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During the Thanksgiving break, I got released from my cage and haven’t put it back on since. Things are a bit rough at home right now; Ms T wants to resume our chastity dynamic, but I’m holding off. It seems hard for me to slip back into that rhythm. We’ve discussed it repeatedly—she’s not fond of how things are currently, she misses her attentive partner. Has anyone else taken a pause and struggled to return? What do you think is the best approach? Thanks

Are you truly a slave to MsT? If so then you should be abiding her request. If you are just playing, and aren't really submissive to her at all then you will just have to tell her you are no longer interested. I'm sure youre hesitant however by your own admittance life is not good in your house now and she dosent like you this way. You will be fine after a day or so when you get back into your chastity.

If neither of you've made a commitment to the lifestyle then I don't see why it would be a problem. Alternately if one of you has, or has made an assumption on the other's behalf about their commitment then there may be a problem (I can talk to this from experience).

> MsT'sSlave said: > During the Thanksgiving break, I got released from my cage and haven't put it back on since. Things are a bit rough at home right now; Ms T wants to resume our chastity dynamic, but I'm holding off. It seems hard for me to slip back into that rhythm. We've discussed it repeatedly—she's not fond of how things are currently, she misses her attentive partner. Has anyone else taken a pause and struggled to return? What do you think is the best approach? > Thanks > Click to expand... What was your experience like while locked up? Did Ms T keep you aroused or teased through psychological cues or words? I find that being ignored strips all the joy out of chastity. A strict slave/domme relationship where a husband wears his device just because he's ordered to might not suit everyone. Risking angering some stricter dommes here, I suggest you talk with Ms. T about your need for her recognition to make the dynamic work and reclaim the husband she desires. It could be worth trying if you feel teasing will help bring you back to where she wants.