Introductions discussion

I’m new to chastity and was just wondering how erections work. When I put my male device on, it pulls my testicles down really hard, yet I still seem to get an erection. The picture in my profile is what I mean.

Sorry, can't figure out how to attach the pic. My email is and I can send it.

Your cage should only be as long as your penis is when flaccid. That helps with erections, but to be honest there's no way to stop them completely except for some ice or a cold shower lol. No worries, you'll get used to it.

Hi there and welcome! @ineverknew has it spot on... The cage length is very important. And whilst we men maybe don't want to undersize ourselves in the tackle department, going short is definitely better for chastity!!!! I have found that you can help yourself a little with night boners by relaxing.... I don't know the names of the muscles, so I'll do my best to explain! When I get an erection, the area around my perineum and butt tenses up. I'm not sure if this is the pelvic floor or related to the anal sphincter, but it is a definite tensing... almost like trying to hold off going for number two! So when night wood wakes me, I try focusing on that tension and then force myself to relax it... For me it seems to 'soften' my erection a little and helps it go down quicker... Almost like the tensing keeps the hard-on strong. It's a challenge to be sure!!! Sometimes I like the feeling of trying to stay hard so I tense up again! In the end, it helps me out. And if I relax while going for a wee, the hard-on can disappear quite quickly! With kindest regards, J.

Ok, a picture is posted in my gallery. Please look and see.

Are you hard in that picture...??

Yes.

Wow! You're really pulling your device away aren't you?! When I get hard in my cage the erection seems to be more 'inside' my abdomen. Yours is definitely outside!! My first reaction (and this isn't necessarily the absolute answer, sorry) is that your base ring might be too big.....? How's the fit when you are flaccid...? Is it loose? Can you fit more than one finger under it? Hopefully some experienced people will come and have a look at this too!!! With kindest regards, J.