Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Please excuse my lack of knowledge. I’ve searched the site using those exact terms, yet I’m still unsure how to send a private message to just one person without it being visible to others. Puzzlingly, checking ‘help’ didn’t clarify things for me either. Do you access their profile and choose ‘Starting a conversation’? If so, could someone confirm this? If not, please explain the correct method or point me to where I can find instructions.

I've been chatting with a member using something called mini chat. It was just us two talking. Since I'm new here and didn't initiate the chat myself, I wasn't sure it had started properly. Feel free to send me a chat request if you'd like to test it out.

Thanks. Apologies, but I'm not sure how that works either.

Sorry if I can't be more helpful right now. I'm at work and using my phone, so I can't browse the site as freely as usual. Hopefully someone will pop up soon to set me straight.