Female led relationships discussion

I launched an “experiment” weeks ago to remove his device while insisting on a strict “no touching at all” rule. He has gone more than five months without a release and is handling it beautifully. I can’t see myself altering this method anytime soon, if ever. He stays alert as expected (and he enjoys the process). I frequently desire penetrative sex from him. It would be foolish not to utilize his equipment now that he’s been conditioned against ejaculating. He possesses good endurance before I send him away.

He remains fully exposed but wears a ring around the base day and night, which adds even more intensity during our sessions; I couldn’t go without it. I am considering purchasing him an engraved heavy-duty model, though its purpose is quite clear…

He already owns an inscribed wedding band that matches mine.

Regarding Anne, we are contemplating some kind of piercing. She has dropped hints about this too (I never expected to consider this!!) - and he actually already sports one, likely a Prince Albert. I can imagine clever methods to make use of the fact they both have them…;-)

What other options might I discover for marking him? Any lovely ideas from Mistresses or creative members here? I’m certain he would delight in me finding a way to demonstrate that he is mine and subject to my desires. Perhaps something semi-permanent?

Feel free to send me a private message if you prefer it stays between us… I’d also love to hear your stories. How did you mark your sub/man, and why? To the subs: What marks do you bear, and how does it feel? Wishing everyone a wonderful Sunday:) XX Drewife - overseeing @BlueEyes - (and Anne to some degree)

I'd opt for a barcode on his rear. Property of.....

My wife had me circumcised at twenty-five to make my penis more pleasing to her eyes. There was no other reason than her preference. I also bear black marks on the glans from my wife and her girlfriend extinguishing cigarettes upon it. My wife started it, and when her partner saw it, she wanted her mark too. These scars evoke memories yet remain subtle enough that outsiders wouldn't guess their meaning. We considered carving initials into our buttocks but decided against it since relationships are fleeting.

> DREWife said: > I launched an "experiment" weeks ago to remove his device while insisting on a strict "no touching at all" rule. He has gone more than five months without a release and is handling it beautifully... [quoted text continues] ...how to mark the male in another fashion than devices and... > > I am trying my best... But could do with a little outside perspective:) > > XX DreWife > Click to expand... Tattoos work well. I'm currently wearing temporary ones for my kh. Next week I'm getting her initials done permanently, but you could stick with temporary and keep replacing them repeatedly.

The only drawback is locating another Mistress with the same name a decade later.:)

I am listed in the slave register. I have a tattoo of my Mistress' symbol with the registry number placed beneath it on my backside. Very fitting for a slave.

> DREWife said: > I launched an "experiment" weeks ago to remove his device while insisting on a strict "no touching at all" rule. He has gone more than five months without a release and is handling it beautifully... [quoted text continues] ...how to mark the male in another fashion than devices and... > > I am trying my best... But could do with a little outside perspective:) > > XX DreWife > Click to expand... I'd recommend a tattoo ('owned by DREWife' or similar), and perhaps also (a suitably humiliating) dog tag attached to his PA.

Steer clear of using names because we all know how those situations usually turn out.

How to design for a magical relationship in a country where design is nearly religious for someone who is a designer. It must be permanent, so it has to be a tattoo. However, for the lasting marking of @BlueEyes, I believe this image fits better. Deep within the forest heart, a circle of wolves sits quietly with ears perked, watching two women dressed entirely in white standing on either side of the naked man. He is tightly shackled to the four corners of a massive granite slab upon his back. The table-like surface has been worn smooth by countless bodies struggling for freedom as they await their fate . The chains gleam bright silver under the moonlight. On a rock significantly higher than the rest, the imposing she-wolf matriarch tilts her head toward the sky, licks her lips, and lets out a long howl. The two women notice that the moment of marking is approaching. They descend to the black stone situated between the naked man's legs. Resting upon it is a branding iron featuring an intricate design. There is no fire present. The she-wolf gazes down at the women. Her eyes begin to glow, turning bright blue while her pack watches intently. Slowly she turns and looks up at the moon; she howls so loudly that it seems unlikely such sound comes from within her. Suddenly, a searing bolt of piercing blue lightning strikes directly onto the black stone and the branding iron. The older woman lifts the now glowing bright blue-white iron. The younger one pulls the man's erection aside as the hot metal contacts his flesh just below his navel. He screams as smoke rises into the cool night air. Then she raises the still-hot iron above her head. A second bolt of lightning strikes the iron, causing it to explode in a shower of blue and gold sparks. The two women turn back to the man; his shackles are gone. They kiss each other. The Matriarch looks down and says, "You have done well." Xx Wendy

Hey Wendy - Where did that come from:)??? A truly very nice piece indeed! Is it your own creation?:) Interesting images unfolding before my eyes ... Hmmmm. Hi-hi... Alluring, erotic, yet slightly daunting. I know for certain that BlueEyes can withstand severe pain; he has tested his limits many times in the past I believe, so this would not be an Issue, but still.... ( I fear he might actually love it..., which frightens me a little, just a bit;-) And I also wish to mark him aesthetically... Who possesses the skill to ensure everything goes smoothly? ...Hmmm... A tattoo saying something like - in Danish naturally: " Don't touch! - It's MY property - D.R.E" (My initials) placed correctly could be a lovely piece, or perhaps another piercing with an inscription somewhere on his equipment that won't spoil my view or interfere during penetration or impact... It would need to be a permanent piercing he cannot remove under any circumstances... Well, I must deliberate. If he reads this, he'll remain unsure which option I choose, right;-) But I sense he truly needs a mark now that I have removed his device, and I WILL grant him one as a gesture. I just need to decide exactly what it will be. More suggestions are welcome:) I find selecting jewelry for Anne's piercing much easier.... Thanks to you all for the ideas thus far:-) I think that I am considering these options at all because I have grown to love not caging him. I cherish the power of simply being in control, without too obvious restraints... Me dressed and he - and she - naked yet still denied any self-stimulation...;-) @Mascara^Snake and @Mistress B - I could really use your input on this matter. Here or preferably via PM. I feel a bit uncertain here. And I don't seem to find much reading online or elsewhere about handling chastity through mind control and marking the male differently than with devices... I am doing my best... But welcome some outside perspective:) XX DreWife

Well, this thread is also misplaced. The Secret Garden was established for those of us wishing to discuss women in chastity. I struggle a bit with the idea of a woman wearing a belt, but here is the place to talk about it. So this will be relocated to the Pedestal. Cheers everyone.

The morning after spending the night together for the first time, my girlfriend and I were in the shower and she wrapped her legs around my leg and peed on me. She was definitely marking me and 4 years later we are still together and having more fun than ever before. She wears the key to my happiness around her neck...LOL