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I am a middle-aged man who is single, straight, and submissive. I am seeking a long-term (24/7) monogamous partnership with an kinky woman who enjoys being dominant at all times. I have avoided platforms like because they appear to be primarily focused on collecting subscription fees rather than fostering genuine connections; most profiles suggest that users are just experimenting. Dating has been quite frustrating for me in conventional relationships, which is why I haven’t dated much over the past few years—although when I did date, it was always serially with one person at a time. What steps should I take to locate a woman who is truly invested in this lifestyle?

Hello there! Welcome to the community. This might not be much assistance since we are not primarily a dating site and our member density is relatively low if you consider the global spread. You are also essentially searching for that rare one-in-a-million woman at best. My advice is simply to start dating, and after giving it some respectful time while cultivating a pleasant vanilla relationship, gently bring up your interest in this lifestyle and see how she responds. Xx Wendy