Female led relationships discussion

Hello everyone We all remember the tale of the shepherd boy who cried wolf repeatedly until no one believed him and he was devoured. I have been doing exactly that:( Mistress Deborah and I share a strong bond; ultimately, I am her husband, but I also serve as her sub and slave. We used to engage in our dynamic constantly, but after some health issues and remarks from our daughter, things became unsettled and less frequent. During a chat with Mistress, I asked why she stopped using my plug or having me wear the Butt Plug harness. It is something that drives me crazy yet excites me greatly. Her answer was straightforward: “You complained so much when I did it that I decided I just couldn’t be bothered anymore.” I didn’t realize how excessive I had become. I was quite stunned. I know there are times when I am a poor slave and an inadequate husband, but here I find myself losing the very thing that keeps me going. The thing that drives us both. So, perhaps joining in late to the celebration, Happy New Year.. A new resolution.. It is time to accept what I’m told and what I require, and just get on with it. And no more crying wolf! I apologize so much, Mistress Deborah xx Your loyal sub, Lucy xx