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Here’s a small gift to mark the selection of new moderators and their ideas for this community. Also, I want to highlight that without donations, this site…

member_9a1e05c0fe 3 Sept 2026 #1

Here’s a small gift to mark the selection of new moderators and their ideas for this community. Also, I want to highlight that without donations, this site won’t last long-term, at least not while choking on excessive ads… So here is my offer; This month I will give $1 to the Mansion for every member currently using a caged cockshot as an Avatar - if they agree to swap their cockshot for something more refined, poetic, artistic, humorous, and so on… I’m sure many members and moderators will applaud this gesture. The cap is set at 50 dollars (the same amount I gave last month), but I feel I can stretch my donation a bit further this time… Let me know if you’re ready to take money from my wallet and send it to the Mansion. I might even offer some suggestions for what your Avatar could look like, but please try choosing one yourself first. I’m confident you can… Alternatively, you can ask our lovely new moderators; I am certain they are more than capable of offering good advice… And remember: Male chastity is NOT about making the penis the center of everything. Quite the opposite… Sincerely, BlueEyes…

  • and yes, I’m not wearing a device myself… - but that has only deepened my sense of submission - and made me think even less about my cock. - Consider this for a moment…
member_9a1e05c0fe 3 Sept 2026 #2

I forgot to mention a link to the thread I started ages ago regarding Avatars. Take a look at the referenced community page. I might create another one for profile covers... I can also share some examples of attractive, artistic Avatars available for free - suitable for both males and Dommes,-) [[Image: 6.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: 12.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: 35-1.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: 29.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: 31.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: 43.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: 32.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: 28.jpg]](the referenced community page) Cheers...

member_9a1e05c0fe 4 Sept 2026 #3

my profile cover: the referenced community page I just had to update it - choosing one without a device;-)

member_08a61e996b 4 Sept 2026 #4

Great idea BlueEyes!

member_4ccc64f3aa 4 Sept 2026 #5

My friend.... will you donate if I switch mine to a cockshot and then change it back again??!!! I feel unfairly treated in this effort!!;) With the utmost kind regards. J.

member_9a1e05c0fe 4 Sept 2026 #6

> I LOVE my Choice! said: > My friend.... will you donate if I switch mine to a cockshot and then change it back again??!!! > I feel unfairly treated in this effort!!;) > With the utmost kind regards. > J. > Click to expand... Yes, I know you’ve been such a noble student, - so YES, let’s just say You have already earned your dollar from my pocket LOL!!!

member_4ccc64f3aa 4 Sept 2026 #7

Never let it be said that @BlueEyes is anything less than a TRUE gentleman!!!! May your denial last long and be full of teasing!!:D With the utmost kind regards. J.

member_1deb4ed88c 4 Sept 2026 #8

Lovely idea @BlueEyes but as a natural-born female I would prefer some avatars that generate excitement among any new ladies who wander in and are relatively fresh to the world of Male Chastity. Something like these perhaps [[Image: avatar1.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: avatar3.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: avatar2.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: avatar4.jpg]](the referenced community page)

member_6c5e93d418 4 Sept 2026 #9

> Mistress Jules said: > Lovely idea @BlueEyes but as a natural-born female I would prefer some avatars that generate excitement among any new ladies who wander in and are relatively fresh to the world of Male Chastity. Something like these perhaps > Click to expand... If only we could all, @Mistress Jules, though I fear Trade Descriptions legislation might kick in. Now what I’m wondering is, which one of these hunks is actually @lockit?:p

member_c90c03e8a8 5 Sept 2026 #10

OK, Just changed mine

member_9a1e05c0fe 5 Sept 2026 #11

> GT-CB6000 said: > OK, Just changed mine > Click to expand... Lol! - I don’t really recall the previous one, - but this one is hardly what will ring @Mistress Jules 's bell;-) But thank God, we live in a free world. You just earned the Mansion a dollar...

member_9a1e05c0fe 5 Sept 2026 #12

> Mistress Jules said: > Lovely idea @BlueEyes but as a natural-born female I would prefer some avatars that generate excitement among any new ladies who wander in and are relatively fresh to the world of Male Chastity. Something like these perhaps > View attachment 5663 View attachment 5664 View attachment 5665 View attachment 5666 > Click to expand... Oh how nice to finally see some full-blown female fantasies. We are flooded here with male submissive ones. A few Dome fantasies featuring the six-packed, oversized stud-sub are so refreshing;-) Being in my early 40's I can't always keep up with the crisp young models, but I'm doing OK. And I am pretty well-equipped too - I think;-) LOL! But I feel no need to flaunt my body in my avatar. It is reserved for DREWife... and Ann. But If I was single and seeking a Domme and KH, it could be another story, I know... So- Guys - If you want to build up some attention from the lovely ladies here, Maybe You should consider @Mistress Jules's recommendations:-) - and start doing some serious body toning workouts;-)

member_5c0ebd873e 5 Sept 2026 #13

OK, shell out a dollar....... I'll miss that avatar.......

member_c90c03e8a8 5 Sept 2026 #14

My previous avatar was me in my blue CB3000 I'll look for other interesting items.

member_9a1e05c0fe 5 Sept 2026 #15

> DeesHubby said: > OK, shell out a dollar....... I'll miss that avatar....... > Click to expand... Your sacrifice is highly appreciated, and will be remembered forever. LOL. One Dollar - Yep!

member_9a1e05c0fe 5 Sept 2026 #16

It would be nice to have some examples of desired avatar-styles from all the three musketeers: @Mistress B, @Mascara^Snake and @Mistress Jules. Maybe that could persuade more subs to drop their cock shots and go for something more eye-catching.:-) If I have to spend a few extra dollars on that account, I would only be proud;-)

member_2ebad92782 6 Sept 2026 #17

I don't really have specific tastes for avatars; it's just that rows and rows of caged male genitalia get rather boring after a while. I rather like the comical ones and those with a clever design. I have chosen one or two for subbies who asked me, but the ones I chose were specifically tailored to them because I knew their little fantasies. Anyway, I have put them in here. [[Image: cocky.jpg]](the referenced community page) [[Image: spec.jpg]](the referenced community page)

member_692cc67951 6 Sept 2026 #18

@BlueEyes Mine is changed.

member_9a1e05c0fe 6 Sept 2026 #19

> chasteme said: > @BlueEyes Mine is changed. > Click to expand... Super- One more Dollar is flying out of my pocket... Hallelujah!- And very Nice Avatar By the way...!

member_6c5e93d418 6 Sept 2026 #20

Mine has changed for now - but not because of this thread:p

member_9a1e05c0fe 6 Sept 2026 #21

> Mistress B said: > I don't really have specific tastes for avatars; it's just that rows and rows of caged male genitalia get rather boring after a while. > I rather like the comical ones and those with a clever design. I have chosen one or two for subbies who asked me, but the ones I chose were specifically tailored to them because I knew their little fantasies. Anyway, I have put them in here.] > Click to expand... Thanks for your contribution Mistress B - and your support.:-) Highly Appreciated:-) Hmmm... Seems there is a liking for young, well-trained, and six-pack guys among the Dommes.... Who could blame them? LOL! Back to the Gym, guys...

member_9a1e05c0fe 6 Sept 2026 #22

> maid_carrie said: > Mine has changed for now - but not because of this thread:p > Click to expand... Well, the previous "old school farmer attire" won't really qualify as a cock shot, but I know for a fact that You used to pick quite high-street-like outfits for Avatars, so in honor of that memory, I will throw in a dollar for You...;-) OK?

member_c90c03e8a8 6 Sept 2026 #23

I felt That was more appropriate.

member_9a1e05c0fe 7 Sept 2026 #24

> GT-CB6000 said: > I felt That was more appropriate. > Click to expand... You have indeed earned your one dollar donation:-) And are you owned?

member_c90c03e8a8 7 Sept 2026 #25

This might be a little more like it?

member_9a1e05c0fe 7 Sept 2026 #26

It is just fine! No six-pack, but indeed a very soft guy. Good sub-material!

member_08d7fef9a1 7 Sept 2026 #27

Mr Blue Eyes, that is an extremely generous offer. However, my personal preference would be for members to pay $5 themselves for the pleasure of having their Cock (locked or unlocked) as an Avatar.

member_4a01dacdaa 7 Sept 2026 #28

And I'll donate an apple for each one as soon as my cider making is concluded.

member_9a1e05c0fe 7 Sept 2026 #29

> Mascara^Snake said: > Mr Blue Eyes, > that is an extremely generous offer. However, my personal preference would be for members to pay $5 themselves for the pleasure of having their Cock (locked or unlocked) as an Avatar. > Click to expand... Raise the license to 20 dollars, - that seems a fair prize for throwing cock shots in the face of CM members. Especially wives and girlfriends are being scared off this forum when their husbands and boyfriends try to convince them to join the mansion. These many cocks are not selling tickets to newcomers from the female side... And it is soooo counter-productive!!

member_9a1e05c0fe 7 Sept 2026 #30

Just to make it clear: My initial offer is still in play. So far I have only spent $4 of my donation. Help the Mansion and help submissive males so their female counterparts feel welcome at the Mansion. Swap the cock shots for something good.... And I'll pay for it:-)

member_41314d757c 8 Sept 2026 #31

There are certainly fewer *cocklet-shots than there used to be, and I fear that some of the recent campaigning in this area has robbed you of a fund-raising opportunity! *It seems wrong to call a locked member a C**k! Such a potent word for an item rendered so impotent.

member_9a1e05c0fe 8 Sept 2026 #32

Yes, and if this continues I have to start putting my money toward clever profile covers etc.... LOL!

member_48b858cfa4 8 Sept 2026 #33

> BlueEyes said: > Yes, and if this continues I have to start putting my money toward clever profile covers etc.... LOL! > Click to expand... I don't know how clever mine counts as my avatar has always been the same. The picture is of the plastic locks that came with my cheap replica CB6000 or 3000, can't remember. times have improved; I'm expecting my Neosteel arch around x-mas this year:D

member_9a1e05c0fe 8 Sept 2026 #34

One dollar for You - for not having been tempted to show off - LOL!

member_48b858cfa4 8 Sept 2026 #35

> BlueEyes said: > One dollar for You - for not having been tempted to show off - LOL! > Click to expand... Thanks, now I feel guilty for not contributing doesn't paying via PayPal put you off?, it always scares me having any link to my real identity

member_9a1e05c0fe 8 Sept 2026 #36

> chastiff said: > Thanks, now I feel guilty for not contributing > doesn't paying via PayPal put you off?, it always scares me having any link to my real identity > Click to expand... No, not really - I don't feel like a freak, so If anyone were to find out, I would not panic at all. I feel like a better man, husband, lover, pleaser and overall person, and who can say anything against that?;-) In a paranoid world I see what you are saying, but I find it highly unlikely that anyone would care about my PayPal purchases..

member_5802b274b3 8 Sept 2026 #37

I changed mine some time ago. It is not penis centric:-)

member_9a1e05c0fe 9 Sept 2026 #38

> atarikiki said: > I changed mine some time ago. > It is not penis centric:) > Click to expand... Certainly Not LOL! And as such it qualifies for a one-dollar donation, if in fact you changed it from a cock or cockle shot...;-) However - If You would consider at some point helping submissive males who want to introduce their female counterparts to the Mansion and to the lifestyle by choosing something that is not so explicit, You would be a true Gentleman. But I am not going to start being an Avatar-policeman, so I will only wish in silence... LOL! A great pegging day to You:-)

member_5a77f90c7a 9 Sept 2026 #39

Lovely idea BlueEyes. I changed mine to something less shocking...

member_9a1e05c0fe 9 Sept 2026 #40

> Stechassy said: > Lovely idea BlueEyes. I changed mine to something less shocking... > Click to expand... Just wonderful Avatar! One Dollar more from my pockets!