Introductions discussion

I have been with my significant other for a little over five months. He recently told me about his experience with chastity and asked me to be his keyholder. I have tried it for two weeks and I do not like it. He enjoys it so much that he locks himself up. Is it possible to have a healthy relationship without chastity after he has experienced and liked it? Thank you.

That is a hard one to say, as each person will be different. Relationships are meant to be mutually satisfying and work best between people who have compatible outlooks. You do not like what you have seen of chastity and that is perfectly okay. No one should make you feel bad about it. he likes chastity and has decided if you will not key hold then he will just lock himself up. How does that make you feel? Is that something you can live with? Will he seek another keyholder? If he can give you the 'healthy' relationship you want then maybe it can work out from here.

Misstie… MY opinion is you should really try to meet him at least somewhere in the middle… Does not have to be all or nothing. I know for a fact it took a lot of courage for him to share this with you. AS I WOULD imagine he is submissive by nature… he would probably agree with you to keep peace in the relationship and please you.. but inside he will long for chastity and may grow to resent you… That I saw from experience… I have been in his exact shoes (or pumps LOL LOL) twice in my life in previous relationships.. and will NEVER GO BACK! So I guess just five months into this relationship you have to ask yourself how much he means to you? Obviously enough to seek advice? If not..be honest with him… cut your losses and move on…. I you can not share in each others kinks you both might be best of with someone else!:( Good luck and I really do respect you for seeking advice:) PET

What is it about chastity you don't like?

Thank you for the advice. I don't want him to be a yes man to me. I like being able to touch him and make him grow hard. I like the intimacy of having him inside of me. I enjoy feeling him orgasm in me. With chastity, you are withholding orgasm.