to cut back on it. With my high sex drive and no one nearby to assist, things have been tough at 24, but I'm managing so far. This situation has actually led me toward the masturbation issue; I want better control over myself. It's tricky staying locked up when removing the device is an option. Having a Keyholder (KH) as motivation, plus knowing someone relies on me, should make it more manageable. I am still learning but feel ready for guidance. Please message me with any questions. Thanks for reading.

Welcome to CM! You are among friends here xx. It's mostly about willpower and breaking habits while battling the normal healthy sex drive of a 24-year-old. If you're comfortable in your device and can start wearing it for a week or more, begin pushing toward longer durations. Many have shared ideas on what to do with the keys; even freezing them into an ice block is simple yet effective. Ultimately, self-discipline is key. I know being disciplined over a lovely Mistress's knee with pants down is ideal, though not always possible! When you feel like playing with your willy, go for a run or tackle some chores instead of sitting at the computer watching porn. Xx Wendy