Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone! I’ve been browsing the forums and noticed folks are ready to help out with a friendly, non-judgmental vibe—almost necessary given this subject matter! Anyway… based on my own choice, I decided to give chastity a shot for two main reasons: first, to curb that constant masturbating habit, and second, to find ways to get more attention from my wife. She seems to really enjoy it once a week (which is the same frequency as before), but apart from those times, I feel like I’m not getting enough of what I crave. Perhaps a tease or two during the rest of the week would be nice. Am I being just a bit whiny, or does feeling ignored play into this? I’m checking out lockup durations and wondering if they imply total isolation? Hats off to some of you veterans! …One last thing: maybe my current device isn’t great because it’s too easy for me to pull out… including the insert itself. Any foolproof advice on devices? Thanks everyone, looking forward to getting acquainted with you all!

Welcome aboard EMK, I'm not entirely sure how to sway your wife since it took my own a while to warm up to chastity. While I don't get direct physical teasing from her much, there are subtle innuendos that arise occasionally. So yes, it is still teasing, just not the tactile kind. Regarding a device: if you're leaning towards a one-size-fits-all model, well, we all know our sizes vary greatly here. Save yourself some cash and opt for a custom-made device instead.

Thanks for the tips... You hit the nail on the head about innuendos. I'll just appreciate them even more! Yeah, I started with a budget-friendly option and will look into an "upgrade" if this whole thing takes off:)