Chastity and orgasm denial discussion
Like I mentioned in another thread, my wife underwent significant surgery roughly two weeks back and is looking at a full recovery period of three to six…
Like I mentioned in another thread, my wife underwent significant surgery roughly two weeks back and is looking at a full recovery period of three to six months. I wasn’t entirely clear on her expectations for me regarding chastity during this time. She’s fine with me viewing porn but views masturbation as cheating. So here is the dilemma. Yes, I could just lie beside her while she uses her hand, but it wouldn’t be particularly sensual. Initially, she wanted me to abstain from orgasm entirely until she recovered fully. However, a few days ago, she suggested I stay locked up but hinted that she might not check on my status very often, wink, wink.
Today she actually questioned why I wasn’t wearing the device yet. My response was that staying locked for three months straight without our usual regular teasing sessions just wouldn’t work for me.
In the end, we settled on a one-month lock period. If necessary, she agreed to grant me an orgasm in whatever way her physical condition allows. That is acceptable to me. I even tried to persuade our girlfriend to come down here—my expense—to help tend to both of us, but she has her own issues at the moment. Typically, my restlessness kicks in after two weeks, so I am uncertain how a full month will go for me. Still, since we began this chastity journey last November and have not masturbated since then, I really do want to stick with it rather than relapsing.
Does anyone have tips or tricks for maintaining sanity without feeling overly horned up? Being my wife’s caretaker while managing work has kept thoughts of sex at bay, but the horniness is starting to return, which prompted this clarification. I am putting on the lock as soon as I hit post here and hoping to get some support from this community to help me stay faithful.
I'm not certain whether that appeals to you. When I have the device on and feel restless, I occasionally use a dildo or keep a plug in for several hours at a time. Aside from that, it really comes down to how committed we are.