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Hello everyone, I am a man who is sexually submissive and married to a woman with socially dominant traits. Sounds great? Perhaps... but here's the issue:…

member_52fdbdb24a 3 Sept 2026 #1

Hello everyone, I am a man who is sexually submissive and married to a woman with socially dominant traits. Sounds great? Perhaps… but here’s the issue: even though she tends to be in charge of most things in our life, her approach in the bedroom is quite mainstream and conventional. She understands my kinks (or at least most of them) and is caring & accommodating, yet she finds chastity devices and/or piercings unappealing. I tested out a few CBs for myself and showed them to her, fully expecting that once she witnessed how AMAZING they looked on me, the surge in sexual power would make her completely onboard with the idea. It just baffles me; after all the effort of browsing porn around the clock to find the ideal expression of true love, I received only a familiar eye roll o_O.

Just kidding! Despite not being a natural Domme, she is still my dominant partner in spirit. Since I remain a devoted submissive who doesn’t force her into things outside her interest, maybe I can enjoy vicarious thrills by hearing about all of you engaging with this wonderful lifestyle.:)