Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife and I attempted a ruined orgasm last weekend. When I signaled that I was close to climaxing, she stopped touching me right away, yet it turned out to be quite a good orgasm nonetheless. I have accidentally achieved ruined orgasms before while masturbating myself; in those instances, my semen would flow but without much pleasure felt. It seems more difficult to do deliberately than some people realize. Do you have any tips? Perhaps timing is key. Also, our attempt happened after significant teasing. This approach might be even better with quicker, sharper stimulation that then ceases abruptly.

I've heard that if she stops immediately and also slaps your thigh, it helps ruin the pleasure. Seems worth a try.

Or perhaps not doing it at all.

> Nostromo said: > she immediately stopped touching > Click to expand... That's how it works for me as well.