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I’m not referring to that typical discomfort I feel from putting off the chores on my list. No, this is genuine soreness caused by a lack of releases! My wife and I have been kinky since we first met, occasionally trying short-term sessions with my CB3000 for just over 24 hours… Then in December 2014, I put it on and handed the key to my wife. Since then, I’ve worn it continuously for about four weeks at a time. The CB3000 is becoming tricky for long-term use; specifically, the hinge point where the ring meets the body cuts into me no matter which direction I turn! Despite these quirks (I’m now considering getting a Holy Trainer), I feel great while locked up and actually miss it when it’s off. My wife has really embraced the idea of keeping me secured permanently, except during her chosen release times, which is wonderful!! It truly feels amazing because I never imagined this would become such a regular part of our routine. The only downside is that even though we are both willing, it becomes quite painful for me, and after a week, the soreness gets severe. This has happened twice now, and each time my wife was kind enough to let me out. My theory (which she disagrees with) is that since I’m accustomed to ejaculating at least twice daily—once in the morning when I wake up and once before bed—my testicles are producing more fluid than can be handled by a single weekly release. The last two times I hit that peak level of soreness, it seemed clear that emptying them relieved the pain. During one unlocked period, I did ejaculate; to me, this cleared a buildup, but she viewed it as non-consensual and locked me back up with those intriguing middle points, teasing and rubbing me until they went numb!! Ouch!!! I’m convinced I need to reduce my production rate before enduring longer stretches without release, similar to how a breastfeeding mother feels discomfort when engorged due to increasing demand! As mentioned, my wife still thinks I’m talking nonsense simply because I want to cum!! So I wonder if any of you have had comparable experiences while beginning your chastity journey and how do you handle it? Any guidance would be welcome. I’ve suggested that being teased relentlessly but allowed out twice a day for release might work best, but she just told me to get lost! What should I do?

I believe your soreness is less about the volume of ejaculate stored up and more likely tied to how much lubrication you apply between the cage ring and spacer, or possibly an issue with those components. First, I’d make sure there’s enough lube to last through the day. I eventually discovered that baby oil gel worked best for me, though everyone is different. Do inspect your ring and spacer setup carefully, as this often causes issues for many people. If you have a PA or similar security configuration, you can switch to a larger A-ring without compromising safety at all. If the problem lies with the actual hinge of the A-ring (perhaps the metal rivet is causing some kind of allergic reaction), this solution works well for both problems in some cases... Try using one of those long, thin balloons used by children's party entertainers who make balloon sculptures. Cut off both ends and slip it over your A-ring before putting on the cage so you can slide it past the joint; it has been known to help. Hope this helps.

@Eillydray your wife is right; you are talking nonsense. No matter how much mess there is, it certainly isn't stored in the testes itself. I would recommend a different cage.