Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hey everyone, This is my very first post about anything related to Chastity at all. However, I was wandering around a sex shop, and the person I was with looked at a cabinet filled with tons of CBT equipment, and she asked me, “what scares you the most?”. Even though there were plenty of Kali’s teeth models, sounds devices, and some E-stim gear, I picked up the CB6000 that was sitting in the corner. “But, that looks so tame!” she said. I told her that the other stuff might be a bit painful or whatever, but it all revolved around sex being the end of the night. The Chastity device, by its own nature implies that I won’t be getting any release. Which weirdly put me off, and exhilarated me at the same time. I left without giving it too much thought, but started reading about Chastity like crazy. That was in May 2014. After a few months, I decided I wanted to tell my wife about it, perhaps to try it out. She completely laughed it off initially. Telling me that I could just staple my dick to a box or something if I wanted to avoid sex. I left it for a while, then I re-approached the subject, and mentioned how I wanted to change our relationship dynamic a bit. We have been married for a while, and I have always been pushy and dominant. I wanted to see what it was like for me to be submissive, but also for her to take charge. Well, long story short, we messed around a bit for a few weeks. Then something clicked inside her brain, and she decided that she absolutely loves having me locked up. I have been lock on and off since September, but she now locked me in an MM Jailbird on 12/18/14 and hasn’t let me out yet. Two nights ago, she asked me to give her oral and I gave her 6 big orgasms in a row. Now normally, she would always have sex with me after that and let me have an orgasm. When I asked if we can do that (I was still locked in the Jailbird while kissing her.) She almost laughed, and said “Absolutely not! I have just realized that my orgasms and pleasure are not connected with your orgasms. So, you are gonna wait for a while.” I asked her how long? And she said that she was gonna add a day for every time I ask her. She later dropped in the conversation something about how I will need to make sure a plastic or silicone device works before my trip in April. My jaw dropped, thinking this was just a game, and she said, “it was, but I see so many good things in you now while you are locked up, and I am loving being able to decide what happens to you. So, no, this just became real and I really like it.” I told her that I wasn’t at all sure about it, and want let out. She said that if I said it again she was gonna immediately add more time before she even thinks about playing with me. I know this sounds like a fake report of what every guy would want. But, I am actually looking at this speeding faster than I thought it would be, and am very excited, but starting to get a little nervous. Any thoughts from more experienced people on what I should do? :-)

Well I think firstly that you should be aware when you post here that not all members are "guys" Secondly, please consider that we are not all Americans which may have a bearing on the intrinsic value of your post. In fact most members here are actually European. Welcome to the mansion by the way. :-)

You have 2 choices. 1.) Accept your wife's decisions and go along with what she wishes. 2.) Cut the device off and risk upsetting her. As it was you who first mentioned Chastity, I assume you rather like the idea. It may seem like a rather long time to you since you were locked but it's only 9 days in reality. Your wife may be playing mind games with you.:)

Thank you B for getting things back on track.:-)

Look at it this way better a proper device rather than the early idea of stapling your willy to a box . Going to work with your boy bits attached to a tea chest lol.. Xx Wendy

> Mascara^Snake said: > Well I think firstly that you should be aware when you post here that not all members are "guys" Secondly, please consider that we are not all Americans which may have a bearing on the intrinsic value of your post. In fact most members here are actually European. > Welcome to the mansion by the way. >:) > Click to expand... Have we missed something here I cannot see why the OP should be made aware of anything. Has he said he thought it was all guys that read the posts? Where in the post does he say he thinks all the members are American? I cannot see the connection with this post and the original post. Someone please enlighten me