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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My spouse has just returned from the hospital. She underwent major surgery and will need a recovery period that prevents sexual activity for at least three…

member_a2a76baad1 3 Sept 2026 #1

My spouse has just returned from the hospital. She underwent major surgery and will need a recovery period that prevents sexual activity for at least three months. Even so, she expects me to hold off on reaching an orgasm until she is ready. Essentially, she framed this as a sweet show of affection toward her. I am willing to do it, but my worry now is whether there will be any teasing involved. Previously, experiencing teasing sessions about an hour long, three times each week was enough to keep me from losing my mind.

Has anyone managed several months in chastity without sexual contact? If you have, what methods did you use to get through it?

member_59dd82eabc 6 Sept 2026 #2

I am not sure about lasting a few months entirely on my own, but our current routine ranges from once weekly to every fortnight. When she unlocks me, she usually edges me before locking me back up again. She might reduce the frequency even more in the future. However, I believe that without contact at all, the enjoyment will simply wear off, making it less enjoyable for both of us. If your partner is unable or unwilling to use her hands or mouth, why not consider a fake vagina toy? This could allow you some scheduled time or power play within those limits. You might need to get creative with this approach.