Female led relationships discussion

Greetings everyone! I find myself in quite a predicament here. I was chatting with random women on Facebook about various aspects of the BDSM lifestyle we all know and love. After plenty of rejections, I finally connected with a girl who seemed receptive to becoming her submissive servant. Soon after, her friend requested me as well, and we started conversing. I told her I’d be happy to do whatever she asks, and she wants me to take her shopping. I explained that I have a foot fetish; while she isn’t overly enthusiastic about it, she agreed to let me smell her feet for a bit if I pay for the outing. I don’t have much disposable income, so I’m not entirely sure it’s worth the cost, but the prospect of taking this young girl (she just turned 18) to the mall and buying what she desires is very thrilling. Plus, I get to enjoy her feet, and since she doesn’t fully grasp my kink, there might be plenty of laughter directed at me along with some general degradation and humiliation while I’m sniffing away. I’m really torn! Ever since our first chat, this has been on my mind constantly, which pushes me toward just saying forget it and going for it. At the very least, it’ll be a unique life experience I won’t ever forget. However, that theory makes me regret some of the money I’ve wasted in the past. What do you all think?

The idea doesn't sound entirely appealing... it would be easy for him to turn the whole situation into something less than ideal...

I can see why you find this exciting, but since you are meeting a stranger, precautions are necessary. Will this be short-term or could it develop into a relationship? From what you've said, she isn't really part of that lifestyle. Perhaps look at dating sites specifically geared toward your interests so you can participate regularly without being her sugar daddy.