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Hello, I'm a 31-year-old submissive who has been free from chastity for over a year. I am looking to connect with a mistress who can act as my keyholder and…

member_68648741c7 3 Sept 2026 #1

Hello, I’m a 31-year-old submissive who has been free from chastity for over a year. I am looking to connect with a mistress who can act as my keyholder and hopefully guide me back into training, as I really miss having that control.

member_68648741c7 5 Sept 2026 #2

I'm tired of sifting through all the nonsense. If any domme wants to accept my submission as a gift, please send me a message. I view submission as a present in itself, not something bought with money. Money doesn't prove I am genuine or that you have control; it only shows how deep your pockets are, which is what most dommes care about these days. Real domination and submission go beyond financial transactions. Don't misunderstand me—I do enjoy buying gifts for my owner, but it shouldn't be an expectation that the submissive constantly showers the domme with material goods. (This message has been posted on all of my profiles across every site where I am a member.)

member_2ebad92782 5 Sept 2026 #3

> sheepishsatsuma said: > I'm tired of sifting through all the nonsense. If any domme wants to accept my submission as a gift, please send me a message. >) > Click to expand... Patience is indeed a virtue, and it seems you have very little of it.

member_6c5e93d418 8 Sept 2026 #4

> Mistress B said: > Patience is indeed a virtue, and it seems you have very little of it. > Click to expand... True enough. I've been a member for three years now, made only two posts in this thread (less than 12 hours apart), yet no one here knows who @sheepishsatsuma is beyond those slightly awkward messages above. I think the farewell post by @Loki the Chaste should be required reading before using Lost & Found: Loki the Chaste **Bye! 80% chaste boys; 10% real (unavailable) Domme and 10% fake domme... I'm leaving. ** Those who come searching may not find what they seek, but those who join in, participate, and get to know the community might just strike luck eventually.