Introductions discussion

Hello everyone, I’m Cody. Nineteen years old and hailing from Collingswood, NJ. I am new to this place and also fresh to the world of chastity. Even if I haven’t been locked up yet, watching plenty of videos online has me quite aroused at the thought of my member being secured in devices ranging from silicone to plastic to metal. Partly because of my youth, I am eager to learn what it is like and experience life in a cage. The main hurdle for me is that living with family means mail isn’t very private. Getting hold of any kind of chastity device on my own feels nearly impossible unless we consider the rope option or similar methods. Online stores have the best selection, and naturally, no store nearby has any devices in stock at all. Fortunately, even if postal delivery lacks privacy, I enjoy plenty of seclusion within my home with little fear of snooping. I hope to find a mentor who can guide me through the ropes and help me start strong in being locked up. I look forward to learning from those with experience and hopefully sharing my own journey someday. Cheers! -Cody

Welcome. I spent a long time living in NJ before moving away. Some places ship the Chastity Device discreetly, but still, someone might see the box. You can claim it is something else and keep another item hidden in your room to reveal later.:) The CB6000s is the most popular device, though a genuine one costs around $150. You can pick up a Chinese clone on Amazon for much less, but comfort might suffer slightly. It’s good for dipping your toes in and satisfying curiosity. However, it takes time to adjust; you’ll need to sit to pee, dress carefully to hide the bulge, sit without crushing your balls, and follow a cleaning routine after peeing. I use a squirt bottle with a sponge on a stick. If you don’t clean it well, odor sets in. You will also notice that experiencing chastity alone lacks some depth compared to having a loving partner. You aren't doing it primarily for someone else's benefit, nor are you sharing the pleasure of their orgasm or being teased repeatedly to the brink of orgasm—a process I find makes the effort worthwhile. Going solo means denying yourself; once the initial thrill fades, it is just self-denial without the richer rewards that come with a relationship. While I support trying it for the experience, going solo versus having a keyholder who loves you is like masturbating alone versus being kissed and fondled by a lover during masturbation. Both offer pleasure, but the latter is far more enjoyable. Professional keyholders charge fees, and email instructions differ from in-person guidance. Grab a clone to test it out. Expect some discomfort initially, including sitting to pee and potentially awkward dinner seating depending on your chairs. If you remove and reapply it multiple times daily, you miss the heightened sensitivity that comes from not touching your penis for days or weeks. My drawers are full of sex toys I just had to try. Go ahead with caution: solo life gives you denial frustration but lacks some pleasurable extras. It still rings a bell, perhaps quieter and shorter than in a relationship.:) Hope this helps paint the full picture of solo versus loving partnership.

> Vinny said: > Welcome. I spent a long time living in NJ before moving away. Some places ship the Chastity Device discreetly, but still, someone might see the box. You can claim it is something else and keep another item hidden in your room to reveal later.:) > The CB6000s is the most popular device, though a genuine one costs around $150. You can pick up a Chinese clone on Amazon for much less, but comfort might suffer slightly. It’s good for dipping your toes in and satisfying curiosity. However, it takes time to adjust; you’ll need to sit to pee, dress carefully to hide the bulge, sit without crushing your balls, and follow a cleaning routine after peeing. I use a squirt bottle with a sponge on a stick. If you don’t clean it well, odor sets in. > You will also notice that experiencing chastity alone lacks some depth compared to having a loving partner. You aren't doing it primarily for someone else's benefit, nor are you sharing the pleasure of their orgasm or being teased repeatedly to the brink of orgasm—a process I find makes the effort worthwhile. Going solo means denying yourself; once the initial thrill fades, it is just self-denial without the richer rewards that come with a relationship. > While I support trying it for the experience, going solo versus having a keyholder who loves you is like masturbating alone versus being kissed and fondled by a lover during masturbation. Both offer pleasure, but the latter is far more enjoyable. Professional keyholders charge fees, and email instructions differ from in-person guidance. Grab a clone to test it out. Expect some discomfort initially, including sitting to pee and potentially awkward dinner seating depending on your chairs. If you remove and reapply it multiple times daily, you miss the heightened sensitivity that comes from not touching your penis for days or weeks. My drawers are full of sex toys I just had to try. > Go ahead with caution: solo life gives you denial frustration but lacks some pleasurable extras. It still rings a bell, perhaps quieter and shorter than in a relationship.:) Hope this helps paint the full picture of solo versus loving partnership. > Click to expand... Well, I plan to have it sent straight to my house. However, anything larger than a standard letter, or unless it includes a customs form (I buy many historical railway items from the UK), my mother tends to open it. My brother has ordered drug paraphernalia under my name before, and she doesn't allow unidentified packages into the house without inspection; if it looks like something I wouldn't normally order, it gets tossed. Anything that reaches my room by other means is safe. I'm not necessarily aiming for a 100% solo journey. I have always wanted to meet a stranger who edges me and then locks me in chastity, communicating only via email to arrange meetings where they torture my cock while still caged using tools like e-stim to make me cum without unlocking. The person's gender doesn't matter; man or woman works. That captures the gist of it, though there is more nuance involved and flexibility exists. My goal with this approach is living out a personal fantasy and conducting an intense trial run before proposing chastity to my girlfriend in Germany and investing in my own device.