Chastity and orgasm denial discussion
To all the men and women who are committed to this long-term journey, how do you handle the urge to ejaculate? I keep obsessing over teasing and denial now,…
To all the men and women who are committed to this long-term journey, how do you handle the urge to ejaculate? I keep obsessing over teasing and denial now, feeling that strong need to cum. It’s pulling my attention away from what I ought to be doing this weekend. Do you have any suggestions????
go find your keyholder and offer to please em:D, thats about all you can do
Does she T&D you? If so then deal with it big boy.:) Dianne
Beg your KH to cum for you and allow you to serve her.
@DMc79 Are you not enjoying the heightened feelings that most males experience when being denied? Teasing will certainly help you to achieve these.
> Mistress B said: > @DMc79 Are you not enjoying the heightened feelings that most males experience when being denied? Teasing will certainly help you to achieve these. > Click to expand... Yes, I am enjoying those feelings. We had a nice dinner and will soon get ready for bed. A T&D session should help. I actually enjoy them too, while locked in chastity. I wonder if a 59 year old can have a wet dream at some point in the denial process. I've read that it could take 60+ days for it to happen, if it happens at all. I wonder if I will last that long. Edging can be tricky, but we are getting quite good at it after seven months.
This is my first lockup. I'm 10 days in and know what you mean. Going from a daily orgasm to 10 days of nothing is starting to get to me. But, that's what it's all about. I find it helps to just forget about it and fill your day with other activities. As wonderful as an orgasm is there's more important things in life than that blissful release. In finding chastity to be a way to focus on those things. When the lockup really hits me is when I lay down to go to bed. THAT'S when I can't get my mind off of it and all I want to do is stroke it like there's no tomorrow!
@DMc79 you have not actually said, how long you have been caged. The desire to have a male orgasm usually occurs in the second or third week of containment and whilst this never really goes away, it does lessen as time goes by. Or so I've been told.:)
> DMc79 said: > It is distracting me from what I should be doing > Click to expand... For me, this is the reason for the long term chastity, because short-term chastity has such a problem.